Straight Men and Oral Sex

[deleted8585111]

So I've got this buddy who occasionally meets uo to do shr**ms with me. First time we connected, there was definitely a spark in the air, and he made it a point to hang out with me before I moved. Came back, now we're gonna meet up for some more fungi, but holy fuck I want to suck this man's penis so badly. I can barely stand it, and its not just because he's pretty, but because he's got a great personality too. I've got it bad.

I guess I'm curious, have you ever been in a situation where you wanted to suck a mand dick so bad you were willing to risk a friendship? Right now I'm trying to drop some hints here and there, and really let him know I'm open to it, but I don’t want to come out and ask him and freak him out.

Any recommendations?

 

[17264491]

You'll never know unless you ask, just be prepared to expect the unexpected. Will he punch you, unfriend you kindly thank you but say no or let you? Seems like the only options to me.

The one thing you don't mention is does he know you are gay?

 

[deleted8585111]

You'll never know unless you ask, just be prepared to expect the unexpected. Will he punch you, unfriend you kindly thank you but say no or let you? Seems like the only options to me.

The one thing you don't mention is does he know you are gay?

He's aware, yeah

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

Do you know if he is straight?

 

[BulgeGuySD]

So I've got this buddy who occasionally meets uo to do shr**ms with me. First time we connected, there was definitely a spark in the air, and he made it a point to hang out with me before I moved. Came back, now we're gonna meet up for some more fungi, but holy fuck I want to suck this man's penis so badly. I can barely stand it, and its not just because he's pretty, but because he's got a great personality too. I've got it bad.

I guess I'm curious, have you ever been in a situation where you wanted to suck a mand dick so bad you were willing to risk a friendship? Right now I'm trying to drop some hints here and there, and really let him know I'm open to it, but I don’t want to come out and ask him and freak him out.

Any recommendations?

Yeah : go slow with him make him feel comfortable with the idea without trying to convince him to do anything hi may or may not feel comfortable doing, the enrolling technic never works on this kind of situations, have a feel of where he stand on the issue, but if he asks you a question answer truthfully as how you feel about him. and as hard as it is if he is not confortable with that don’t press or mentioned again, you might have to evaluate your friendship with him, some times wen is a NO doesn’t mean never, it just mean NOT RIGHT NOW, if I would be you I’ll keep my friendship with him because another opportunity might arrive in the future, if he feels very uncomfortable it might damage your friendship beyond repair. go with your instincts.
and if it is a yes f$@“g enjoy it buddy !

 

[deleted8585111]

Yeah : go slow with him make him feel comfortable with the idea without trying to convince him to do anything hi may or may not feel comfortable doing, the enrolling technic never works on this kind of situations, have a feel of where he stand on the issue, but if he asks you a question answer truthfully as how you feel about him. and as hard as it is if he is not confortable with that don’t press or mentioned again, you might have to evaluate your friendship with him, some times wen is a NO doesn’t mean never, it just mean NOT RIGHT NOW, if I would be you I’ll keep my friendship with him because another opportunity might arrive in the future, if he feels very uncomfortable it might damage your friendship beyond repair. go with your instincts.
and if it is a yes f$@“g enjoy it buddy !

Thank you for this. This is exactly the kind of answer I was looking for

 

[BulgeGuySD]

Thank you for this. This is exactly the kind of answer I was looking for

Im glad I can help buddy .. go get that stud boy !

 

[tallmarriedprof]

Dude, if he knows youre gay (and I assume he does), next time you do that together, just enjoy the high and say "Man -- tripping makes me crave a dick in my mouth".

It's true
It's vague
It offers plausible deniability

And it puts the ball in his court.

Does no one flirt any more?!

 

[18wheeler]

^^ I like the above response.

but if he knows your gay, I say just ask. A real friend wouldn’t be affected by this.

the only dick, other than my own, I’ve ever touched I got to touch and jerk off, and lick, and attempt to suck, was my best friend. I felt it on accident. I asked to see it because it felt huge. It was. I asked to touch it and he let me. He was straight and other than the few times I jerked him off he did nothing else with men. He was very into women.

it didn’t ruin my friendship at all. It was our secret and we remained friends for 26 more years. I even married his sister. Our friendship fell apart for other reasons.