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I meet this guy in gym. He seems straight and we are always polite and make small talk when we meet. He is 50 and single.
I always notice him stealing glances at my cock, very fleeting. Once I met him in steam and I did get aroused but concealed it. I'm sure he noticed but behaved and we both exited as if nothing was amiss and continued normal conversation.

But he's always stealing little glances. He never suggests coffee or anything of the sort. I always get the impression that he is closeted. I met him yesterday and caught him a few times when he was talking to e casting his eyes down. I acted like I didn't notice. But I did not get embarrassed. I just stood naked and chatted. I do not get aroused in such a situation.

I don't know what to make of these furtive glances. Any opinions? By the way I would like to ask him out but I think he would panic. He's a poor conversationalist.
 
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I meet this guy in gym. He seems straight and we are always polite and make small talk when we meet. He is 50 and single.
I always notice him stealing glances at my cock, very fleeting. Once I met him in steam and I did get aroused but concealed it. I'm sure he noticed but behaved and we both exited as if nothing was amiss and continued normal conversation.

But he's always stealing little glances. He never suggests coffee or anything of the sort. I always get the impression that he is closeted. I met him yesterday and caught him a few times when he was talking to e casting his eyes down. I acted like I didn't notice. But I did not get embarrassed. I just stood naked and chatted. I do not get aroused in such a situation.

I don't know what to make of these furtive glances. Any opinions? By the way I would like to ask him out but I think he would panic. He's a poor conversationalist.
Why not casually ask him if he wants to catch a drink n watch a game in pub or something, therefore your not panicking him, maybe a few drinks will help loosen him up so to speak n feel more comfortable :)
 
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If you can turn the conversation a bit... Ask him if he's married. Not as a standalone question but in the context of a simple conversion. He may just be shy. And by him telling you, it gets you closer to a conversion about dating prefs. The reason I say this is as a curious guy (he might be that too), he likes what he sees but can't bring it to the next level. A curious guy requires baby steps. It's a process.
 

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How do you know hes straight like twoton said. hes 50 and single unless hes recently divorced who's to say he just hasn't approached any guys his whole life, given I'm much younger so I don't really know but how many men at 50 are still single?
How does he seem straight? Because from your description nothing really suggest that. If you wanna ask him out do it you never get anywhere if Don't ask whats the worst that could happen he says no and you move on.
 
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I meet this guy in gym. He seems straight and we are always polite and make small talk when we meet. He is 50 and single.
I always notice him stealing glances at my cock, very fleeting. Once I met him in steam and I did get aroused but concealed it. I'm sure he noticed but behaved and we both exited as if nothing was amiss and continued normal conversation.

But he's always stealing little glances. He never suggests coffee or anything of the sort. I always get the impression that he is closeted. I met him yesterday and caught him a few times when he was talking to e casting his eyes down. I acted like I didn't notice. But I did not get embarrassed. I just stood naked and chatted. I do not get aroused in such a situation.

I don't know what to make of these furtive glances. Any opinions? By the way I would like to ask him out but I think he would panic. He's a poor conversationalist.

This is my hated cruising misstep that most guys love to use...the non commital furtive and possibly deniable nonsense that I have had men swear wasn't them flirting one too many time. I would hand him a card with a note inside. It should read: Hey, I see you like looking at my junk. But you haven't said anythjing. Here's a contact, use it or find a new lamppost:.
 

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I think he would say no were I to ask him out. He's trying to fight his attraction to cock I'd say. Probably just used our encounter as wank fodder that evening. His own dick is small but has girth. He isn't fascinated by size though. I just think he likes stealing a few looks whenever he can but would hate his friends to know. He's a man's man.
 
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Interesting. Prior, I would have postulated that a man who is interested in my dick is possibly sexually interested in men but I know from this site that they may just appreciate the penis aesthetic and not want to appreciate it any more than that.

I met him yesterday. He stole another few glances but seemed largely indifferent to me.
 
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Interesting. Prior, I would have postulated that a man who is interested in my dick is possibly sexually interested in men but I know from this site that they may just appreciate the penis aesthetic and not want to appreciate it any more than that.

I met him yesterday. He stole another few glances but seemed largely indifferent to me.

Personally I just see it as curiosity of what someone else looks like.
 

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It is totally "normal" to look at a mans cock in a situation like a gym shower.
Guys look at my cock.
I don't think it means he is into you.....
But who knows.
 
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Best approach may be to say you are going to grab a coffee or drink and ask if he wants to join. It's non committal and could give you the answers you are looking for.
 

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Hum, when I'm in the gym locker room, shower, naked other guys both older and younger often look at my dick. I've been known to look at theirs too. It's just human nature.

I've never considered that any of them were really interested in me other than simply catching a eye full of my dick.

Well except for this one guy. He was looking at my cock so intense one morning he walked into the friggin wall. I was like damn dude, just come on over here and get you a mouthful. I didn't say that but I thought it, as I laughed to myself when he walked into the wall. I was standing outside of the shower drying off when he did that.

But guys steal glances at other men's junk all the time. Whether they want to admit it or not. I carry on conversations with other guys naked in the locker room. It's no big deal. Just normal for me at this point in my life.
 

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I'm sure it's no different than a straight woman admiring another woman's breasts. I've lost count of the number of straight guys who've eye-pounced on my bulge. If he's bi-curious, he'll let you know. Until that time, just be his friend and keep your distance.
 

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Human nature to glance at another man's dick? "Catching an eye full" of another man's dick? I'm surprised a str8 man would do this.

I've taken a look at lots of breasts and vaginas while in hot tubs or the girls that were in my my coed residence halls. That doesn't mean I wanted to fuck all of them. Some sure, others not so much. They are body parts. The only people who would have an issue looking at naked people or being looked at while naked are those with insecurities.
 
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You usually don't see dicks other people's genitals. Nowhere but the internet, places like gyms and in a bedroom. If I see a dude's dick in front of me, yes, I might glance at it for an instant. It is unusual for me.

Who knows? For him, maybe you are the weird guy who got a boner near him. Maybe he likes you.

If a woman gets naked in front of you in a gym, wouldn't you look at he pussy or breats? You are gay, but you would look. Maybe she would be asking herself if you are interested in her.
 

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Not exactly like your situation but some similarities. Without my glasses I can’t see shit. Because of that I do not workout with my glasses on.
Look at my photos, I am pierced, I workout with my RPA in so most guys kinda know me.
Well, this dude who was doing the same muscle as my friend and I was getting more and more vocal throughout the workout. My buddy and I just laughed it off.
Shower time rolls around and he gets very pissed at me for stairing at him while lifting and stairing at his junk in the shower.
My buddy had to explain to him I could not find the door without my glasses. There is no way I could see if he had a huge cock or shaved pussy in the shower. He walked away and shut up.
Could he be looking toward you but not seeing anything?
 
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