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hi, new here. I've been struggling to understand my sexuality for many years. I have always considered myself straight. i am happily married for 10 years now and have kids. I've always desired and wanted an emotional and romantic relationship with a woman but i also seem to be sexually attracted to men. I've only had sex with women and never done anything with another guy. but when I'm at the guy locker room I catch myself trying to catch a glimpse at the other guys to see what they're packing. also, if I'm watching porn I tend to go to guys with big dicks and balls, especially from POV. I also have strong fantasies of being in a threesome or couples foursome. I'm very curious to know what the threesome might be like if it's me, my wife, and another guy. lately I've considered myself to be "mostly straight" or like a 1-2 on the scale. I'm definitely not interested in a romantic relationship with a guy, just curious about what sex might be like.

just curious to hear if any other straight married guys have had similar feelings.
 

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hi, new here. I've been struggling to understand my sexuality for many years. I have always considered myself straight. i am happily married for 10 years now and have kids. I've always desired and wanted an emotional and romantic relationship with a woman but i also seem to be sexually attracted to men. I've only had sex with women and never done anything with another guy. but when I'm at the guy locker room I catch myself trying to catch a glimpse at the other guys to see what they're packing. also, if I'm watching porn I tend to go to guys with big dicks and balls, especially from POV. I also have strong fantasies of being in a threesome or couples foursome. I'm very curious to know what the threesome might be like if it's me, my wife, and another guy. lately I've considered myself to be "mostly straight" or like a 1-2 on the scale. I'm definitely not interested in a romantic relationship with a guy, just curious about what sex might be like.

just curious to hear if any other straight married guys have had similar feelings.
You’re not alone. I had to make sure I wasn’t reading an old post it mine.
 

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hi, new here. I've been struggling to understand my sexuality for many years. I have always considered myself straight. i am happily married for 10 years now and have kids. I've always desired and wanted an emotional and romantic relationship with a woman but i also seem to be sexually attracted to men. I've only had sex with women and never done anything with another guy. but when I'm at the guy locker room I catch myself trying to catch a glimpse at the other guys to see what they're packing. also, if I'm watching porn I tend to go to guys with big dicks and balls, especially from POV. I also have strong fantasies of being in a threesome or couples foursome. I'm very curious to know what the threesome might be like if it's me, my wife, and another guy. lately I've considered myself to be "mostly straight" or like a 1-2 on the scale. I'm definitely not interested in a romantic relationship with a guy, just curious about what sex might be like.

just curious to hear if any other straight married guys have had similar feelings.
You are absolutely NOT ALONE!!! Many of us have been where you are...........I wish I could say that the curiosity will go away over time.....unfortunately just the opposite.....the curiosity is only going to get stronger and will never go away......

And yes......gay sex.....the feel and taste of dick.....is wonderful.........
 

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I am not attracted to men in general, but I absolutely love cock, balls and rimming a nice hole. I think kissing another guy is revolting….that’s what a pretty girl is for! So I will blow a nice cock, but cuddling and kissing is out.
 

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hi, new here. I've been struggling to understand my sexuality for many years. I have always considered myself straight. i am happily married for 10 years now and have kids. I've always desired and wanted an emotional and romantic relationship with a woman but i also seem to be sexually attracted to men. I've only had sex with women and never done anything with another guy. but when I'm at the guy locker room I catch myself trying to catch a glimpse at the other guys to see what they're packing. also, if I'm watching porn I tend to go to guys with big dicks and balls, especially from POV. I also have strong fantasies of being in a threesome or couples foursome. I'm very curious to know what the threesome might be like if it's me, my wife, and another guy. lately I've considered myself to be "mostly straight" or like a 1-2 on the scale. I'm definitely not interested in a romantic relationship with a guy, just curious about what sex might be like.

just curious to hear if any other straight married guys have had similar feelings.
Hell yeah brother. It’s perfectly normal, more so than you may think. There are a whole lot of us that are in exactly your situation. I’ve only engaged in mutual oral with a guy. I want to fuck and be fucked. That’s my next goal. I’m married but home alone tonight. I’m sitting here with my new plug deep in my hungry ass.
 

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Hell yeah brother. It’s perfectly normal, more so than you may think. There are a whole lot of us that are in exactly your situation. I’ve only engaged in mutual oral with a guy. I want to fuck and be fucked. That’s my next goal. I’m married but home alone tonight. I’m sitting here with my new plug deep in my hungry ass.
Hot damn @AssMan1972 can I replace the plug next trip to Tampa?
 

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Same here, I'm attracted to young men.
But as I'm in my mid 40s now I don't think it's going to ever happen.
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