Straight guys see gay guys kissing...

[chesz001]

i may notice but i wouldn't mind looking back again..its like seeing two guys holding hands..

two girls might get my attention though..

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

This doesn't make any sense to me in relation to seeing people kiss. The only thing that really factors into seeing kissing for me is the attractiveness of the two people kissing, especially in the face area. Besides, if you see two girls kissing, how do you know that they aren't bi? I always thought the common "idea" was that they really aren't lesbians, they are just trying to get guys attentions (which may be true sometimes, but it is still stupid to think that every time).

I'm probably in the minority since I don't enjoy seeing m/f couples kiss. It actually bothers me in porn unless it is amateur, and they have to be getting busy at the same time for me to enjoy it.

Edit: I feel I should note that when I mean kissing I'm talking about making out kissing, not just a peck on the lips. To me that is a kiss, but at the same time to me it isn't kissing because the duration is so short. Just a normal kiss doesn't bug me no matter what the combination since it is almost nothing.

i don't care about the attractiveness of people's faces when they are kissing because i don't give a shit about other people kissing one way or the other. it isn't a turn on for me.

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

Are you saying that the only way you can relate to people is through your dick? And because lesbians are less likely to be able to relate to you through your dick you find them "boring"? Just making sure I'm not making this up...

im just saying im more likely to hang out with males because it has always been that way. the fucking women thing was a joke. i really don't find the notion of lesbian sex particularly arousing though. i find the idea of gay male sex down right revolting when i actually think about it. i don't spend much time thinking about either of those things though and in normal life get along with all tyes just fine.

 

[DeeRock]

hummm

 

[gymfresh]

To all you straight guys, what was your reaction the first time you saw two guys kissing?

My guess is that for some it was weird and uncomfortable to see, and for others it didn't really evoke anything. I base that on the converse for me... until I was about 20 I paid literally no attention to TV and magazine ads of men and women kissing. They may as well have been taking out the trash. It literally evoked nothing in me, something that would no doubt dismay the product sponsors if there were a lot of people like me. For 20 years I didn't know I was supposed to have a positive, visceral reaction, so I didn't.

Then I saw two guys holding hands and kissing, and wham... it's like my world went from black-and-white to color. Suddenly I got the whole idea of why affection/sex sells products. It hooks people in. I could relate.

I sheepishly admit I'm a little like The DofD. He's unaffected by males and females he's not actively engaged with or engaging, and I have no reaction to females that surround me. To be more blunt, I react the same way to females as I react to trees or tables. They're just there, but not exactly... animate. Well, animate, but ornamental. We pass through the same universe, but ultimately will not have sex or probably anything to talk about. So, a man hugging a woman is not grotesque to me, but neither is a man hugging a tree. 'Bout the same.

Maybe most straight men today are equally blasé about 2 guys.

 

[sbat]

Meh. Lived in Dupont Circle. Saw it all the time. It's like seeing a straight couple kiss now. Or a bird fly by. Or a lamp. Like anything else.

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

Meh. Lived in Dupont Circle. Saw it all the time. It's like seeing a straight couple kiss now. Or a bird fly by. Or a lamp. Like anything else.

hey i live there now

 

[mikeagp]

I'm just happy when I see any two people kissing whatever their gender. We need more kissing in the world anyway.

what a fantastic reply - took the words out of my mouth. if more people thought like this, the world would be a much better place.