Straight guys: When a gay guy flirts with you...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by MisterMark, Mar 21, 2009.

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  1. MisterMark

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    When a gay guy flirts with you or stares at you, what is your reaction and how does it make you feel?

    I tried to post a poll with this question, but it didn't work. Here are the choices I wanted to use:

    I ignore him
    I take it as a compliment
    I like to flirt back with him in a friendly way
    I think it's funny/amusing
    I like to pretend that I'm also gay, just to see what else he'll say to me
    It makes me uncomfortable/nervous/anxious
    I feel embarrassed or sorry for him
    I feel sick - like I'm going to puke
    It makes me angry, but not violent
    It makes me angry and I DO have violent thoughts
    I have no reaction; it means nothing
    None of the above
     
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    most times I don't even notice...
    but when I realize they're flirting I tend to ignore it...
    I don't get all angry or offended...
    I just realize that I'm an attractive dude & I see why they'd be interested...
    no harm, no foul...:wink:
     
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    That would be a good poll Mark. Have one of the mods help you set it up. Pecker knows how to.
     
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