bbjj: i attend this school where it seems all the big dick guys got to, most of them are about 10 or more. when i wouold go into the shower, mostly all the jocks and athletes are hung. there's a couple of guys that are straight and masc. acting and say they have let guys (some on the team) blow them. especially if their girl is on the rag or they're really horny at school. is this true? has anyone let a guy blow them (at school or anywhere) to get that load off? some of these guys act as if its a regular thing? a few have hinted to me.
rainfletcher: I'm a streight guy, and the thought of receiving oral from another man has never really occurred to me. But there are many posts in here from married guys who occasionally engage in some form of sex with other men.
For some people, it's just another form of sex, and has no significance what-so-ever outside of that. I can only speak for myself, but I've never been attracted or interested in another man in that way...
For some people, it's just another form of sex, and has no significance what-so-ever outside of that. I can only speak for myself, but I've never been attracted or interested in another man in that way...
BiggerIsBetter: I have to say as a gay cocksucker that there are moments -- especially when the other guy is hung -- when I just want to say Hey, it's only a blowjob! What's the problem?
But then I try to put myself in the reverse situation and remember what I would say if a woman came up to me and said Hey, it's only a blowjob...
I think Kinsey was right in that there are degrees of sexuality. I just happen to be at one extreme of that scale; thank god there are plenty who exist in between. Especially those that are hung.
But then I try to put myself in the reverse situation and remember what I would say if a woman came up to me and said Hey, it's only a blowjob...
I think Kinsey was right in that there are degrees of sexuality. I just happen to be at one extreme of that scale; thank god there are plenty who exist in between. Especially those that are hung.
anonymous_pole: There was aguy I used to work with that offered me gifts and cash(obscene amounts) to let him give me a BJ, but I just don't swing that way.I just wonder why I can't get a woman that interested...
Is it just me or has the spelling gotten worse? One quick question for all the staight guys out there. Are you still straight if you let another guy suck you off? Serious. I have been on a personals site and there are "straight" guys who want other guys to give them oral. Excuse me, but that makes you bisexual in my book.
drrionelli: geo, I think that, again, we can make a bit more of labels than need be necessary. Of course, this is just my opinion.
We first need very specific definitions for "straight", "bisiexual", "gay", "asexual" and a whole host of other so-called orientations. All things considered, elements of other concepts are not necessarily strictly confined to labels. Music, for example, may well have elements of jazz and rock and folk. It's still music on any of a number of levels, and certainly worthy of appreciation.
Personally, I think that if we would worry less about what we call ourselves and worry more about making ourselves (and our partners) happy, we'd be a bit better off.
By the way, please don't think that the tone of this post is negative. Quite to the contrary. I find your posts to be very informative well thought out. I'm even inclined to agree with your observation about the spelling!
It's just my two cents worth.
We first need very specific definitions for "straight", "bisiexual", "gay", "asexual" and a whole host of other so-called orientations. All things considered, elements of other concepts are not necessarily strictly confined to labels. Music, for example, may well have elements of jazz and rock and folk. It's still music on any of a number of levels, and certainly worthy of appreciation.
Personally, I think that if we would worry less about what we call ourselves and worry more about making ourselves (and our partners) happy, we'd be a bit better off.
By the way, please don't think that the tone of this post is negative. Quite to the contrary. I find your posts to be very informative well thought out. I'm even inclined to agree with your observation about the spelling!
It's just my two cents worth.
Charles88: I haven't, nor have I ever thought about getting head from another guy. I know that in highschool, some of my friends that were straight, would "experiment" a little bit and suck each others cocks.
belcurv: We've kind of been talking about this idea of "straight" men who accept oral sex from other men over under the "relationships" section, under the post, "DEFINE STRAIGHT, OPEN-MINDED." I brought up the fact that in the context of swingers personals, "straight open-minded" or "straight, very open-minded" are often code words for men who can enjoy some limited sexual contact with other men in the right situation, with the right guys, if approached the right way, etc., meaning they might like to let other dudes blow them or go down on other guys themselves, for examples But they are usually looking for like-minded men, and have a hard time relating to "gay" men. (I have always had tons of gay friends myself and have been active in glbt activism at times but found it almost impossible to enjoy sex or attempt to get into more serious romantic relationships with most gay men because I always found that they think of relating to other men so differently from me.) "Straight-acting" may be a term that shows how gay men think of those who may actually BE basically straight-identified, not just "acting".
Anyway, I hate to say it but pretty much the ONLY men I've really enjoyed any kind of sex or erotic relationship with were bi men or straight guys who were bi curious or experimenting, and those have been far and few between, very hard to find (at least ones who don't seem likely to be crawling with fatal diseases). One friend with similar feelings once said to me, he thought gay men approached sex too mechanically, like "they have this attitude, like they just want to get together and 'let's make these things squirt!'" I agreed then, but that was before HIV was a big crisis, I think it's become more romantic and less slam-bam among gay men since then. OTH, I always found men who relate equally or mostly to women tend to be more complex and more interested in making it interesting in ways that I can relate to better. I almost never watch gay porn, almost always prefer straight porn...though I often imagine myself with both the actor and actress, including things like blowing the actor!
Maybe because of the lifting of the taboo against gayness, this generation of "straight" males are getting more "open-minded," LOL.
Next thing you know it'll be like ancient Rome and the Senate will have to pass a bill requiring men to sleep with their wives once a year to repopulate the country.
Anyway, I hate to say it but pretty much the ONLY men I've really enjoyed any kind of sex or erotic relationship with were bi men or straight guys who were bi curious or experimenting, and those have been far and few between, very hard to find (at least ones who don't seem likely to be crawling with fatal diseases). One friend with similar feelings once said to me, he thought gay men approached sex too mechanically, like "they have this attitude, like they just want to get together and 'let's make these things squirt!'" I agreed then, but that was before HIV was a big crisis, I think it's become more romantic and less slam-bam among gay men since then. OTH, I always found men who relate equally or mostly to women tend to be more complex and more interested in making it interesting in ways that I can relate to better. I almost never watch gay porn, almost always prefer straight porn...though I often imagine myself with both the actor and actress, including things like blowing the actor!
Maybe because of the lifting of the taboo against gayness, this generation of "straight" males are getting more "open-minded," LOL.
Next thing you know it'll be like ancient Rome and the Senate will have to pass a bill requiring men to sleep with their wives once a year to repopulate the country.
Dickprint: I had the best bjs from men and also the most. I consider myself straight, but when it comes to getting a quality bj, im bi sexual. guys just have the right attitude and enthusiasm. 10 years ago, i would have never let a man blow me, now i wished i didnt wait. nothing beats having a personal cocksucker on a regular basis. they want to blow u more than u wanna get blown, and hell it seems as thought they might even enjoy it more than u do
belcurv: [quote author=Dickprint link=board=sex;num=1065797493;start=0#8 date=12/07/03 at 23:55:11]10 years ago, i would have never let a man blow me, now i wished i didnt wait. [/quote]
You hit it right on the head, Dickprint. That's exactly how I feel--until the term "personal cocksucker" takes its deserved place as a title of honor instead of derision, I'll forego adding that moniker to my business card, but I sure would make a talented bj buddy on the giving end for some straight hung dude who just wants to lie back and receive. And when I think back to how frustrated I was all through my teen years and college when I was homophobic and thought I was strictly, absolutely straight, and would have killed to be on the receiving end of a daily "enthusiastic" facefuck, dying to get my dick serviced, and popped 7.5 inch wood some guy would have gladly taken care of for me, I kick myself.
You hit it right on the head, Dickprint. That's exactly how I feel--until the term "personal cocksucker" takes its deserved place as a title of honor instead of derision, I'll forego adding that moniker to my business card, but I sure would make a talented bj buddy on the giving end for some straight hung dude who just wants to lie back and receive. And when I think back to how frustrated I was all through my teen years and college when I was homophobic and thought I was strictly, absolutely straight, and would have killed to be on the receiving end of a daily "enthusiastic" facefuck, dying to get my dick serviced, and popped 7.5 inch wood some guy would have gladly taken care of for me, I kick myself.
hung: If most everything was truthful they would admit that during High School and even College that they experimented with sexual activity. A good number of these experiments involved sex or oral sex experiments with members of the same sex. Does that make one gay or even bi-sexual. I think not.
Just as drinking beer while in High School and/or College does not make you an alcoholic. Most everyone has experimented. This is all part of growing up.
Even though I was involved in some experiments, circle jerks, etc. let me assure you that I consider myself a hetrosexual.
Just as drinking beer while in High School and/or College does not make you an alcoholic. Most everyone has experimented. This is all part of growing up.
Even though I was involved in some experiments, circle jerks, etc. let me assure you that I consider myself a hetrosexual.
drrionelli: What hung said further drives home my point (and I thank you for that, hung). Unless or until we have precise working definitions of how we describe ourselves in terms of gay, straight, bi,... whatever, we cannot use such terms with any degree of veracity.
There are really so many more things of so much more consequence that we could be addressing. Of course, if one chooses to be known in a certain way for reasons of whatever he/she wishes, then fine. More power to such persons. But, if that is the case, then please, by all means, define what you are for purposes of clarity to others to whom it might be pertinent.
There are really so many more things of so much more consequence that we could be addressing. Of course, if one chooses to be known in a certain way for reasons of whatever he/she wishes, then fine. More power to such persons. But, if that is the case, then please, by all means, define what you are for purposes of clarity to others to whom it might be pertinent.
belcurv: [quote author=hung link=board=sex;num=1065797493;start=0#10 date=12/08/03 at 11:29:05]If most everything was truthful they would admit that during High School and even College that they experimented with sexual activity.
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You just reminded me that one factor that influenced me to go ahead and experiment (btw I didn't experiment til I was 23, in grad school, so I guess I was retarded) was that I was studying in the library and noticed a book open to a page about the Kinsey studies which showed that 38% of all males had at one time or another tried some sort of sex with another male to the point of orgasm. I'm sure that took some of the fear out of giving it a try.
But why should people stop being, er, openminded and experimenting after high school? Hardening of the cerebral arteries??
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You just reminded me that one factor that influenced me to go ahead and experiment (btw I didn't experiment til I was 23, in grad school, so I guess I was retarded) was that I was studying in the library and noticed a book open to a page about the Kinsey studies which showed that 38% of all males had at one time or another tried some sort of sex with another male to the point of orgasm. I'm sure that took some of the fear out of giving it a try.
But why should people stop being, er, openminded and experimenting after high school? Hardening of the cerebral arteries??
jerkin4-10: hmmm...experimentation...well...maybe i grew up in mars...but never did circle jerk...had any inclination to blow or be blown by the same sex anyway...i grew up in oklahoma and arkansas...so i guess im a redneck hillbilly...not interested in getting a blowski from a guy...
have nothing against gays really...everyone deserves to love and be loved...but pass me on the same sex blowski...
have nothing against gays really...everyone deserves to love and be loved...but pass me on the same sex blowski...
Dantesco: I think we should bear in mind that sexuality is not about where we put our dicks but what goes on in our minds. It has been discussed on this board before. I was always the "straight. open-minded" guy. I still am. I never had any problems talking with, or even jokingly flirting with, gay men. It just doesnt bother me because people are people. But that doesnt mean that I actively entertained the thought of having sex with another man. From my college age on I was probably a 1 on the Kinsey Scale because I came to realize that engaging in sex with another man wasnt completely out of the realm of possibility. I never pursued a sexual experience with a man and I dont think that I ever will. But I have recently experienced sex with a man, or more accurately with two men. I have no regrets about the encounter and it was pleasurable on a physical level. I mean, c'mon: being fully deep-throated for the first time ever is bound to be enjoyable. Having a connection with these two men was a factor. They are my friends. I never couldve had a gay sexual tryst with men I didnt know or didnt like. This was more than a mere physical act. So am I saying that Im now bisexual? Not at all. Im sexually attracted to women, not men. I could never have a romantic relationship with a man. I had a single gay episode. It might not happen again. Though it wasnt unagreeable sex, it wasnt the sort of thing that I would actively seek as a sexual outlet. So I would definitely say that a heterosexual man can experience, and even enjoy, homosexual activity and still remain heterosexual.
throb919: [quote author=belcurv link=board=sex;num=1065797493;start=0#12 date=12/08/03 at 18:12:23]
...one factor that influenced me to go ahead and experiment was that I was studying in the library and noticed a book open to a page about the Kinsey studies which showed that 38% of all males had at one time or another tried some sort of sex with another male to the point of orgasm...[/quote]
So my leaving that book lying about worked, huh? I'm just sorry I wasn't in the stacks when you were ready to experiment...
...one factor that influenced me to go ahead and experiment was that I was studying in the library and noticed a book open to a page about the Kinsey studies which showed that 38% of all males had at one time or another tried some sort of sex with another male to the point of orgasm...[/quote]
So my leaving that book lying about worked, huh? I'm just sorry I wasn't in the stacks when you were ready to experiment...
[quote author=Dantesco link=board=sex;num=1065797493;start=0#14 date=12/08/03 at 21:14:38]I think we should bear in mind that sexuality is not about where we put our dicks but what goes on in our minds. It has been discussed on this board before. I was always the "straight. open-minded" guy. I still am. I never had any problems talking with, or even jokingly flirting with, gay men. It just doesnt bother me because people are people. But that doesnt mean that I actively entertained the thought of having sex with another man. From my college age on I was probably a 1 on the Kinsey Scale because I came to realize that engaging in sex with another man wasnt completely out of the realm of possibility. I never pursued a sexual experience with a man and I dont think that I ever will. But I have recently experienced sex with a man, or more accurately with two men. I have no regrets about the encounter and it was pleasurable on a physical level. I mean, c'mon: being fully deep-throated for the first time ever is bound to be enjoyable. Having a connection with these two men was a factor. They are my friends. I never couldve had a gay sexual tryst with men I didnt know or didnt like. This was more than a mere physical act. So am I saying that Im now bisexual? Not at all. Im sexually attracted to women, not men. I could never have a romantic relationship with a man. I had a single gay episode. It might not happen again. Though it wasnt unagreeable sex, it wasnt the sort of thing that I would actively seek as a sexual outlet. So I would definitely say that a heterosexual man can experience, and even enjoy, homosexual activity and still remain heterosexual. [/quote]
(No, those are not emoticons, those are my eyes !!!! In fact, one should hear me endlessly wow-ing in front of the screen !!)
Sooo, it happened !!! This came as the hottest surprise of the year to me !!!! Caro cugino... ciò è stupefacente, davvero !
I look at the little black devil on my left soulder... he looks back, grins and says : " ... that's just the beginning... that's the way you started, Radu. Dantesco will try again..." ;D
Of course, I'm kidding. But bravo, splendid, I'm thilled to find out ! (...I'm such a pervert...) !
...wow... wow... wow... wow....
PS - you have a new IM, Dante
(No, those are not emoticons, those are my eyes !!!! In fact, one should hear me endlessly wow-ing in front of the screen !!)Sooo, it happened !!! This came as the hottest surprise of the year to me !!!! Caro cugino... ciò è stupefacente, davvero !
I look at the little black devil on my left soulder... he looks back, grins and says : " ... that's just the beginning... that's the way you started, Radu. Dantesco will try again..." ;D
Of course, I'm kidding. But bravo, splendid, I'm thilled to find out ! (...I'm such a pervert...
) ! ...wow... wow... wow... wow....
PS - you have a new IM, Dante
Dantesco: [quote author=Raal Lexx link=board=sex;num=1065797493;start=0#16 date=12/10/03 at 10:30:39]
"Dantesco will try again..." ;D
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Forse sì, forse no. Chi sa? But I wouldnt bet good money on it. (Can we count euros as "good money"?) It was probably a one time thing. Besides the aftermath has left me in an uncomfortable situation.
"Dantesco will try again..." ;D
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Forse sì, forse no. Chi sa? But I wouldnt bet good money on it. (Can we count euros as "good money"?
) It was probably a one time thing. Besides the aftermath has left me in an uncomfortable situation.
[quote author=Dantesco link=board=sex;num=1065797493;start=0#17 date=12/10/03 at 11:02:05]
Besides the aftermath has left me in an uncomfortable situation.
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All I can I hope is that the "uncomfort" is not sexually related... !
Besides, all the tempests end... no matter what.
PS - don't listen to me : I am myself these days in a uncomfortable situation :-[ . Runs close to yours, somehow.
Besides the aftermath has left me in an uncomfortable situation.
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All I can I hope is that the "uncomfort" is not sexually related... !
Besides, all the tempests end... no matter what.
PS - don't listen to me : I am myself these days in a uncomfortable situation :-[ . Runs close to yours, somehow.
josh: im straight. But i do thik about what it would be like to be done in the ass! Ive fingered my self once and ive done sumin else wit lub! but to be honest its nothin much. The only thing i aint experiansed is to give head.
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