Straight men: have you had sex in front of other people? If so, how many?

[tubeamp]

I had posted this in another forum but I think it was the wrong one to get answers so I’m trying here, then I’ll give up.

Pretty simple question.

For me, it was about 12 people in a European sex club. I got really lucky: I met two women who wanted to do a threesome in a fairly public area; they told me that the guys they had already asked all said no. We ended up with something like 12 people watching us. Didn’t bother me or affect my performance.

 

[notthatguy]

Well for me, when I was younger, it happened pretty much every time I shared a hotel room with a friend. Most often I would pick up a girl or two and fuck the crap out of them. I definitely got off on fucking while my friend was in the other bed usually jerking off.

 

[nomju]

For me it was about 12-15. Who's counting when you're busy. It was as the La Chamber swingers club, in Sheffield.
Unfortunately the club is now closed (COVID killed it), and the wife and I no longer swing. But happy memories.

 

[EG1972]

Had sex in a swingers party. Think we were with some 12 people.

 

[tubeamp]

Had sex in a swingers party. Think we were with some 12 people.

What did you think of it? Turned on? No big deal? Didn't plan on it and a little awkward?

 

[BigToken361]

Well for me, when I was younger, it happened pretty much every time I shared a hotel room with a friend. Most often I would pick up a girl or two and fuck the crap out of them. I definitely got off on fucking while my friend was in the other bed usually jerking off.

You sound like a natural bull. This has been me over the last decade with the other guy watching being her less endowed husband

 

[tubeamp]

Didn't ever think about it that way. But I like the observation.

BTW, when we got done, one of the women watching said "you three were so comfortable with us watching that you could probably do porn!" I thought that was funny.

 

[BigToken361]

Didn't ever think about it that way. But I like the observation.

BTW, when we got done, one of the women watching said "you three were so comfortable with us watching that you could probably do porn!" I thought that was funny.

Haha it is funny when you do it in front of men as well. Makes you feel like a champ when they sit by living vicariously through you. I usually make them hold my underwear while they watch

 

[EG1972]

What did you think of it? Turned on? No big deal? Didn't plan on it and a little awkward?

Felt excited. We were in one house on Curacao for 10 days around Christmas and New Year's Eve. Ten days being nude. Having sex with several women, the first bisexual experience, which was sucking a cock of a man. All in front of other people.

 

[tubeamp]

Haha it is funny when you do it in front of men as well. Makes you feel like a champ when they sit by living vicariously through you. I usually make them hold my underwear while they watch

Yeah, about three of the guys were naked and jerking off. The others were wrapped in a towel, and I felt like they were jealous.

 

[BigToken361]

Yeah, about three of the guys were naked and jerking off. The others were wrapped in a towel, and I felt like they were jealous.

Yes, you would be surprised how they are pretty much under your "spell" so to speak in that moment. You are essentially the leader in that moment. I like to make them do chores while they stand on the sidelines. Have them apply lube to my cock, hold her ass open for me, place my underwear on their head like I'm using them as a "coathanger" etc. You'd be surprised how submissive they get in those situations.

 

[tubeamp]

Yeah, I never thought of it that way, but I think you are right. I am thinking about the comment about porn. I know there is lots of performance anxiety even in private threesomes. Even though some of the guys might have done a threesome themselves, I'll bet some of the guys were jealous or really humbled watching me go at it totally hard with two women, without hesitancy, with the crowd.

I wish I had imagined it like you say. I wish I had shot lube down to my feet and told someone to lube me. Or, when I switched women, I could have told someone to put a new condom on me. That would have been super cool.

 

[BigToken361]

Yeah, I never thought of it that way, but I think you are right. I am thinking about the comment about porn. I know there is lots of performance anxiety even in private threesomes. Even though some of the guys might have done a threesome themselves, I'll bet some of the guys were jealous or really humbled watching me go at it totally hard with two women, without hesitancy, with the crowd.

I wish I had imagined it like you say. I wish I had shot lube down to my feet and told someone to lube me. Or, when I switched women, I could have told someone to put a new condom on me. That would have been super cool.

Yes, now you're thinking. If you have multiple guys watching, designate a task to each one . For example, I've made one the 'waiter' and have him stand (or kneel) bedside holding drinks for me and the woman for when we're done. Make another the errand boy, another one to apply a new condom and swallow the contents of the old one etc. For my cucks, I like to make them get on all fours after in front of the couch and serve as a footrest for when I watch TV. Things like that

 

[Robert Dole]

An old GF had a thing for being watched by her best friend- it came about quite accidentally when her friend walked in on us one afternoon and GF didn't notice, I didn't say anything and GFBF watched for 20 seconds with a horny expression before leaving. The following afternoon she did it again but GF noticed this time and started to tell her friend to get out, but forgot about her friend watching when I picked her up and slid her onto my cock, legs wrapped around me and full of cock. She gasped and moaned, forgot about her friend and milked my cock to orgasm while her friend watched in awestruck silence. They must have discussed it because it happened a bit after then, nothing much said, just sit down and watch - and in time, a hand slipped up her skirt or into her pants. There were things GF was a bit shy about and wouldn't do while her friend was there but also lots of other things she would put a lot of effort into.

 

[BigBen]

Felt excited. We were in one house on Curacao for 10 days around Christmas and New Year's Eve. Ten days being nude. Having sex with several women, the first bisexual experience, which was sucking a cock of a man. All in front of other people.

Was the guy you gave oral to….was he the husband of one of the wives you fucked? Was his cock bigger than yours?

 

[BigBen]

Question:

Straight Men: Have You Had Sex In Front Of Other People? If So, How Many?​

Many, many times….over many man years…started even back when I was young. Older women in small groups taking turns with me.

Then later College…Then huge sex parties….lifestyle conventions that lasted days and even weeks…clothing optional lifestyle friendly resorts in the USA, Jamaica, Caribbean…more swinger lifestyle parties.,..

Sometimes just a few.,.,often dozens…even over a hundred a few times.

Naturally I gravitated to the women who were the most physically attractive to me…but….if there were other studs at these events who were also extremely endowed…I usually found that has the obvious biggest and most virile, I wanted first the wives and girlfriends of the other biggest studs who had seen…often for the first time ever…a bigger monster cock than their own behemoth. If their wives and girlfriend and lovers were willing to try to stretch out try to take bigger…

 

[EG1972]

Was the guy you gave oral to….was he the husband of one of the wives you fucked? Was his cock bigger than yours?

He had two girls with him, none were married. He had a way bigger cock.
We were with 5 guys and 7 girls as far i can remember. Had sex with all the girls. Sucked two men's cocks.

 

[cofrader]

it was a beach at night with a woman I met on vacations it's possible that someone was watching but i didn't saw anyone.

 

[Blade-Blanco]

We had an overnight graduation party. Of course there were lots of drinks, basketball, and having a good time. My girlfriend and I went to sleep in the living room area. There were plenty of people "passed" out. I was horny and she said what about them? I told her they weren't going to wake up. We did it. I'm not sure if anyone did wake up. Honestly, I didn't care. It was a good time.

 

[38long]

As I don't see a point in sharing my attention and focus to an audience, least of all, be watched like a zoo specimen about to procreate, I keep my encounters 1 on 1. I had a threesome experience which was very good (in my situation, it's reeeeally rare), but we all were directly active and I was focusing on one, then on another, back and forth.

The only time something happened that I was watched was accidental with a friend. It was extremely awkward for both of us, because he knew I hated that but couldn't do anything to leave that place at that moment (a downpour and he had lost his key to get back to his place, and we were in a single room hostel), and I knew that he would be uncomfortable with my size, twice his own. The chick was too busy to pay attention to anything else, but I had that buzz at the back of my head added to the excruciating attention I already had to pay not to hurt her while thrusting.

I'm very concerned with safety. This feeling stretches to many branches of my life and those around me. I'm the protector kind of guy. I don't hover, of course, but when I go with people I care to crowded areas, I simply enter a watchful-mode and get a little anxious, looking after all of them all the time, which is kind of ironic, considering most of them have high graduation on many self-defense fighting styles. On the other hand, I don't get like that when I'm alone in a crowd, because I can fend for myself and people usually give a wide berth, if I'm scowling or glowering. But I don't like to have my back, or my ass for that matter, exposed to a third party when I'm focusing on my business with a chick. They have no business there. And I can get cantankerous quite fast when my space is invaded.