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Straight is a social label that doesn’t quite actually exist like a box.

if it’s being done. It’s a thing.
 
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Or it could be that on this site those guys identify as straight but are in actuality far from straight in sexual preferences? People on this site can claim to be anything they want. If someone claims to be straight and what they are saying to you seems to be less than straight, I would say they are not straight. YMMV but the way I see that subject.
 

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I am straight, and it says so in my info. But i get so many PMs from guys telling me they are straight, but they want to cam, snapchat, compare and just talk.

Is that a thing? really dont get it..


Well man, I look at it from a totally different perspective than you are.
We put our bodies and dicks on this site for x amount of reasons. For me, it's to feed the exhibitionist in me. And I don't have near the cock that you've got hanging on you.

But I still get PM from other male members. I am secure enough in my sexuality to not be offended at someone else's fantasies. It doesn't creep me out that some other "straight" guy jerks off to my pics or comments on my dick, ass, and body. After all neither of us had a say in how big or little our dicks are. I can certainly admire another man's body and dick. If he's got a nice body, it shows he's taken the time energy and dedication to maintain a nice physique. If he's like you and very well hung it just means he was born with it. He didn't really do anything extra to get that. It's in his DNA.

I can, have, and do compliment other straight guys on their pics. It doesn't mean I want to have sex with them. It just means I'm impressed with the amount of work they've put into their bodies. If they're packing that's good too. But I'm not going to make myself or them uncomfortable but telling them I want to do x y and z with them. Although, I've had plenty tell me that. It's their fantasy not mine. I accept the compliments at face value.

It's a whole different world out there now. Men are becoming more open about their sexuality and what they like. Suppose they never visited our albums or liked our pics? Besides it's the internet and people are freaky sometimes when they get horned up. You've heard the old saying, a hard dick doesn't have a conscience.

I get what you're saying I just look at it differently. I don't do kik,snapchat, or any of the other stuff. I politely let them know that. But they're free to fantasize all they want to about what they'd like to do with and to me. It's not my fantasy so it doesn't really affect me. My advice for what it's worth, is to take it all in stride. Be glad they noticed you.
 

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I had a guy recently ask me to "compare" I wasn't sure what he wanted and I didn't mean to be rude,but I literally made a visualizer (penis comparison site) and replied with that and was like, ok your turn....then no response. I'm assuming they wanted to live cam or something but I'm not really into that I guess. I love the attention, as I'm an exhibitionist as well. I'm comfortable in myself on here and open minded. Also, I'm fully aware that I'm in the minority on this site as a straight man, and I'm comfortable with that.
 

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In my experience men who identify as straight are actually "straight-acting." They don't identify with the stereotypical "effeminacy" they correlate with being culturally gay or bi.

In my opinion they are bi at the very least or closeted gay at the most. Too many have sucked my cock to carry off the definition of straight. I don't quibble about it. If the macho guy sucking or riding my cock says he's straight he's straight.:cool:
 

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In my experience men who identify as straight are actually "straight-acting." They don't identify with the stereotypical "effeminacy" they correlate with being culturally gay or bi.

In my opinion they are bi at the very least or closeted gay at the most. Too many have sucked my cock to carry off the definition of straight. I don't quibble about it. If the macho guy sucking or riding my cock says he's straight he's straight.:cool:


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If labels don't really exist, then why are they used, and why is this only brought up when it's a guy who identifies as "straight", but consistently behaves as a bisexual man?
Because people need a way to identify in front of others, given the current division and social behaviors. Whether or not they conform to the social definition of that label.

given your example, sociological engrained shame or fear of misleading the sex you are tying to attract.
 
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Because people need a way to identify in front of others, given the current division and social behaviors. Whether or not they conform to the social definition of that label.

given your example, sociological engrained shame or fear of misleading the sex you are tying to attract.
But isn't a bisexual man misleading the sex he is trying to attract when he tells a potential (male) sex partner that he's straight?

And if people need a way to identify, isn't using a more accurate label preferable to one that is less, or not, applicable? If fear of being outed is the issue, then that...not a label...is the problem needing to be addressed, isn't it? I see a whole lot of kerfuffle and taking offense over labels here, and very little indignation that a bisexual man can't simply identify as such.
 
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But isn't a bisexual man misleading the sex he is trying to attract when he tells a potential (male) sex partner that he's straight?

And if people need a way to identify, isn't using a more accurate label preferable to one that is less, or not, applicable? If fear of being outed is the issue, then that...not a label...is the problem needing to be addressed, isn't it? I see a whole lot of kerfuffle and taking offense over labels here, and very little indignation that a bisexual man can't simply identify as such.

if those social issues are addressed labels become less meaningful and not a concern. Nobody would care, get turned down? Fine. As with life, just like people of the same sex.

Over reaction to sexual identity is creating tons of labels, which is entirely unnecessary.

that’s what I’m trying to say.
 
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I am straight, and it says so in my info. But i get so many PMs from guys telling me they are straight, but they want to cam, snapchat, compare and just talk.

Is that a thing? really dont get it..

Buddy, we’re all here on a big dick site, obviously to look at pictures of dicks. You yourself have posted pics (quite a number, I will add). I presume you look at others, as well? We’re all human, and are naturally curious, perhaps some moreso than others. If a dude claims to be straight and asks to cam or Snapchat to compare, there isn’t any physical interaction involved, it is still all visual. I personally don’t see any issue with this request (not that I would participate because I doubt I would) but if you’re uncomfortable with it, a simple “thanks, but no thanks” is all it takes. I’ve done that, and it’s no big deal.
 

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Buddy, we’re all here on a big dick site, obviously to look at pictures of dicks. You yourself have posted pics (quite a number, I will add). I presume you look at others, as well? We’re all human, and are naturally curious, perhaps some moreso than others. If a dude claims to be straight and asks to cam or Snapchat to compare, there isn’t any physical interaction involved, it is still all visual. I personally don’t see any issue with this request (not that I would participate because I doubt I would) but if you’re uncomfortable with it, a simple “thanks, but no thanks” is all it takes. I’ve done that, and it’s no big deal.
no issue, just a bit surprised.
 
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no issue, just a bit surprised.

What’s to be surprised? I’m sure receiving DMs is normal, whether engaging in a topic further, or complimenting a guys dick. Whatever. I think the best part of this site is the bonding it builds, and that we’re in a judgement free zone.
 
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