James249620002000: This may be more than anyone wants to know, but this is my voyage of sexual discovery.
I first had sex in the 8th grade with girls and was quite sexually active with women. In fact, I married when I was 17 because we were afraid that we would get pregnant if we continued unmarried. (Back then, it was hard to get birth control pills without being married.)
When I went to college, married, I had my first sexual experience with a guy I worked with in a warehouse. We were the only two in the whole building, and he introduced me to all kinds of sex. It continued for a long time.
I continued having sex with my wife and my friend. Then, I discovered meeting places for gays. I began to have more and more sex with men. I changed jobs and had several affairs with women too. In fact, during this time, there were several married couple friends with whom I had sex with both the husband and the wife (not at the same time).
Needless to say, my wife became uncomfortable with my openness about sex. I continued having sexual affairs with both men and women into my late 30's. I suppose there is nothing sexual that I haven't tried. If it can be done with a man or a woman, or a group, I have done it.
Lately (20 years), I have been exclusively homosexual.
Am I bi? Gay? Straight? I just think I am a sex addict who is currently preferring men.
I think of myself as omnisexual. I will have sex with anyone, anywhere, really. I think many of us are omnisexual and simply sex addicts. So the terms, bi, gay, straight don't really fit even though I have marked myself as gay on my profile. I could still have sex with a woman given the right circumstances.
