I am straight, and it says so in my info. But i get so many PMs from guys telling me they are straight, but they want to cam, snapchat, compare and just talk.
Is that a thing? really dont get it..
Well man, I look at it from a totally different perspective than you are.
We put our bodies and dicks on this site for x amount of reasons. For me, it's to feed the exhibitionist in me. And I don't have near the cock that you've got hanging on you.
But I still get PM from other male members. I am secure enough in my sexuality to not be offended at someone else's fantasies. It doesn't creep me out that some other "straight" guy jerks off to my pics or comments on my dick, ass, and body. After all neither of us had a say in how big or little our dicks are. I can certainly admire another man's body and dick. If he's got a nice body, it shows he's taken the time energy and dedication to maintain a nice physique. If he's like you and very well hung it just means he was born with it. He didn't really do anything extra to get that. It's in his DNA.
I can, have, and do compliment other straight guys on their pics. It doesn't mean I want to have sex with them. It just means I'm impressed with the amount of work they've put into their bodies. If they're packing that's good too. But I'm not going to make myself or them uncomfortable but telling them I want to do x y and z with them. Although, I've had plenty tell me that. It's their fantasy not mine. I accept the compliments at face value.
It's a whole different world out there now. Men are becoming more open about their sexuality and what they like. Suppose they never visited our albums or liked our pics? Besides it's the internet and people are freaky sometimes when they get horned up. You've heard the old saying, a hard dick doesn't have a conscience.
I get what you're saying I just look at it differently. I don't do kik,snapchat, or any of the other stuff. I politely let them know that. But they're free to fantasize all they want to about what they'd like to do with and to me. It's not my fantasy so it doesn't really affect me. My advice for what it's worth, is to take it all in stride. Be glad they noticed you.