Straight men getting head from gays?

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  1. maxcok

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    Okay, again. If a 'straight' guy sucks another guy's cock, even another 'straight' guy's cock, doesn't that make him a little less than 100 percent 'straight'? He could be predominantly straight or even bi, but if he says he's completely straight, I'm sorry, he's deluding himself. Your sexual orientation is not determined by how you present yourself, or what you tell yourself you are, it is what you desire and what you do sexually. And it's not a left/right, black/white, gay/straight matter. There are gradations. Has anybody ever heard of the Kinsey scale, or am I the only one? Has anybody ever heard of gray?
     
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    i agree with that I got about four or five friends I would love to blow
     
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    I had read the definition at one time to be "actively seeks sex with the same gender"
     
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    Yes, just once. Looking forward to the second blow job
     
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    I’ve come to respect Jon’s opinions. He gives the impression of someone who thinks through a subject, and owns his thoughts, before mouthing off.

    To my mind sexual orientation is in our attraction, not exactly in everything we may have done. It is easy for me to see a straight male letting a gay male suck him without thinking him gay. He’s simply receiving pleasure and not necessarily experiencing any attraction to the guy down there on his knees. A straight male can have zero attraction to males but accept a blow job.

    I stumble at the notion that anyone can suck cock if they are not attracted to cock and the male to whom it is attached. Easily, I can understand someone declaring them self only 10% gay or whatever, being comfortable doing it; but how it plays that a guy can enjoy the act of sucking without seeing himself having some homosexual attraction is perplexing to me.

    Yet Jon has posted of such, so maybe he understands how some straight guys would be feeling. Straight guys can have circle jerks, maybe even wank each other and most of us would not think that necessarily makes them gay.

    So maybe I am projecting some of the considerable emotion that I can feel when sucking to anyone who is sucking. Aside from being sensual, it can be a profoundly intimate and important experience for me. Maybe some guys can do it without being offended, despite being entirely straight, without such emotion; maybe it’s just sharing something fun.
     
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    Again, not black or white. Gray. Capiche?
     
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    You CAN choose how you act with your orientation by either trying to go with or against your PREFERED sex gender, but to say you "choose" your orientation is BS. One can't choose what turns them on sexually - it just is what it is.
     
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    ^ ^ ^ word ^ ^ ^
     
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    Interesting thread!
     
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    I have, he's the only person to ever swallow for me. Girls never do it, or will even entertain the idea.
     
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    But you're not totally straight, have never been totally straight
    and will never be.

    By virtue of your homosexuality you are, by nature, precluded from
    not only knowing what a "straight" guy would do, but, needless to say,
    straight guys in general who, by virtue of their own individuality,
    would not all unanimously agree on the current topic.

    Getting a blow job from a gay guy does not make a straight guy gay,
    nor is it "gay" according to what it truly means to be gay. A complete,
    encompassing need to love and be loved both physically and emotionally
    by another male is closer to the true definition of homosexuality than
    getting it up for someone who knows how to blow you, even if it happens
    to be a guy.

    Boys and men may experience erections while horseing around with dogs,
    playing with babies, and wrestling around with each other (straight guys).
    Are we to assume they are sexually turned on?
    Of course not.
    They are responding physiologically to pleasure experienced in the
    body, and, if personal mores permit, men who are, YES, straight,
    can derive great satisfaction from letting a gay or Bi guy perform
    oral sex on them without any desire for reciprocation in any way.

    Guys are better at it, trust me, I know.
    And I suspect alot of straight guys have surmised as much,
    with or without experiencing the difference themselves.
     
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    Engaging in oral sex isnt a natural reaction, it is a conscious series of actions with a desired ending in mind so no you post doesnt cover it.
     
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    I know I'm gonna get flamed for this, but if so called "straight" women can make out with each other and still call themselves straight, then I don't see why straight guys can't get head from other guys and still call themselves straight.
     
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    Nor does your comment quite cover anything at all, really.

    Recieving oral sex is a "series of actions with a desired ending in mind"?

    How does that relate to a straight guy getting head from a gay guy?
    And, more importantly, how does your conviction,
    whatever it was, negate the truth in which a straight
    guy can enjoy oral sex by a gay guy?

    The question we have to ask ourselves here is this
    (and in so doing, weed through the nonsense):

    IF A STRAIGHT GUY, ON A DARE, LETS SAY, OR OUT
    OF SHEER CURIOSITY, ALLOWS A GAY GUY TO TAKE
    HIS FLACCID PENIS INTO HIS MOUTH AND HE FINDS
    THAT IT, IN TURN, BECOMES ERECT AND HE ENJOYS
    THE EXPERIENCE,
    ARE WE TO ASSUME THAT HIS HETEROSEXUALITY
    HAD, UP TO THAT MOMENT, BEEN A PRETENSE?

    WHAT EXACTLY MAKES THIS OTHERWISE
    HETEROSEXUAL GUY GAY?
    IS IT HIS WILLINGNESS TO ALLOW A GAY MAN
    TO BLOW HIM,
    OR IS IT HIS ERECTION?

    WILLINGNESS TO LET A GAY GUY BLOW YOU CAN
    BE MANY THINGS,
    CURIOSITY, A DRUNKEN DECISION, THE RESULT OF
    A DARE, OR, PLAIN OLD HORNINESS.
    BUT TO BIND THE SITUATION TO A "SERIES OF
    PSYCHOLOGICAL PROCESSES" IS A REDUCTIONISTIC
    ATTEMPT TO THWART THE OBVIOUS:

    STRAIGHT DICKS HAVE A MIND OF THEIR OWN:
    THEY GET UP FOR WHAT GETS THEM OFF,
    WITH OR WITHOUT " A SERIES OF CONCIOUS
    DECISIONS".

    When a straight guy uses a suction device to
    suck his meat, society does'nt react by saying
    'HE'S NOT REALLY STRAIGHT, HE'S IN LOVE
    WITH PLASTIC", WHY ELSE WOULD HE GET
    OFF THAT WAY"?

    Sometimes, just looking at the obvious, something
    that can occur when we get past the generic labeling
    of man and his sexuality, we find the truth staring
    at us right in the face and the former questions
    only seem silly.
     
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    I hate men. I have no attraction to them, nor would i want to make love or kiss one. But I like cock. I call myself bi, but, consider those who have a facination for the cock alone. It is as close as you can get to self love or giving yourself a blow job.

    I'd prefer to play with one on a hot shemale, as I love woman, but in certain situations can see myself using a cock for sex...just don't want anything to do with the dude attached to it!
     
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    Actually it does

    Yes.
    Every moment you allow you dick to get sucked is a conscious decision. Unless you are forced in which case it is rape.

    Ive never known someone to get their dick sucked and not know they can stop it.

    I didnt address that. What I said was that your stance of its ok it feels good is complete bullshit. It completely leave out all rational thought.
     
  18. CorsicanU

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    ... gotcha.

    Makes alot of sense.

    To you, that is.

    Nevertheless,
    STRAIGHT GUYS can recieve oral sex from gay guys and fully enjoy it
    without, of course, being gay themselves.

    Homosexuality is a complex and sophisicated psychosexual dynamic
    as ARE ALL FORMS OF SEXUAL GRATIFICATION that can't be relegated
    to an action, i.e, " If a straight guy allows himself to be blown by a
    gay guy then he must be gay".

    Horsecrap.

    Homosexuality- as an ORIENTATION- is correctly defined as
    "AN ENDURING ROMANTIC AND SEXUAL ATTRACTION EXCLUSIVELY
    TO PEOPLE OF THE SAME SEX". Now unless a guy who is on the
    recieving end of fellatio with another man fits that description we can safely surmise that the guy in question is, indeed, straight
    and is simply "getting off" with another guy (who happens to be
    gay) as our gender has done throughout centuries, especially before
    the modern era in which the heterosexualization of society
    has deemed any and all male to male contact (outside the realm of sports) as "gay" and
    shameful, even when "sex" is the furthest thing from our minds.

    That was the topic, and that was my answer.
     
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    On THAT note, Politicians can claim they've got your best interests at heart all the time... But, that doesn't mean they DO...
    Criminals can claim to be law-abiding citizens... etc.. but that doesn't mean they ARE.

    As for getting erect... Just the physical stimulus can do it for some people, whether it's a hand, mouth, vagina, butt, electrical probe, etc...

    And, yes.. I've take up the Bar... The Devil is my first client..
     
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    Even in reference to your own post your logic ranges from non-existent to damn near mind bogglingly bad.
     
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