Has anyone had a straight friend that makes them uncomfortable. Like when I play basketball, i feel weird when people pat me on my butt.
im an avid boxer/martial artist and its kinda an congratulations thing.dont sweat it.....firemen also pat each other on the arse.besides...how is that acting gay?Has anyone had a straight friend that makes them uncomfortable. Like when I play basketball, i feel weird when people pat me on my butt.
gay to slap someone's ass, decorate his home, envy his pecs, throw like a girl, bake a cake, or cry at a movie.
I am straight. But I did gay things sometimes.
Usually, people mistook me as a gay! Sickening... I can accept gay but that doesn't mean that I am a gay!!! Some gays can't get this intot their mind.
OMFG!! I'M A GAY MAN!!!
Um, you might wanna rephrase that? I hope you wanna rephrase that... Why is it 'sickening' that someone might mistake you for gay? Is it 'sickening' if a gay guy is mistaken for str8 - because that happens all the time and I don't hear them complaining.
"Some gays can't get this into their mind" *ponders* you wouldn't happen to be one of these paranoid str8 types who thinks every gay guy fancies you just cos you have a cock and asshole, would you? I mean, you do know what that strongly suggests to everyone, don't you?
(closet door, ajar? closed?, still hiding in the back? no? maybe?...)
Oh, c'mon. Gay things? "Doing Gay things" is having man-on-man sex. Everything else is just a bunch of stereotypical BS.
For the ten billionth time, it doesn't make you gay to slap someone's ass, decorate his home, envy his pecs, throw like a girl, bake a cake, or cry at a movie.
If it makes you uncomfortable, I'm afraid it tells us nothing about him but so very much about you...
Thanks, sweetcheeks.Mmmmhmmm exactly,
You tell em sister! :biggrin1:
Thanks, sweetcheeks.
By the way, I saw this book (Androphilia) in a Barnes and Noble a couple of days ago, and thought of your "Gay Men who reject Gay culture" thread. Do you know it? It seems to make the argument that you were voicing in an impassioned but intriguing manner.
I confess to only skimming it, but it did not seem angry. It seemed very concerned with separating homosexuality from its associations with feminized behavior, and with elevating the cult of masculinity, but not particularly with punishing or rejecting those who walk a different path. The gist of the argument is that "gay" is a specific subset of "homosexual" culture. There are other subsets with which he wishes to be associated. The rest of us can associate as we like...Yes, it is on the bestseller list here. Suprise! I read the review on Amazon. Sounds like an angry book that I will get as a birthday present. :smile:
I confess to only skimming it, but it did not seem angry. It seemed very concerned with separating homosexuality from its associations with feminized behavior, and with elevating the cult of masculinity, but not particularly with punishing or rejecting those who walk a different path. The gist of the argument is that "gay" is a specific subset of "homosexual" culture. There are other subsets with which he wishes to be associated. The rest of us can associate as we like...