Straight guys, please help me understand.

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Ok I think it's clear now despite having brothers and straight male friends that I haven't a fooking clue how straight men think or about how much power a woman can have over them.

I went to the kitchen to get a drink and there was a song from south pacific playing on the radio, there is nothing like a dame I heard these lyrics and thought wtf? Is that how women makes straight men feel???


We feel restless, we feel blue,
We feel lonely, and in brief,
We feel ev'ry kind of feelin',
But the feelin' of relief
We feel hungry as the wolf felt
When he met Red Hiding-hood
What don't we feel?
We don't feel good!


Do women hold that much power? It would help me be more tolerant and understanding of the asinine behaviour I've witnessed from straight blokes when a woman is around.

I really really love my straight male friends and brothers but sometimes I think wtf why do you act like that? what specifically are you thinking? Yes we're all human and all have sex drive but wtf it's only sex, I don't understand.

It's the internet and everyone is anonymous could I have an honest answer? When I've called friends out on their behaviour genuinely wanting to understand they've always played it down, dodge the subject or flat out denied it, why???
 

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I think it's pretty much explained by the relative difficulty of getting a woman to have sex with you vs. the ease of finding a guy. If you're gay, you've probably never experienced that ongoing frustration.
 
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There's music like that because there's apparently a market for it. Not every guy can listen to sick songs about breaking things and being awesome like metallica and knife party.

But know, if you're mentally and physically stable, you don't feel that way about women. I was raised to be made to believe otherwise however, and in essence had to reprogram myself.
 
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Sexual attraction is part of it for sure but some women (or perhaps many women) are psychos so all the beauty and sexiness in the world doesn't make up the difference! But the 'right' woman for you is someone who is intellectually compatible, who loves you and want's to please you and, of course, has an erotic attachment to you as you do to her. If you get all those ingredients together, and many couples do have all these ingredients, then that woman is almost the be-all and end-all. You miss her when she's away, you're glad just to be with her when she's home and, of course, you fantasise about the next time you have sex with her too.

A woman will do almost anything for the man she loves and that what makes them so loveable.
 
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Pussy is like an intoxicating drug, maybe that's why they call the other one "crack".

Throughout history men have lied, stolen, cheated and killed for pussy. Pussy has caused wars and nations to fall. It drives much of what we do in life.

The stuff is good it ain't no lie.