Straight guys see gay guys kissing...

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It is common in many cultures for men to kiss and hug in greeting - especially in family situations. I am referring to Italian, Greek, and mediterranean cultures, and here in the USA, these traditions continue in many cases.

In any event, seeing two people of the same sex kiss in 2010 should not shock anyone. If you don't approve, look away and move on.
 

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The same thing I do when I see a guy and girl kiss, move on. The only time I'd watch a couple kiss is if they were hot lesbians. I attribute this to the fact that I love they way an attractive woman's face looks. But guy's faces, even if they look like Brad Pitt or something (who I know is very good looking, it's obvious.), don't do anything for me at all. So it just isn't interesting. Also it's always made me a little jealous when I see a guy and a girl making out.


young brad pitt had very effeminate features so he might be an exception to this rule, although i don't really care for lesbians. i like straight women because i like having sex with them, i like straight guys cause we share common experiences and interests (like sex with women), and i like gay guys because they can be bros too. lesbian women are just boring people i have nothing in common with and who will never fuck me.
 

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young brad pitt had very effeminate features so he might be an exception to this rule, although i don't really care for lesbians. i like straight women because i like having sex with them, i like straight guys cause we share common experiences and interests (like sex with women), and i like gay guys because they can be bros too. lesbian women are just boring people i have nothing in common with and who will never fuck me.

Are you saying that the only way you can relate to people is through your dick? And because lesbians are less likely to be able to relate to you through your dick you find them "boring"? Just making sure I'm not making this up...
 

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My first experience like that was when I saw deliverence... to this day I love toothless yokels in coveralls, and the phrase, "you sure do have a purdy mouth." Oh and being tied to a tree and letting all have their way... "Squeel!"
 

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Are you saying that the only way you can relate to people is through your dick? And because lesbians are less likely to be able to relate to you through your dick you find them "boring"? Just making sure I'm not making this up...

I agree dude... those are some pretty broad brush strokes... you have some kind of prejudice against lesbians... I don't get it...
 

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lesbian women are just boring people i have nothing in common with and who will never fuck me.

OMG!! I have to tell you that some lesbians will want to fuck you if they find out about your cock.

I was accosted by a lesbian lady at the mall. (I knew she was lesbian because I have seen her at the lesbian bar where I worked at the time.) She were talking about the bar at the time. She kinda segued into "Would I mind fucking her in her JEEP?" She was horny and heard from one of my gay guy hookups at the bar that I had a nice cock. I told her NO.

:mad:Some reason every time I meet a lesbian like that...I feel like they want my semen to have a baby.:mad:
 

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OMG!! I have to tell you that some lesbians will want to fuck you if they find out about your cock.

I was accosted by a lesbian lady at the mall. (I knew she was lesbian because I have seen her at the lesbian bar where I worked at the time.) She were talking about the bar at the time. She kinda segued into "Would I mind fucking her in her JEEP?" She was horny and heard from one of my gay guy hookups at the bar that I had a nice cock. I told her NO.

:mad:Some reason every time I meet a lesbian like that...I feel like they want my semen to have a baby.:mad:

And they do. I have a 17 year old son with a lesbian couple from Chicago.I fucked both of them to see who would get pregant. They loved it. Not like they dont have the strap-ons laying around the house Lesbians are cool.

As far as some of the hate that was said on here is usally what goes on. If you look on the side and see how straight the man considers himself, 100% usally has no problem with it. Its the ones that have a little less than that. They are the ones that spew all the hate. There was a study done at DePaul university in Chicago on homophobia. The men that had the biggest problem were the ones that got a erection during gay xxx films. This is what I have scene all my life. If I see a man that is homophobic, I just tell him he is either wanting it or just did it a few hours ago and is trying to keep all off his tracks. Watch and read. You will see. How many other gay men have noticed this?:biggrin1:
 

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kind of whatever, like i could care less. slightly grossed out, but only in the same way if i saw 2 totally unattractive straight ppl kissing. 2 girls kissing doesn't do a whole lot for me really, maybe a little if they're both attractive. however a good looking or even average looking straight couple kissing is a turnon.. im odd like that.
 

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I have a bit of a negative reaction to it. I try to talk myself out of that reaction, but still I must admit I'm a little turned off. For some strange reason, watching two guys kiss is more bothersome than seeing them do something else sexually.

might be because kissing is a sign of affection, it's intimate and generally considered private due to the fact (heavy making out I mean, but honestly it depends on where you're from). Other sexual expressions are less intimate, and more raunchy. Just because a guy you know is topping another does not mean he's necessarily being intimate with him, or means that he finds him attractive at all. Kissing does. I pin-point this as being the reason kissing can be a big deal for a lot of people, whereas the actual matters less so. There are countless examples where a lot of men who prefer women top men, so its more natural for that act not matter as much.
 

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Don't mean to be stuck on straight boy questions, but... (Maybe I am stuck on straight guys. :smile:)

To all you straight guys, what was your reaction the first time you saw two guys kissing? It's pretty commonplace in movies and videos today, so I guess it's not so shocking, but does it bug you? Do you avoid looking at it? (Did Brokeback Mountain make you nervous? Just kidding....) Not bothered at all?

Just for the record, I'd never thought about it until it happened to me. The first time I kissed a guy, who happened to be pretty sexy, I ejaculated. Now it's one of my favorite activities.

Something like "Oh... there's two guys kissing".

I notice it. It's out of the ordinary. So it catches my eye, but no real reaction apart from that. Doesn't bug me, I don't suddenly avert my eyes, but I don't stare with jaw agape either :)
 

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I had a friend that specifically told me not to be affectionate with my girlfriend in his presence, because it made him uncomfortable. Yet he felt the need to sporadically shout vulgar comments about penis and cum all the time. I just avoid him now.
 

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young brad pitt had very effeminate features so he might be an exception to this rule, although i don't really care for lesbians. i like straight women because i like having sex with them, i like straight guys cause we share common experiences and interests (like sex with women), and i like gay guys because they can be bros too. lesbian women are just boring people i have nothing in common with and who will never fuck me.

This doesn't make any sense to me in relation to seeing people kiss. The only thing that really factors into seeing kissing for me is the attractiveness of the two people kissing, especially in the face area. Besides, if you see two girls kissing, how do you know that they aren't bi? I always thought the common "idea" was that they really aren't lesbians, they are just trying to get guys attentions (which may be true sometimes, but it is still stupid to think that every time).

I'm probably in the minority since I don't enjoy seeing m/f couples kiss. It actually bothers me in porn unless it is amateur, and they have to be getting busy at the same time for me to enjoy it.

Edit: I feel I should note that when I mean kissing I'm talking about making out kissing, not just a peck on the lips. To me that is a kiss, but at the same time to me it isn't kissing because the duration is so short. Just a normal kiss doesn't bug me no matter what the combination since it is almost nothing.
 
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I spend about 50 weeks a year in the Seattle and Portland metro-areas, so that's hardly a new sight for me; it doesn't bother me at all.