Straight men have gay fantasies.

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_theaussieone, Jan 22, 2013.

  1. rbkwp

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    Abstract Conjecture, me thinks!
     
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    Well, for me...it isn't necessarily an aversion to women's bodies. I am not into women sexually...I am not attracted to women how they are...women do think differently...and if I were a straight man...I could understand the appeal.


    While I have had a few fantasies about women...make no mistake... I am not bisexual. I think bisexuality is pretty interesting. I am just not that man. I am not straight. I am way exclusively homosexual.
     
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    They do? And gay men have straight fantasies?

    Tbh, I'd doubt this unless it's more of a theoretical mind-wander than a masturbatory fantasy - or they're bi.
     
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    The same nonsense again and again. I just wish there was a class at school that could propperly educate us, when we are able to learn, what are the true powers of the sexual intercousre, with any sex, as a means of relieveing tension and bringing balance to our freaked-out city-trapped minds. Why should we be labelled as straight or bi ir gay or whatever? I prefer thinking using my mind and not my genitals. And probably this is what i do in order to decide for my partners, males or females. Both are yummy when they use their brains. Even this website tends to eliminate the freedom of sexual choice, by displaying the percentage of homo brain cells that occupy our heads. Spontaneity anyone? Freedom of choice anyone? The feeling of the butterfly effect when you see someone that makes you horny, that very, paticular moment and you want to be with them just because you are horny? Take care and enjoy sex whenever you can.
     
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    Interesting but questionable methodology. I consider myself bisexual; if 1 were completely hetero and 10 were homo then I am between 5 and 7. That being said, I have never engaged in a sexual act with friends in the 1-3 range. I have, however, had very strong emotional bonds with several and have gone as far as cuddling and comforting each other.
    Is that considered acting out same-sex fantasy or do we have to cross swords....or consider it....to count.
     
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    "Mirror reflection" means "reflections of ourselves"; that is to say, our maleness reflected in others such as in the penis.

    It's very obvious that men are attracted to penises - just look at straight porn where there abound without end. Men love to see big, strong and handsome penises - the ideal in physical masculinity. The sight of their own penis very much arouses then (exceptions), and so seeing others- particulary the "ideal" ones also evoke some level of arousal (men,in general, get aroused from the mere sight of penises). So this is more than mere aesthetic appreciation; it's a form of real sexual attraction. But, again, it says very little about the true sexual orientation of any man.
     
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    I don't know that I would call my thoughts a real fantasy; however, I sometimes have great sexual thoughts and actual dreams involving deep and satisfying penetration of women and I love to watch straight porn where large vaginas and big cocks are involved! Not sure, maybe I have a penetration fantasy which manifests as heterosexual at times:confused:
     
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    I find it amusing that you have elected to speak for men as a whole; based largely, if not totally, upon your own perception of the way things are.

    I do not find myself aroused by the sight of penises, my own or anyone else's.

    Believe me, when I tell you that although I watch porn, I do so because of the arousal I feel by seeing the women involved, the cocks are merely a distraction; perhaps that's why I often prefer lesbian, or solo female porn.
     
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    Bien sûr qu'il s'agit d'une "idée fixe" qui émane de pas mal de mes posts. Je ne dis que tout haut ce que pense tout le monde tout bas.
     
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    It's the way you claim to speak on behalf of all men that is really beginning to grate...

    If you could just begin to speak in the first person, or else give us a source for these sweeping generalisations you insist on including in your posts.
     
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    I actually think that most men are not attracted to the penis; they're actually repulsed by it. Besides, most porn made now is lesbian anyways (like 99.99% - so there's your proof). Seeing big dicks has really started to grate on the nerves of most straight men. I know so many now who won't even masturbate their cocks without thinking of it as a swollen clit. A dickless world is coming... (Sex change operation centers will abound like McDonalds - on every street corner.)

    It's all common sense, though: men have a sexual organ called a penis that brings them great sadness. You surely wouldn't be "sexually" attracted to your own "sexual" organ, or other ones of others, particularly ideal ones as defined by your culture. Where was my head? Up my ass? Hey, I tried to figure it out all - I just was lacking major logic.
     
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    From the article:

    The fourth most common sexual fantasy among straight men is sex with another male, especially receiving oral sex from a guy

    I'd really need to know what percentage of men have this fantasy in order to comment if I'm surprised or not.

    I never have this fantasy (oral or otherwise).
     
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    ^^ Not me.
     
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    I have no desire to receive oral sex from a man - how boring! I find sex in general with men as boring, but I am not weirded out by it. I can watch gay porn, and sometimes get aroused. But it's not something that I really enjoy (the beautiful bods + male-on-male kissing + taboo factor = sometimes works for me, but not usually).

    (Notice I use the word "boring" instead of "gross" - not the usual word typical straight men use to describe their distaste for any kind of gay sex. This really throws people off.)
     
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    Sexuality is so fluid if you let it... A straight man may only like str8 sex but might have discovered anal play and enjoyed it, toys are fine but I know of a few drunken discussions that have go to this point.
    Its has then been said a real cock would feel really different - and more enjoyable - about 6 of the straight guys out of 8 - a total of 15 of us - 5 of us gay two of us bi . the 6 said after discussing wouldn't totally rule it out, and have fantasised about a real cock in side them when they were at the heat of passion pre cumming. So we've not been on a good night out in a while so cant give an update or even know if the conversation will get to that point again
     
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    I think it sort of depends what you mean by 'having a fantasy' ...

    Sometimes there's just a fleeting, random thought. Sometimes it raises just a dreamy, faraway smile. Sometimes more.

    Other people deliberately repeat the same scenarios over and over in their head. And it influences when, and how they masturbate. They might even have special clothing to do that, or fetish gear of one kind or another, or other objects ... that's obviously a more definite fantasy.

    It does feel a bit like some straight men get very defensive about it. What do they think they'd be saying about themselves, if they admitted that a thought about gay sex had ever passed through their head for a few moments ? I know I've occasionally thought about ( and indeed distantly remembered ) heterosexual sex. So what ?

    I don't presume to know what is going on in other people's heads, and I don't much care. It does seem like a reasonable hypothesis to me. But it wouldn't change anything in the real world at all. So again - so what ?

    :smile:
     
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    I've never had any kind of gay fantasies, ever. That's why I say I'm 100% straight. If I had a gay fantasy then it wouldn't quite be 100% :p
     
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    m'eh. sexuality is fluid. i don't want to have sex with a man at all. but you have to admit that simply being on this forum is itself a little gay. LOL. Sometimes I click on the profiles of fellow straight guys on this forum and see that they are checking out the galleries of other guys. LOL I just see it as a form of brotherly love. That's all.
     
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    That much being said, I personally don't have gay fantasies either. I do have fantasies sometimes, but they are fantasies of, well, "bonding," as weird as that sounds. LOL. Sometimes, I think it would be great to play football with a certain guy, go camping with him, etc., hell, I'll even admit it: sometimes I think of certain guys that I'd even like to hug. LOL But these aren't sexual fantasies, so I guess they don't count....

    I do, however, sometimes have fantasies about a three-way, a girl and me and another guy. No male-male penetration in my fantasies at all. Just us having sex with the girl at the same time. But, I will admit, that's a little bit gay in itself, I guess.

    M'eh. Who cares? LOL
     
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    How is it gay for a man to show off his big dick on the internet, and consequently, compare, as is the case on LPSG? So any "disclosure" thereof makes you gay? Are we men supposed to just act like are penises exist on our bodies, but never expose, particularly where are males can see it? :eek: If you catch a peak, or dare to compare, or have a sense of pride over your big man meant .... you might be a homo!:biggrin1: Come on!:mad:
     
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