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rob_r_lpsg_7.5: here's my situation in a nutshell:

I've never once thought, "man, i want to fuck that guy"

I've never had the desire to suck off a guy

However, watching a guy w/ a 10''+ cock fuck the shit out of a girl is a huge turn-on.

It's purely a matter of wishing I was that big. That's the fascination

 

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rikter8: If your Single, Try it.

Just because you suck one guys dick does NOT make you GAY.

It makes you have an open mind, and a fuller life.

If you like it - then do it again - explore.

I hate these stereotypical "He looks at dicks so he must be gay"

Secondly - Whats wrong with being gay??!!

I don't know many straight guys (Around here) that can build engines and race them on the track like me, or can do as many things that I can do in construction or other things in life.

I'm proud to say I make straight guys around here question their sexuality because of my masculinity.

"How butch Are YOU?"

C

 

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raj: [quote author=rob_r_lpsg_7.5 link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=20#20 date=11/16/03 at 22:31:14]

I've never once thought, "man, i want to fuck that guy"

I've never had the desire to suck off a guy

However, watching a guy w/ a 10''+ cock fuck the shit out of a girl is a huge turn-on.

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And along those thoughts, it's very rare that str8 men can get to see a hard cock other than in porn movies. Society won't let us. Guys (humans) have a natural instinct to be curious. When I see a good looking hard cock in a movie, I can admire it for it's masculine strethgh. I love watching seeing a pussy getting stuffed by serious cock. Face it...it's why we all watch porn. And it's even more erotic if that cock looks like yours! Ever watch a guy with a nice looking cock fuck a chick and you transpose yourself into him and image yourself being him...DAH!

But I also don't even mind seeing a guy j/o. As an avid masturbator in addition to having a large penis, watching some guy also enjoy his manhood can also be erotic. I guess that is why I like str8 gang-bang movies...they have all the elements, str8 fucking, masturbation, vouyerism, exhibitionism. Watching (or being watched) someone having sex while also enjoying watching people enjoy themselves, can be very erotic. As someone who enjoys having my hard cock in my hand and admiring my masculinity, I can also enjoy watching some guy do the same. Sort of a male bonding thing. Our cocks are what make us men. I know I personally can get very narcisistic about my dick.

My curiousity, though, has never gone beyond that into have sex with a guy.

 

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pippi: [quote author=tracksuitboy link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=0#16 date=11/16/03 at 02:21:24]

Pippi your English is fine! (I bet the majority on this board have English as their primary or only language and couldn't write "I've got a big dick" in any other language! (That includes me! "J'ai un grand zizi? ???)

As for wanting to play around with another man's cock, all I will advise is that if the opportunity arises and the situation feels comfortable then do it.  What is the worst that could happen?  You may not like it; if so, then don't do it again.  On the other hand, it may open a whole new realm of experiences for you!

Someone (perhaps Oscar Wilde, I'm not sure) said that it is better to regret the things you have done rather than the things you haven't.[/quote]

My guess is that such situations wouldnt just arise, but i have to search them out actively. So anyone up for it?
(j/k)
Funny thing is that i am in a relation (actually i gonna be father in 6 month),but my girlfriend (yes, we never married) wouldnt even consider it cheating, if it would be with another man. It is like something different than she can give me, so there is no competition between her and a man.

 

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joe22xxx: To me watching a big dick getting sucked off or fucking a beautiful girl is not putting myself into the guy's place. I got a big dick already. I think it's just really erotic. It's also erotic to watch a guy with a big dick jerk & pop off. I can identify with him completely, and how it feels & looks. I think it is a male bonding kind of thing, but I don't understand it. I had that kind of relationship with my brother when I was in high school & I think I miss it a little.

 

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colin: Just joined a gym where one of my mates from work goes. When he found out I'd joined he asked me all the usual questions about what weights I was using etc and as I was leaving he asked if I was going to use the showers there. I said yeah, and only wondered why he'd asked that when I got back to my desk. At lunch that day he came from having been to the shops into reception to chat to the girl there. My desks behind the reception so I usually come and chat to them as well and i saw that hed been out and bought shower gel, which after his question earlier struck me as interesting. Anyway that night at the gym, he and his mate who he goes to the gym with were in the shower and I hung back feeling nervous about other guys seeing my dick. I went in after they'd come out and saw hanging from the shower rail the shower gel. Halfway through my shower my workmate came in (dressed) grabbed his shower gel and took long look at my dick. The next day at work we were chatting and he said to the girl "Colins got no need to worry, hes hung". I kind of laughed it off, but hes said the same a couple of times and once said had become "the envy of the gym". Aint sure its true, but comments like that, not meant to be rude can sure lift a guys spirits!

 

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captainstupid: sucking a dick is pretty gay (not that being gay is bad)

 

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HUMONGOUS: by definition any man that enjoys looking, touching, thinking, fantasizing about another man's cock is not straight. he may very well be bi-sexual. i say this because he may enjoy the sexual company of women. a lot of men will disagree with me because your ego will not allow you to think of yourself as bi-sexual. i have encountered some people on this board who consider themselves as straight yet hey say they will let another man give them a blow-job. get a grip, if another man is blowing you then you are not straight.

 

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[quote author=HUMONGOUS link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=20#27 date=11/18/03 at 08:35:18]

"...by definition any man that enjoys looking, touching, thinking, fantasizing about another man's cock is not straight. he may very well be bi-sexual. i say this because he may enjoy the sexual company of women. a lot  of men will disagree with me because your ego will not allow you to think of yourself as bi-sexual. i have encountered some people on this board who consider themselves as straight yet hey say they will let another man give them a blow-job. get a grip, if another man is blowing you then you are not straight.

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Not wishing to "split hairs" , quibble, nor make a fuss around here-- I must take issue again with that "labeling thing".

I re-read the very original comment starting this thread and the poster simply pointed out the curiosity and fascination between men and their respective penis sizes. "Labeling" didn't really get suggested, I believe.

Granted, if two men become involved in some kind of mutual sexual activity, THAT'S cause to wonder (to some extent) about sexual orientation (perhaps).

I still want to emphasize (for the relief and comfort of ALL of us men--regardless of orientation!) that our pre-occupation with our penis and wondering about the next fella's---comes with the territory of being men!
PERIOD------END of discussion.

We MUST quit fretting over the issues of "looking gay or bi or being mistaken for being such" when we show interest. Doing so....is a waste of valuable time and degrades from enjoying our lives. There IS more to worry about than applying a label to a person's sexual nature and behavior. --Good grief!

 

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HUMONGOUS: [quote author=benderten2001 link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=20#28 date=11/18/03 at 10:17:10]

Not wishing to "split hairs" , quibble, nor make a fuss around here-- I must take issue again with that "labeling thing".

I re-read the very original comment starting this thread and the poster simply pointed out the curiosity and fascination between men and their respective penis sizes.  "Labeling" didn't really get suggested, I believe.

Granted, if two men become involved in some kind of mutual sexual activity, THAT'S cause to  wonder (to some extent) about sexual orientation (perhaps).

I still want to emphasize (for the relief and comfort of ALL of us men--regardless of orientation!) that our pre-occupation with our penis and wondering about the next fella's---comes with the territory of being men!
PERIOD------END of discussion.

We MUST quit fretting over the issues of "looking gay or bi or being mistaken for being such" when we show interest.  Doing so....is a waste of valuable time and degrades from enjoying our lives.  There IS more to worry about than applying a label to a person's sexual nature and behavior.    --Good grief!
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you are entitled to your opinion and i am entitled to mine----while comparing sizes may or may not come with the territory of being a man-- being preoccupied with another man's penis as well as fantasizing, touching, etc is homosexual behavior and i did not give it this label. this is the label ascribed to it by society. i am merely pointing that out.  and yes there are people who feel uncomfortable with labels but for the most part society has categorized them and their behavior.  my comment sought to emphasize that you are not straight by definiton if you are touching, feeling, and playing with another man's penis and you are not. furthermore, if you are  to use your word "preoccupied" with another man's penis , then certainly there is a need for concern if you are calling yourself straight. be honest with yourself and explore your feelings. like i said the ego is powerful and will color your perception of things. think clearly about what was said, and respond to it. you are off course.  everyone on this board will pretty much adhre to being straight or bi-sexual. read the comments and follow the threads. there are societal categories and we cannot shun them and make beleive they do not exist, whether or not we like them , disagree though we may, they have been established and we use them to set us apart.. they help to establish who we are and for some people set up guidelines. what you are doing is just that--splitting hairs, quibbling and making a fuss. i did not invent "labeling". get a grip! good grief!

 

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A number of us in this forum speak up, post, and express ourselves very candidly.

For every one of us who does participate (via posting responses) there are untold numbers of others who "lurk", read, and do NOT contribute. THOSE are the ones whom I want to get something from this site.

Having been around here for a long time now, I have adopted the idea that what I say should have an impact on not only the "regulars" (the participants) but the silent ones as well. If I can help encourage, advise, or "ease the mind" of another man (or woman) with my comments, I will achieved my goal in writing a response.

This topic of penis fascination is so universal among us men. My message is to all of us is---we shouldn't feel guilty about wanting to know more about our own body and the natural curiosity about how we measure up to the next fella. THAT'S my point.

The only experience "with another guy" in my life was in high school in a "quick comparison session" with a
friend. --Over and done with in a matter of moments.

THAT occurred some 35 years ago.

That one instance did "haunt me" for a good bit, though.

'Started me wondering about that "label" thing.

Looking back now....it all seems so stupid.

 

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HUMONGOUS: benderten2001
i totally agree with you in that there are not enough of us speaking up. with 3500 members on this board i would like to see more comments from names that i do not normally see. i do not have a problem with the "usual suspcts" (lol) however i would like to incite some of the newest members to share thier thoughts and views. a  lot of the candid comments are thought provoking and surely inspire a response but unfortunately it is from the same or "regulars", as i tend to call them. i think that new members should not be intimidated. they should not have the fear that someone will pounce on them if they dare to express a controversial idea and that is the feeling one can get around here. i think that in our comments we should be respectful to one another and encourage each others to be less harsh when our thinking is somewhat different. only then will those less aggressive than ourselves feel truly free to speak up. i think we have set an example here benderten 2001

 

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rikter8: [quote author=captainstupid link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=20#26 date=11/18/03 at 07:07:27]sucking a dick is pretty gay (not that being gay is bad)[/quote]

Poor use of the word "Gay"

If ya can't get it right - don't use it.

 

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captainstupid: huh?

 

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tracksuitboy: [quote author=rikter8 link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=20#32 date=11/20/03 at 02:25:48]

Poor use of the word "Gay"

If ya can't get it right - don't use it.
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I'm not sure what you mean rikter8. Could one explain please?

 

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str8_nnj: Being a new member here and reading the different responses to the subject I felt a need to reply and explain my reason.
I suppose I fall into the admirer catagory. I'm a married
male of 52 years of age and love the female form in every way..(and some I couldn't imagine trying)..but a confident male who's well endowed and has a friendly way about him is attractive....and not in a gay sense.
The word curious is over used and leaves many asking
the next question....about what?...(and so goes it)
I don't consider myself gay...bi..or whatever tag you want to use. I have had fantasies as all males do...you know..couples...threesomes..two women...three women...and have traveled well through the "yahoo"
chat rooms...and chatted with both females and males about masturbation..a favor pastime of mine...but have never had the "urge" to do anything but that..masturbation..
Not meant to offend...but any sort of male contact other than masturbation is sort of a turn off to me.
Rather hard to explain...but like opinions and we all have them..."to each their own"

 

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tracksuitboy: Excellenty post NNJ - and welcome to the board!

As a gay member of the board I hope I can say for everyone that your post could not possibly be called offensive in any way. We're all terribly wary of upsetting anyone aren't we! (That's 'we' in the world, not necessarily 'we' on the board).

I completely understand that any sexual contact with a man would be a turn off if you are straight and, fairly obviously, I would find sexual contact with a woman as .. well, nausia inducing!

The point of my initial question in this thread was simply to ask why straight men were turned on or interested in other men with big cocks.

The answers have been interesting and varied and I thank everyone for them.

NNJ, I look forward to more excellent posts from you!

 

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roman25: this question recalls a thread I started a while back entitled "I held a man's penis for the first time".Although I am entirely straight,I was engaged in a dick comparison session with my girlfriend and a friend of hers who is hung just over 10 inches erect and very thick.Anyway to briefly recall the experience,I remember being in awe of this guy.His flacid dick was a tad longer than my erect one,which prompted light teasing from my girlfriend.It amazed me and I wound up holding it for a minute just to see what a dick like that felt like.It was awesome and for a second I almost wanted to suck it which my girl was promting me to do.I caught myself and didn't,but it was an amazing experience.
Anyway from my pov,my fascination with large dicks results from a desire to be hung like that.Although I wouldn't classify myself as small(7x6) I have what most averagely hung man fears:the fear that I will be deemed inadequate in bed by a woman seeking a larger penis.Or, entering a vagina that is very spacious and I am too small to offer much friction to the female(i've experienced this,very humbling).Men blessed with 9,10,11 etc long dicks willl never have to worry about disappointing a female in that regard.And although it's true that size shouldn't be everything in a relationship,you won't hear a female complaining if you're a nice guy and you're packing 10 inches.Hung men have a gift,and men like myself can only dream what it must be like to possess something so powerful.

 

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belcurv: [quote author=roman25 link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=20#37 date=11/22/03 at 04:17:58]....Although I am entirely straight,I was engaged in a dick comparison session with my girlfriend and a friend of hers who is hung just over 10 inches erect and very thick....I remember being in awe of this guy.....It was awesome and for a second I almost wanted to suck it which my girl was promting me to do.I caught myself and didn'....[/quote]

Isn't interesting that your gf wanted you to suck it? Why do you think she wanted to see that? To reaffirm her own feeling that a 10 inch cock was so totally irresistable, even a straight guy would want to suck it if he had the chance? And isn't that really why you wanted to??

I know that when my gf, now my wife, told me about her previous 11-inch-hung bf when we were first together, I still considered myself totally straight and couldn't imagine any kind of contact with another guy. But I was beyond turned on just to HEAR about how big he was, have her show me by holding her hands apart how long, tell me about how it felt, etc. Within a year she made the same suggestion to me, to "go ahead and try it" with a hung guy who was coming on to me in the locker room at our college gym/pool.

When I finally followed her advice, it was the most liberating sensation I ever experienced. Like I had lived in a cage until then. I never regretted finally doing what she suggested--just wish I had more opportunities than I did! Finding guys who entertain this kind of attention is unfortunately rare, as you can see by looking at these boards. Most are homophobic or homosexual, very few want to enjoy lying back and accept being worshipped by an instant convert--though I can't imagine anything hotter.

Cock size alone doesn't do it. He has to have the right attitude. It has to be a counterpart to those of us who accept their special gift the way you and I did--sort of like a "religious experience." My wife's 11-inch ex met with us and we wanted to invite him to join us...until he came across as a total dufus, and I could see why she dropped him. His personality was such a dud, it cancelled out the power of his cock.

But likable, NICE dudes who are super hung and are able to accept the physical expression of this kind of awe from (otherwise) "straight" guys who have a "religious experience" when confronted by their amazing physiognomies just totally ROCK. The hottest night of my life was when an 18 year old straight guy let me explain for several hours why I had decided I was awed by cock size...and then laid back and let me suck, admire, suck, admire, empty his balls, keep sucking and admiring until he came again...about a five hour session that lasted til morning light.

When it comes to dudes like this, their exceptional bodies reflect their exceptionally giving souls. They and those of us who rise above lifetimes of social conditioning--I mean brainwashing--with them this way are the ultimate sexual revolutionaries.

 

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meathose10: Big dicks command attention. Guys stare at my cock because of it 's size all the time. The attention isn't particularly sexual - just awed. I think there's a lot to the notion that smaller men would love to be as well equipped and give me those yearning looks because they're wondering what it would be like to stuff a girl like I can. So they watch. Huge size is magnetic. I become aroused frequently when stared at, and get a thick , heavy semi. This seems to be appreciated. I've been asked if I hurt women more than once. I laugh and say you learn to be patient and go slow. Guys tell their friends to get a look. Just admiring an asset like any other. Normal. I'm a show-off anyhow , so it's great. Certain guys have asked to nurse on it , but I turn the mouth service down - at least for the most part. No harm there either , but I like using it on a sweet pussy too much to waste a load.