Straight Men and Their Assholes

[monsternmypant]

This thread has some of the most disturbing flashes of blatant ignorance and homopbobia that I have ever seen on LPSG. In particular I'm drawn to danbala's claim that the anus is not a sex organ... ummm, HELLO! Your whole body can be used for sexual arousal, if you're tuned to it; and there's that delightful prostate that is only anally-accessible, not to mention the sensitivity of the anus itself. When I have my cock up my partner's ass or vie versa, the act of anal pentration isn't about dominance and denigration, as it may be among ordinarily heterosexual men, such as prison inmates: it's about mutual pleasure.

 

[danerain]

This thread has some of the most disturbing flashes of blatant ignorance and homopbobia that I have ever seen on LPSG. In particular I'm drawn to danbala's claim that the anus is not a sex organ... ummm, HELLO! Your whole body can be used for sexual arousal, if you're tuned to it; and there's that delightful prostate that is only anally-accessible, not to mention the sensitivity of the anus itself. When I have my cock up my partner's ass or vie versa, the act of anal pentration isn't about dominance and denigration, as it may be among ordinarily heterosexual men, such as prison inmates: it's about mutual pleasure.

Thank you very much.

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

I don't know why some people have a problem with ass play, if they've tried it and don't like it fair enough, but to reject it out of hand seems stupid to me. Why neglect any part of someones body be they male or female?

 

[B_Swimming Lad]

Nothin wrong with a bit of ass play occasionally in my opinion. I'm open to it!

 

[B_dxjnorto]

This thread is mostly about everyone thinking everyone else thinks and feels the same way they do. A common human failing.

Now where's that recent thread about strap-ons?

 

[HaagenDazs]

I repeat: Shit comes out of it.

Final Answer, Regis.

 

[HaagenDazs]

HaagenDazs, I think you're suffering from brain-freeze.

Okay, so if I like my wife to tongue my ass that means I'm homosexual? Damn! Would it be okay if I'm homosexual but not attracted to men in any way? That might work for me.

I think you need to reread what I wrote, then try again.

 

[a610guy]

Well, a guilty pleasure of mine that turns me on BIG time is in straight porn when the guy is fucking the girl and it's a shot from behind and you can see his ass and hole. I guess since it's kinda "taboo" (see above) it kinda turns me on that I'm seeing it and that he can't see me doing so.

I love watching str8 porn too for the men's dicks and buttholes.
There is even a Yahoo group for it. It's all pix and videos of guys
fucking with their legs spread wide enough you can see their
bullseye.

 

[funkykitty]

i had a boyfriend who is 100% straight who would let me finger his asshole a couple of times but he just didnt like the sensation but he would go crazy if i licked his asshole especially if it was during a blowjob just a little detoir.I think you have to keep an open mind to try new things.

 

[D_Aston Asstonne]

i had a friend who picked up a local girl at the pub.all was well till she shoved a HUGE dildo in his ass !she claimed it was in the heat of passion...so was his temper tantrum that left her hospitalized.many guys dont play that.

 

[B_excalibur_07]

Well I enjoy my feamale partner inserting her finger up my anus whie we are making love. I some times bend over and while she plays with my cock then up go her fingers for a good root around. But the best bit is when she gives me a good rimming I actual enjoy it more than oral (mouth to cock). It just blows my mind.

 

[rob_just_rob]

i had a friend who picked up a local girl at the pub.all was well till she shoved a HUGE dildo in his ass !she claimed it was in the heat of passion...so was his temper tantrum that left her hospitalized.many guys dont play that.

Sounds like your 'friend' is lacking a sense of proportion.

It's been my experience that this type of guy is most often found in the stereotypical macho cultures that express a vehement opposition to (or denial of) homosexuality.

I'll refrain from guessing which stereotypical macho culture your friend belongs to, although I have a few in mind.

 

[lostmymind]

I think you need to reread what I wrote, then try again.

Originally Posted by HaagenDazs

I don't presume homosexuality doesn't exist, but I dont engage in it in any way.

I took this to mean that you equated ass play to homosexuality.
If not, then I apologize.

 

[capcraz]

I think it has to do with the deep rooted insecurities that many hetero men have. I'd say that a majority of people are attracted to those of the same sex along a continuum of levels, if not sexually attracted at least curious about things due in part to the immense privacy of our times. It also takes a lot of trust and surrender to expose your anus to another person and that's something that machismo doesn't exactly permit.

By accepting that it feels good to have their anus stimulated means that there is at least SOME chance they may in fact be a little less than 100% straight, even if it's only 99% and many of them can't handle that concept. Those who are more educated or enlightened are more likely to say that pleasure is pleasure and as long as I'm not getting fucked in the ass by another man I'm not really gay. And face it... 100% of men would suck their own cocks if they were able to reach them... doesn't that technically make us all cock suckers?

This is why I say I'm 90% straight and 10% gay. I like to look at the male form, penises are interesting, genitals in general are arousing. Looking at someone else's dick makes me think of my own and sex in general. It's also nice to be able to have a breadth of experience for comparison to my own member. I love my girlfriend though, with an unconditional, caring, and erotic love, and she turns me on with the slightest touch or erotic suggestion. I'll tell you what though, I used to be a bit insecure because I thought I had a small penis, but after having viewed the statistics and many examples (albeit not in the flesh) I now feel Very confident in my above average status

 

[lostmymind]

I think it has to do with the deep rooted insecurities that many hetero men have.

By accepting that it feels good to have their anus stimulated means that there is at least SOME chance they may in fact be a little less than 100% straight, even if it's only 99% and many of them can't handle that concept.

I was at a picnic yesterday and they served fried chicken and watermelon. I enjoyed it. By your rationale, I have a subconcious desire to be a black man?

That's called prejudicial stereotyping. There is zero, I repeat zero correlation between deciding what feels good to one's own body and one's sexual orientation. I like it when my wife sucks my cock. Does that mean I want men to suck my cock? No. I like it when my wife plays with my ass. Does that mean I want men to play with my ass? No.

How is this in the least way confusing to anyone?

 

[capcraz]

That's not what I meant maybe I should clarify... anal play with men is often stereotyped as gay, for the many men out there who do not share your security, by acknowledging that they like their anus stimulated there is at least some reference in their mind to gayness and that's a challenge to their masculinity.

You are obviously one of the others I mentioned who accept pleasure as pleasure, and fried chicken as fried chicken but you overlooked that part I don’t' remember saying anything racial, but your comment certainly put a different spin on the meaning of my opinion.

 

[lostmymind]

Okay, I see where you were going now. Pardon me for being dense. It's that damned jerky knee of mine acting up again. :redface:

 

[hardguy]

I love watching str8 porn too for the men's dicks and buttholes.
There is even a Yahoo group for it. It's all pix and videos of guys
fucking with their legs spread wide enough you can see their
bullseye.

What is the yahoo group called - i wanna find it!

 

[Yorkie]

There is zero, I repeat zero correlation between deciding what feels good to one's own body and one's sexual orientation. I like it when my wife sucks my cock. Does that mean I want men to suck my cock? No. I like it when my wife plays with my ass. Does that mean I want men to play with my ass? No.

How is this in the least way confusing to anyone?

Also if you can suck your own cock it's just another form of masturbation.It doesen't mean you want to suck anyone else's,or that you want a male mouth on you,it means you don't have a woman available to do the job for you.
When a straight guy is wanking he's not imagining it's another guy's hand around his cock.

 

[capcraz]

Also if you can suck your own cock it's just another form of masturbation.It doesen't mean you want to suck anyone else's,or that you want a male mouth on you...

That part was an attempt at humor Try not to take things so literally