Straight guys see gay guys kissing...

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  1. Satsfakshun

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    Don't mean to be stuck on straight boy questions, but... (Maybe I am stuck on straight guys. :smile:)

    To all you straight guys, what was your reaction the first time you saw two guys kissing? It's pretty commonplace in movies and videos today, so I guess it's not so shocking, but does it bug you? Do you avoid looking at it? (Did Brokeback Mountain make you nervous? Just kidding....) Not bothered at all?

    Just for the record, I'd never thought about it until it happened to me. The first time I kissed a guy, who happened to be pretty sexy, I ejaculated. Now it's one of my favorite activities.
     
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    I didn't think very much of it. Two people that I'm not attracted to were kissing. Good for them. And no reason for me to keep looking.
     
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    Shrugged it off as weird. I was young.
     
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    It is like not paying attention and walking into a a wall
     
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    May take little bit interest, in terms of suspense (What will happen next, how they make it etc. as we watch a porn :)).
     
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    Tbh it made me cringe and had to look away. However the first time I saw two girls kiss that didn't bother me one bit, it was actually a turn on.
     
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    As a girl I find seeing two guys of any sexual orientation kissing to be very beautiful. To be honest it also is quite arousing if I find the guys attractive. I think for me it's about male vulnerability, and it's extremely exciting to know that there are men who have that as a part of their personality. Warm and loving guys are the sexiest ever.
     
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    Just mind my business. If two people of opposite sex were kissing, I'd do the same.
     
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    I've always wondered about this. Why are some straight guys/girls seemingly SO grossed out by guys kissing?

    I'm not talking about all out making out. That's kinda something that really doesn't belong out in public anyway.

    But seriously, it's an expression of affection that is exactly the same for two guys as it is for two girls or a guy and a girl.
     
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    I don't remember the first time I saw it, but my current reaction is neutral.
     
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    I have a bit of a negative reaction to it. I try to talk myself out of that reaction, but still I must admit I'm a little turned off. For some strange reason, watching two guys kiss is more bothersome than seeing them do something else sexually.
     
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    I was disgusted and made sure to say something.
     
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    Do you still feel this way? And would you still say something?
     
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    There is nothing more interesting to me than my orgasm and the girl I'm with's orgasm and nothing less interesting to me than the orgasms of other people. I feel the same way about kissing.
     
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    I don't know how I felt the first time I saw two gay guys kissing, and I'm not sure I can even tell you about that... how did I know if they were gay? In some parts of the world (even in traditional families in the United States with recent -- say, 2 or 3 generations -- immigrant status), seeing men kissing is not shocking.
     
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    ^ The definition of gross: When you kiss your grampa goodbye and he slips you the tongue. :biggrin2:
     
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    Who cares? Why are we giving people the chance to express their interalized homophobia? I couldn't give a shit what anyone else has to say about who I kiss in public. Not exactly doing it for them. Also? I know a lot of women like the poster before who rather enjoy that sort of event...
     
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    No reason to get angry, but isn't t a bit intriguing to ask yourself or others to try to explain what and why they have such a different reaction to it?
     
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    The same thing I do when I see a guy and girl kiss, move on. The only time I'd watch a couple kiss is if they were hot lesbians. I attribute this to the fact that I love they way an attractive woman's face looks. But guy's faces, even if they look like Brad Pitt or something (who I know is very good looking, it's obvious.), don't do anything for me at all. So it just isn't interesting. Also it's always made me a little jealous when I see a guy and a girl making out.
     
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    I'm just happy when I see any two people kissing whatever their gender. We need more kissing in the world anyway.
     
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