Straight Men: Do You Feel Hounded By Gay Guys Here?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by jason_els, Nov 30, 2008.

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Straight Guys: Do You Get Hit On By Gays and Does It Bother You?

  1. Gay guys here never hit on me or only very rarely and I'm glad they don't.

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  2. Gay guys here never hit on me or only very rarely but I'd be flattered if they did.

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  3. Gay guys here sometimes hit on me and it bothers me.

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  4. Gayguys here sometimes hit one me and I'm flattered.

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    42.2%
  5. Gay guys here hit on me frequently and it bothers me.

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  6. Gay guys here hit on me frequently and I'm flattered.

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  1. jason_els

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    Really simple question. If your profile says you're straight do you still frequently get hit on by the gay/bi guys here? Does it make you uncomfortable or do you just take it in stride? Are there some guys who just won't take a hint?

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  2. D_Jared Padalicki

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    Of course, not uncomfterable (well sometimes, but not much). Well if you are on a site like this, you can expect that. I also give compliments too people because it's good that they also show off and not only lurk around here, so I'm postive about that!
     
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    I don't mind anyone hitting on me. I figure gay guys have great taste (sorry :tongue: ) when it comes to men and take it as a compliment.

    It is a little weird when the profile says 100% str8 and they send a message saying what great cock I have and would I like to meet up?! But hey, what the hell... this is lpsg...anything can happen!
     
  5. NCbear

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    I've been hit on more by "straight" guys both here and in real life than by "gay" or "bi" guys.

    Just sayin'.

    But back to the original thread.

    NCbear (who thinks human sexuality is even more fluid than an overabundance of pre-come :biggrin1:)
     
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    If you're straight and it bothers you, why in the world would you be here in the first place. I mean, let's be realistic, the woman/man ratio is somewhat lacking, plus it's not like the women here are here just to hit on men or be hit on by men.

    Personally it doesn't bother me, it's a great compliment. However, when I get a PM that speaks to nothing other than wanting to splatter various body fluids all over me, it's a little annoying.

    However, even getting something that blunt from a female without at least saying "hello" first would be just as annoying. Call me old fashioned but I like a little conversation mixed into anything sexual.
     
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  7. NCbear

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    Seconded, Wartrac.

    A little conversation with the admiration would be nice.

    NCbear (who's finally handsome enough--with the beard--to get compliments in public, but who remembers how agonizing those socially awkward dork/teen years were)
     
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    Bear+Beard+gentle Carolinian drawl=me drooling and making a fool of myslef.



    Agree with Wartrac-why, why, why would someone be on this board and allow access to themselves if they were going to be bothered by other men approaching them?


    (as for me, I'd be pleased as punch if just once someone here would hit on me. YOUCH! I said hit ON me, not hit at me.)
     
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    Never had a problem with it. In fact, since most gays are liberal, I am most likely repulsive to gays because I post conservative on Politics Forum. The only time I've ever even experienced anything like that was in the chatroom.
     
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    DITTO!

    and it doesn't bother me...it's just something I've gotten used to over the years...
     
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    I don't mind it, though I tend to ignore. Gay guys have needs too. I'm not going to get offended by their expressing that need. Besides, I appreciate their feedback on photos.
     
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    This thread makes "gay" men sound cheap. Anyway, I would hope that once "gay" men find out the guy is "straight," they will just back off!
     
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    I think we're drawing too dark a line between gay and straight guys, and dumping bi guys (like me) in with gay dudes.

    There's a lot of guys here who are curious or turned on by cock.

    And there's lots of guys here who like looking at big cocks, whether or not they're about to go shopping for china patterns with another dude.

    I've been hit on by guys here who say they're 99% or 100% straight.

    Well, SOMETHING'S going on that flies in the face of that self-classification. So I just choose to ignore it in everyone here.

    Look, if you get a thrill out of posting a pic of your big fat junk online and having people react to it, that makes you (and me) different from most people. We get a kick out of having both men and women go ooooh-aaaaah about it, I think.

    So, I think the self-proclaimed straight people here are not as Typically Straight as everyone thinks. Which is cool!
     
  14. CALAMBO

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    kinda goes w/territory on a dick site...i think we all get a kick from it..or we would not return...
     
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    You mean a guy will log on here, post pictures of his dick, ask for comments, and then get all uptight if another guy hits on him? This is, after all, a dick affinity group.

    But then, I've known girls to wear see-thru blouses, tits and nipples very apparent, and then complain that guys are staring.
     
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    I do get hit on via msg's from gay guys but usually it doesnt bother me as most accept the fact im str8 and just wanna say nice dick etc which im fine with. What bothers me are the sort of 5% of real assholes who just wont take no im str8 for a answer.
     
  17. No_Strings

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    I don't think I've ever felt hounded by anyone, about anything, on LPSG.
    I enjoy compliments regardless of whom they came; I don't receive compliments in any real life situations, so a part of me actually likes the attention if and when it arrives.
     
  18. AG08

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    I've received a few PMs from gay guys hitting on me and I'm flattered. They must really like my writing because I have absolutely NO pics posted.
     
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    It doesn't bother me.
     
  20. rob_just_rob

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    Where's the "I don't care" options?
     
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