madame_zora
Sexy Member
Wow, I lost track of this thread and look where it's gone!
This was the very subject that brought Lex and I closer nearly two years ago when this all first transpired. See, I had once been in a marriage where I felt my husband also had some homosexual tendancies that he needed to consider, and possibly explore. The reasons for this were very different though. MY husband disliked the nude female body and in fact we did not have sex. The few times we tried it was horrendously awkward, left him feeling ashamed, left me feeling rejected at the core of my being and led to a near emotional collapse. MY situation was not built on open communication and trust, it was based on an unwillingness on the part of my partner to discover himself and become happy with his life. Had he done this, we may have been able to find a path to travel together rather than apart.
So it looks like I'm the only member contributing on this thread thus far who actually saw the story unfold, and you're damned skippy I take offense at Mrs. Lex's view's being specualted about, you really don't have any idea what she put into this, or what a bright shining star and example she became to me. Women DO have power in our own relationships, even when we use that power to do things the majority in society don't understand. Hell, the majority still expect us to stfu, be seen and not heard, do laundry like good girls, turn a blind eye to our husband's dalliances, all of it. Bullshit! This woman put HERSELF at the beginning of the equation, and made a life for HERSELF that she found agreeable. Hats off to her, she is my muthafucking hero.
And now for PET PEEVE #2146- If you say something offensive, no matter how "politely" you phrase it, it is still fucking OFFENSIVE! I can say, "Not to offend you, Vince, but I think despite all your efforts and the fact that your love is immense, but from your posts I have every reason to believe your son hates your guts and just doesn't want to tell you what a horrible father you are". Now, I don't know if you have kids, but that would be highly offensive, especially if you HAD in fact put a lot of yourself into that relationship. You were in fact calling into question behaviors about which you know nothing. Yes, you are free to STATE your opinions, even as ignorant and unfounded as they may be (they are obviously ignorant, since you don't know Lex's wife nor were you here for the process under which the story unfolded), but then your offensive remarks will be RESPONDED to in like kind. Being "polite" does not excuse one from having to accept the consequences of their own bad behavior. Think about this, is there a polite way for me to call someone a nigger? How about an idiot? Oh, I see, self-centered pig is somehow different.
This was the very subject that brought Lex and I closer nearly two years ago when this all first transpired. See, I had once been in a marriage where I felt my husband also had some homosexual tendancies that he needed to consider, and possibly explore. The reasons for this were very different though. MY husband disliked the nude female body and in fact we did not have sex. The few times we tried it was horrendously awkward, left him feeling ashamed, left me feeling rejected at the core of my being and led to a near emotional collapse. MY situation was not built on open communication and trust, it was based on an unwillingness on the part of my partner to discover himself and become happy with his life. Had he done this, we may have been able to find a path to travel together rather than apart.
So it looks like I'm the only member contributing on this thread thus far who actually saw the story unfold, and you're damned skippy I take offense at Mrs. Lex's view's being specualted about, you really don't have any idea what she put into this, or what a bright shining star and example she became to me. Women DO have power in our own relationships, even when we use that power to do things the majority in society don't understand. Hell, the majority still expect us to stfu, be seen and not heard, do laundry like good girls, turn a blind eye to our husband's dalliances, all of it. Bullshit! This woman put HERSELF at the beginning of the equation, and made a life for HERSELF that she found agreeable. Hats off to her, she is my muthafucking hero.
And now for PET PEEVE #2146- If you say something offensive, no matter how "politely" you phrase it, it is still fucking OFFENSIVE! I can say, "Not to offend you, Vince, but I think despite all your efforts and the fact that your love is immense, but from your posts I have every reason to believe your son hates your guts and just doesn't want to tell you what a horrible father you are". Now, I don't know if you have kids, but that would be highly offensive, especially if you HAD in fact put a lot of yourself into that relationship. You were in fact calling into question behaviors about which you know nothing. Yes, you are free to STATE your opinions, even as ignorant and unfounded as they may be (they are obviously ignorant, since you don't know Lex's wife nor were you here for the process under which the story unfolded), but then your offensive remarks will be RESPONDED to in like kind. Being "polite" does not excuse one from having to accept the consequences of their own bad behavior. Think about this, is there a polite way for me to call someone a nigger? How about an idiot? Oh, I see, self-centered pig is somehow different.