Straight guys with gay friends do you?

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  1. B_theaussieone

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    feel more nurturing to your gay friends? like hug them more and stuff, like treat them differently? my friend has a gay cousin, who he treats differently to his straight male cousins, he always hugs his gay cousin in a bear hug and spins him around and stuff. Whilst with his straight male cousins he pats them on the back, high fives etc, but never with as much affection as he does with his gay cousin, who's hair he likes to play with and stuff, tickle etc.
     
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    sounds like someone's trying to let out some closeted feelings on the only guy around who won't be too put off by them..
     
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    i greet my gay friends the same way i greet my straight friends ...




    a complimentary hand job


    high five's are not cool anymore
     
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    I beg to differ. Highfivez are just waiting for a chance to come back! I give my wife, my brother and anyone else who is deserving of one a highfive. Its like a handshake on adrenaline! :biggrin1:
     
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    nearly spit out my coffee on that one! :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
     
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    All my stright friends treat me the same as their stright friends with the exception of when we are all joking around where they put on the gay act and hit on one-another. With my group of friends... its quite hilarious to watch. One of them who I am the closest with will always ask me questions about being gay and what not. It can be quite comforting.
     
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    Joking aside, I don't treat any of my friends differently. Young, old, gay, straight, man, woman, none get "special" or different treatment.
     
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    I have a couple straight friends that are really affectionate with me. I always love this about them. They are close like this...mostly these full long hugs...because they can be with me I guess.
     
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    I'm so glad we're buddies =)
     
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    lol
     
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    like treat them differently? my friend has a gay cousin, who he treats differently to his straight male cousins



    Can i ask if yr friend is str / bi / gay?

    Some of my str friends appear to treat me with wary scepticism .. not that it bothers me a good bit o humour, occasionally i make a barking / bite noise and lunge fr there dick...jokingly, it relieves things ha..not in that way unfortunately
    enz


    can i be yr friend bjen


    Originally Posted by Bjen2848
    i greet my gay friends the same way i greet my straight friends ...




    a complimentary hand job .... LOVE IT Ha


    high five's are not cool anymore
     
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    No gay friends, but most of my friends are bi. Can't see any way I'd treat them differently though...
     
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    I wish get a good str8 man to hug me :)
    And stuffs ;-)
     
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    I had a str8 flatmate who once when he was drunk after our housewarming party decided to lye fully on top of me on the sofa. He later then said sorry for doing it, probably out of guilty feelings at what he'd done, but bet he wouldn't do that to one of his str8 friends though.
     
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    how so true
    can just imagine the scenario
    do feel sad for those in such a seeming predicament
    perhaps just needing to disguise there real true feelings & sexual emotions, because society expects them to .... conform
    glad he showed appreciation of you tho it seems
    enz

    its a real ass life can be, alright.
    ALL said before time and again..
     
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    I'd say the majority of my friends are Str8, & fewer gay friends. We just are who we are when we are. At times we're just hanging like any friends do, other times we flirt & fondle outrageously (& I mean with both M&F Str8 friends), & other times it's full on hugs, kisses, holding. I think we're fortunate we all feel comfortable with each other. I don't think I treat their sexuality as an issue or they mine, tho obviously we know our preferences. We just don't think about it. It just IS. Interesting thread tho.
     
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    friends are friends and treated as such. i see no difference in their sexuality. if i haven't seen them in awhile it's a hug, otherwise a good handshake. my gay friends will sometimes put their arms around my waist, where my str friends usually don't. my gay friends tease and do get frisky with me [ touching butt ] and joke about giving blow jobs, shaving me, we are mostly nudists so they see my cock, etc..

    Recently one gave me a massage and did hold my cock to get a closer look at my piercing, even got some reaction out of it and laughed. haven't stepped over the str line, yet but tempting sometimes with maybe a handjob to start. might with a very fem man and would with a pretty shemale. would have to be hairless. gf would love to see a gay man suck me. we'll see but back to the subject, no different treatment.

    i did hold one who broke into tears about his breakup with his mate. guess i weren't do that with a str friend.
     
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    your a good friend LOL
     
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    I'd say the complete opposite
     
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    Maybe he feels like he can actually like him, as a family member, nothing sexual, most times straight guys don't admit or even thinking about having feelings for other man, and even if they do they can't really show affection because of the whole macho thing. I've seen this many times, when guys start hugging or being more friendly and playful with each other they usually like it, they do it without thinking from that point on because they know it's a line they can cross without compromising their sexuality or something.

    It's like saying "I love you", from that moment on you're kind of exposed, if you hug a friend or even family member out of the blue you can be rejected, called gay or something worse... so I guess it's like the "I love you" thing, most people don't say it unless they are ok with themselves and the other person.

    Or maybe he's more friendly because he's a cool, open minded guy.
     
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