AlteredEgo
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VinceNYC said:I wish you the best of luck, but I have a VERY hard time believing your wife is happy. There's no way for me to know, so I'm just opining here, and I don't want it to sound like an attack. However, there's only one person in this equation who is getting his needs (or desires) met, and it ain't your wife. In fact, I think this has the potential to be a very hurtful, life-changing event for her.
Anyhow, as I said, I have no way of knowing, so I would just hope that you realize that what your wife says and what she really feels may be two different things.
Anyone on the board have this experience from the woman's perspective?
Lex and I would have gotten a divorce. It wouldn't neccesarily have ended our friendship, but this definitely would have ended our marriage, provided that his confession was a request to have male partners. my marriage will be a strictly monogamous one.
However, that does not mean that Lex's wife shares my views, or has needs remotely similar to my own. I need my husband to only have sex with me. Obviously, she doees not. I think it's vaguely offensive that you assume her needs are not being met. Maybe all she needs is for her man to come home to her at night. That was good enough for my mother who happily turned a blind eye to my father's womanizing, and his mother who did the same with his father. My mother's mother did with her man as I would do with mine. She packed up her stuff, some of his stuff, her children, her mother, and left. She must have been furious at some point. She has no recollection of what happened to her wedding ring. She only remembers having one.
Lex, I'm still down for our tutoring sessions.