straight men fascinated by big penis?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by B_Marius567, Apr 17, 2011.

  1. B_Marius567

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    why are straight men fascinated by big cocks? i do not think thay want sex from me but just fascinated by a big cock.
     
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    I think they are in awe of what they probably do not have... to every man, his cock is the center of his being, right? Hence the interest or fascination aspect..... If they do possess a ginormous one, there is still the comparison factor...alpha male bit...
     
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    Great question. I am definitely fascinated by big dicks. However, I cannot think about kissing a man. Still, I think about sucking a big dick or stroking one all the time. It feels really foreign and I swear to god I do not feel gay in the sense of how I know I think about women. I find them totally delicious and want to hook up and connect with women regardless of how pretty or fit they may be. Guys, however, feel weird and I have yet to feel that feeling to go to the next level when one on one. I check craigslist for hookups and think about pulling the trigger but I'm concerned I'm just into beating off to dicks on the internet and will just ruin an in person encounter. Plus, I feel like a willing, inexperienced "straight" mouth isn't enough to lure a decent guy. I want to try sucking a dick but my standards are only for a hung dude without disease. Any ideas?
     
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    Wow, this is a great question. I feel exactly the same: I love women, hunger for women...but mostly beat off to big cock. I guess this is why the cuckold fantasy is so strong for me...but who knows. I see a big, thick one in the locker room and my knees immediately weaken. I'm 43 and can't get the idea of big dick out of my head when I'm horny, but would I kiss a guy? PUKE!

    Haha...sexuality is a crazy thing.
     
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    It seems this same issue comes up on the site every so often and I usually have the same response. To Econocook, I sense a real disconnect in your mind between "dicks" and human beings. It's no different than thinking about a woman primarily as a "pussy". You are objectifying the "hung dude without disease". You're right, why would any decent guy want to hook up with someone who only wants his dick to use for an experiment? I know I wouldn't be interested in you because you seem insensitive to the fact that I'm a human being, have feelings and needs. You're right, a willing inexperienced "straight" mouth is pretty disgusting when compared with a loving, open, attractive and sexy male to be intimate with. Maybe you need to look at your motivations. :mad:
     
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    I think it's this weird paradox. Being a man is often about trying to be the biggest. With everything else that symbolizes "man" -- your bank account, your reputation, your biceps, etc. -- you can WORK to get it bigger. You can get a good paying job, invest, save, etc., and have more money; you can lift weights to make your muscles bigger. But with your penis -- which represents you masculinity more than anything else -- you can't really make it bigger, unless you "pump" or get a penis lengthening procedure. But most men can't afford to get a penis lengthening; and a lot of men don't know about "pumping," or they would think that's weird.
     
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    Good point. I am pretty shallow and transient. No offense. Just being honest.
     
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    I really think you're being unnecessarily harsh on someone for simply describing their sexuality. If the thought of kissing another guy makes him puke, then he has a right to say so. He has a right to say how he feels.
     
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    i love seeing a huge dick fuk a tight pussy
     
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    Sure, there are the other components to human sexuality--the internal goodness of your partner, the sensitivity level of the person, the kind of caring qualities they possess, etc. But, after stripping away all of that, there is the other side. We are visual creatures by nature. The sight of a long, thick, beautifully shaped penis with a huge, round head is indeed a beautiful sight, whether you're straight or gay. A handsome penis is like a fine work of art. It elicits all kinds of guttural reactions, whether we admit it or not. We shouldn't be afraid or ashamed of that. Embrace it, I say!
     
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    the penis elicits reactions from all men -- because all men have a penis. remember, even straight porn has a lot of penises in it ... and often the criteria for being a straight porn star is to have a big penis. this is why freud said everyone was ultimately bisexual. whether they admit it or not, straight guys do get off on watching other straight guys have sex. sexually doesn't really come in the neat little packages we've been programmed to think....
     
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    I used to share a house with a straight identified guy who liked cocks. He explained that it wasn't the man he was attracted to, just the penis. He loves and enjoys women. He doesn't love men. He no longer has sex with men because their "pheremones" put him off.

    My conclusion: like many of us gay (and straight) males, especially males, he has a penis fetish. A fetish is all about the look, size, feel, shape, colour of the object, in this case the cock, but it's not at all about the person attached to that object. ("would I kiss a guy? PUKE!")

    Without committing to the argument about whether this makes him straight or gay or bi, I guess it just makes him a cock fetishist.

    I'm gay but I sometimes enjoy huge (massive) fake tits on female models. I guess that's a fetish too. I think the thing about a fetish is that it can almost be disconnected from the person - as a way of life this would have its limitations I guess - but as a hobby I don't think it deserves moral condemnation.

    For the brave guys who wrote to say that they love to beat off to cocks when they're horny but who aren't attracted to actually finding a guy to have sex with, you're probably best just to keep your fetish a fantasy unless you are prepared to go through some tough times experimenting. On the other hand, there are venues such as glory holes and bookstores and saunas designed explicitly to satisfy your fetish without a messy "relationship", a kiss, or even a single word being exchanged. Just play safe.
     
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    Sounds like you have some stories to tell. I look forward to hearing them!
     
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    All I know is I've never known a gay guy, certainly not one that identified himself as 99% or 100% gay,
    who liked looking at pussy, much less playing with pussy, eating pussy, or jacking off to pussy. Jes sayin.....







    p.s. You can be highly aroused by, even obsessed with sexual organs, but it doesn't qualify as a "fetish" in the psychological sense.
     
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    Really good thread, I see a lot of us are in the same boat.
     
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    Here's another option no one has ventured yet. Let me be the first: maybe these straight guys who are fascinated by big penis are actually bisexual and haven't yet realized/accepted that. :)
     
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    This may be true, but these supposed "straight" guys always say exactly the same thing ad naseum..."I'm straight but only like big dicks, not the guys who they're attached to." So where are you going to find big dicks sort of floating around in space? I've heard this same thing over and over again on LPSG and I think I'm tired of it. The fact is, males are not all the same. To reject half the human race as emotionally unworthy is a strange attitude to me. I really see it as unenlightened. And yes, I'm judging the guy who originally wrote it.
     
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    hmmm.... well if not "bisexual", at least something less than 99-100% straight.

    And tbh, I think that option has been explored before, just not by most of the guys sitting in that boat. ;-)
     
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    I enjoy watching beautiful people, both female and male. I also like to compare my penis size with other specimen. I don't want to have sex with men, I therefore consider myself "straight".
     
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    Some guys are just not confident in bed. So they think having a big dick would make giving orgasms easier. lol
     
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