One thing I don't understand about some men is they evidently have never been hugged in the home they were raised in growing up. I have hugged guys and it means nothing more than I care about you, you are special to me, I enjoy your friendship etc. I went by the receiving line in our church one time to tell a young minister how much I enjoyed his sermon and trying to hug him was like trying to hug a refrigerator! He was about as cold as a fifty pound block of ice. I could not believe his body language when I try to hug him which was nothing more than to encourage him. His response was offensive and I just thought to myself, "you have a lot growing up to do and a lot to learn." He played football in high school and had not even graduated college. He just played high school football. He was not a football star or anything near that, but by his response you would have thought he was a football star in the NFL or something. What is it about some men that they think touching another guy is touching poison ivy? I was telling my wife last night about my brother n law and how sweet of a man he was. He is as masculine as they come but has a heart of gold and has a gentleness about him that is precious. I don't know of anyone that has a bad word to say about him. Everyone loves him. everyone. What wrong about that? Nothing! Some men need to purchase a book on how to relate to others and that includes touching!
Straight Guys Who've Been Turned On By A Guy Once In Their Life
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One thing I don't understand about some men is they evidently have never been hugged in the home they were raised in growing up. I have hugged guys and it means nothing more than I care about you, you are special to me, I enjoy your friendship etc. I went by the receiving line in our church one time to tell a young minister how much I enjoyed his sermon and trying to hug him was like trying to hug a refrigerator! He was about as cold as a fifty pound block of ice. I could not believe his body language when I try to hug him which was nothing more than to encourage him. His response was offensive and I just thought to myself, "you have a lot growing up to do and a lot to learn." He played football in high school and had not even graduated college. He just played high school football. He was not a football star or anything near that, but by his response you would have thought he was a football star in the NFL or something. What is it about some men that they think touching another guy is touching poison ivy? I was telling my wife last night about my brother n law and how sweet of a man he was. He is as masculine as they come but has a heart of gold and has a gentleness about him that is precious. I don't know of anyone that has a bad word to say about him. Everyone loves him. everyone. What wrong about that? Nothing! Some men need to purchase a book on how to relate to others and that includes touching!
I feel that way but i don't see it as sexual. I have a group of friends we were having a sausage fest one night drinking and smoking and we just had a lot of fun. After the pool we all took turns showering so we were just kinda hanging around naked waiting our turn after we all got cleaned up we mostly just hung around in our basketball shorts or underwear. From that point on we just kinda went with it me and my roommate walk around in our underwear/naked when it's just us but nothing sexual but I feel a sense of masculinity when we do
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Several of my " straight" friends over the years have said their first time of sex was with a buddy, and ages later they miss that and want to suck a sock sometimes. Just what I have noticed.
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I'm probably in that same group. I've always been turned on by women - they make my knees weak. I've never felt that way about men in general - it's just not the same kind of attraction. So I expect that my 80/20% thing may not be far off the mark. But - there was that one time when I was out of high school . My best friend (male) and I went through adolescence together, shared everything, kept no secrets and all that. We lusted after girls, got turned down in humiliating ways (phone call - "You want to take ME out?? You're CRAZY!") and basically helped each other through the worst of it. We also jacked off together now and then and at times would jack each other off. One night I was staying over and he asked me if he could suck me off. After a lot of hemming and hawing, each of us went down on the other. It was hot as hell and I was as hard as a fencepost. We never repeated that, and to this day - 45 or so years later - I have not had another cock in my mouth.
So I pretty much qualified as straight and was certainly turned on by another guy.
The rest of the story? I've always been just a little unsettled about my sexual direction and may have hidden from it by living a straight-as-hell lifestyle. At this point in my life, I'm re-examining all that and I see missed opportunities that I really regret. I still have no erotic response to men in general, but I LOVE watching hard cocks, cocksucking porn, and all kinds of male genitalia maneuvering. I seriously want to 69 with a guy who is hungry to taste my jizz. Part of that may come from years of sexual starvation, but I expect that I have always been bi to some extent. I also expect that nearly every straight guy I've ever met, if he spoke the truth, would have to admit the same.
So I pretty much qualified as straight and was certainly turned on by another guy.
The rest of the story? I've always been just a little unsettled about my sexual direction and may have hidden from it by living a straight-as-hell lifestyle. At this point in my life, I'm re-examining all that and I see missed opportunities that I really regret. I still have no erotic response to men in general, but I LOVE watching hard cocks, cocksucking porn, and all kinds of male genitalia maneuvering. I seriously want to 69 with a guy who is hungry to taste my jizz. Part of that may come from years of sexual starvation, but I expect that I have always been bi to some extent. I also expect that nearly every straight guy I've ever met, if he spoke the truth, would have to admit the same.
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