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Sometimes it's by accident. A straight guy I know was having sex with his girlfriend when her finger accidentally pressed up against his anus. He immediately shot his load when that happened, so he started exploring it. She eventually bought a strap-on to use on him during sex and he loves it.

Many guys associate having their anus played with as being gay and it's not. It's no different than a girl who likes having her ass played with during sex. For some people it is a turn on, whether straight or gay. For others, they don't like it at all.
 
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One thing you can try is to play with your anus while you are jacking off. Press your finger up against it. See how it feels. Work up to inserting a finger. If you find you like it, then you can start exploring more.
 

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I like ass play with my wife. Love when she rims me, but it doesn’t happen often. Kinda happens when we’re both tipsy or high (rare). Don’t mind some finger action around the outside but generally find most penetration uncomfortable. Can’t imagine a strap on, not because it would seem gay (who under 50 really fucking thinks ass play = gay these days?) but because it would hurt.
 

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I find sliding a finger in my ass, feeling for my prostate, or just teasing my ass hole to be very stimulating. My orgasms are much more intense if I have a finger in my ass while masturbating.

I have not had the prostate experience that some guys have had. Maybe I’ve been too tense? But I’ve never been like yeah, right there, and realized that a woman had hit my prostate.

About 13 years ago when my wife was very pregnant and fucking became not fun for her, she’d kneel and blow me, suck on my nuts. This led to more ass play and we just started talking about buying some small toys for me. I thought a (very!) small vibrator might hit. Then the baby came and sex kinda dried up for a few years (with occasional moments here and there). And I kinda forgot about the whole vibrator thing, even once sex started picking up again.

Are small vibrators worth it for any of you? My wife is very open. If I want it, she’d be down. Just curious if some of you enjoy it or not.
 

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I like a tongue up my ass while a woman jerks me off from behind, it’s a nice change-of-pace sex move. I would say it feels more like a massage than sex, though, if she’s good at it. I’ve actually gotten soft and just told the girl to keep going because it feels so good and kinda comforting. I’ve also cum from it.

Stick a finger in there, though? Nope. Nope. Nope.
 

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there is a stigma about ass play and gay for straight guys only gay guys take it up the ass and I am not gay. the body has nerve ending and good spots all over that can be explored for example the nipples the ear lobes the inner thigh. if a guy would just explore his body he would find that not just his dick can bring him pleasure but his whole body can. gay guys get more sexual pleasure because they do more explore more rimming ball sucking nipple clamps or sucking massage and prostate orgasm. if a straight dude would just get over the anal is gay attitude and experiance a prostate orgasm they would be more open to ass Play pegging from thier wife there is more to sex than just sticking it in a hole and blowing your load and having a beer when you are done straight guys explore your bodies
 

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there is a stigma about ass play and gay for straight guys only gay guys take it up the ass and I am not gay. the body has nerve ending and good spots all over that can be explored for example the nipples the ear lobes the inner thigh. if a guy would just explore his body he would find that not just his dick can bring him pleasure but his whole body can. gay guys get more sexual pleasure because they do more explore more rimming ball sucking nipple clamps or sucking massage and prostate orgasm. if a straight dude would just get over the anal is gay attitude and experiance a prostate orgasm they would be more open to ass Play pegging from thier wife there is more to sex than just sticking it in a hole and blowing your load and having a beer when you are done straight guys explore your bodies
I had a bud who used to jack off with me and after while we jacked each other. He'd fuck anything on legs as long as it wore a skirt, didn't think us jacking off was at all gay. He liked me sucking his cock an balls while I finger fucked his asshole. Nipples play was a serious way of making him come. He was amazed at how many places I could find on his body that drove him wild' Like to think my sex games helped in his lady fucking as he tried to find erogenous zones.
 

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I have not had the prostate experience that some guys have had. Maybe I’ve been too tense? But I’ve never been like yeah, right there, and realized that a woman had hit my prostate.

About 13 years ago when my wife was very pregnant and fucking became not fun for her, she’d kneel and blow me, suck on my nuts. This led to more ass play and we just started talking about buying some small toys for me. I thought a (very!) small vibrator might hit. Then the baby came and sex kinda dried up for a few years (with occasional moments here and there). And I kinda forgot about the whole vibrator thing, even once sex started picking up again.

Are small vibrators worth it for any of you? My wife is very open. If I want it, she’d be down. Just curious if some of you enjoy it or not.

i think you should. Small vibrators or prostate massagers are oodles of fun. Just don’t forget the lube.
 

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I like ass play with my wife. Love when she rims me, but it doesn’t happen often. Kinda happens when we’re both tipsy or high (rare). Don’t mind some finger action around the outside but generally find most penetration uncomfortable. Can’t imagine a strap on, not because it would seem gay (who under 50 really fucking thinks ass play = gay these days?) but because it would hurt.
I like ass play with my wife. Love when she rims me, but it doesn’t happen often. Kinda happens when we’re both tipsy or high (rare). Don’t mind some finger action around the outside but generally find most penetration uncomfortable. Can’t imagine a strap on, not because it would seem gay (who under 50 really fucking thinks ass play = gay these days?) but because it would hurt.

Be prepared next time you get tipsy with enough lube. It makes the difference between painful and woooo.
 
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Hehe I bet. It’s been a while but when I’ve been stoned and having sex, I’m a lot more relaxed and open. Years ago, pre-kid, we were really high and she went to town on my ass — tongue, finger, lube. I was really hard and turned on and stroking with my legs spread, ass up, balls hanging (which she licked and sucked from time to time). I remember her joking about fisting me and I laughed so hard my ass tightened and her finger popped noisily out of my ass LOL
 

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I often hear about straight men who enjoy anal play and I hear gay men talk about the pleasure of prostate stimulation. I'm all for pleasure but I just don't see myself trying it, any advice on how other guys got into it?
I used to think the anus and anal activity was "dirty".....then I realised that the anus is simply part of the digestive system ( like the mouth ) and similar to the mouth, the anus can be used for more things than just food....one day in the shower, warm and relaxed, just soaped up my ass, and slid a finger in.....#1 very relaxing # 2 very erect # 3 very educational, on how the body works #4 educational, on what women feel during sex ( then to be safe, sprayed my finger with antibacterial wash afterwards )
 

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I had a bud who used to jack off with me and after while we jacked each other. He'd fuck anything on legs as long as it wore a skirt, didn't think us jacking off was at all gay. He liked me sucking his cock an balls while I finger fucked his asshole. Nipples play was a serious way of making him come. He was amazed at how many places I could find on his body that drove him wild' Like to think my sex games helped in his lady fucking as he tried to find erogenous zones.
Oddly enough he popped out of the woodwork a couple of weeks ago wanting to have a jack off session. Naturally I was up for a bit of wank fun so over he came, and literally came over me - but that's by the by. So we jacked of together, he talked dirty and when it was time for the spunk to fly he delivered his load, from a height over me. The view up his asshole was amazing, dam I want to rim him so badly. So he's chatting away about can he come over again, his sex with his lady - not so good - he was trying to get her to take him up the ass but she wasn't having it. Said it was driving him nuts so I said an ass is an ass so why not fuck mine! Really he said, really. Yep I said, next week would be good, and so its about to happen. Before he left I did toss him off, and wriggled my spit wet finger in his tight but sweaty hole and made his eyes light up.
 

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I discovered how much fun it is to play with my ass one day from a combination of boredom and curiosity. Back when i was married my wife worked days and I worked evenings so most days she would already be gone to work when I woke up. One day when I woke up it she was already gone and it was raining so I couldn't mow the yard like I had planned on. So I was laying in bed about half hard and started stroking myself. A couple of days earlier we had went to an adult bookstore and she had picked out a magazine full of men. I hadn't looked at it and decided to just to see what it was like. It was full of guys with hard cocks and showing their asses. I started reading a story in it and found out that it was a gay mens magazine. I started to get harder and was stroking myself while reading the story. In the story one guy started playing with the other's ass and I took my finger and started rubbing on my own hole and it felt pretty good. Then I decided to put a bit of lube on my finger and while rubbing the end of my finger entered my butthole. That felt better than just rubbing on it so I put it in a bit farther and going in and out while still reading the story.

Then in the story one of the guys put his cock in the other guy's ass and they were both talking about how good it felt. I was horny enough that I grabbed my wife's vibrating dildo and lubed it up and slid it in my ass. It hurt at first but then I turned it on and the vibration almost made me cum right then. I started sliding it in and out and started stroking my cock. When I came, i shot all over my stomach and the dildo slid out of my ass which made me shudder from the feel of that. Looking back that is what started me playing with my own ass and could also have been the start of my being bi-curious today.
 
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I like it. Feels amazing just doing anal play for an hour then touching your cock, stiffens right up.
 

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I like ass play with my wife. Love when she rims me, but it doesn’t happen often. Kinda happens when we’re both tipsy or high (rare). Don’t mind some finger action around the outside but generally find most penetration uncomfortable. Can’t imagine a strap on, not because it would seem gay (who under 50 really fucking thinks ass play = gay these days?) but because it would hurt.
You’d be amazed how many youngsters still think anal play is the realm of the gay and bi man.
It’s shifted slightly to receiving, and I tend to think all “receiving” is “submissive” and “for women and gay men.”
 

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You’d be amazed how many youngsters still think anal play is the realm of the gay and bi man.
It’s shifted slightly to receiving, and I tend to think all “receiving” is “submissive” and “for women and gay men.”

So the chatter I’ve been picking up on among my acquaintances and friends in their 20s and early 30s is definitely around eating ass, and whether that’s gay if a girl eats your ass (insert my eyes rolling).

Also, our 20-something gay nephew (I’ll call him Josh) who’s sort of a stereotypical jock who is often mistaken for straight — his “bro friends” are kind of obsessed about if he fucks or gets fucked. We’ve even been around when this has happened. A couple years ago we went to a graduation party for his younger sister, but several of my nephews HS friends (then college-age) were there getting drunk. My wife and I were standing there, chatting with the neph, when four of his friends roll over telling him to verify to a newish girlfriend that Josh is gay. The gf couldn’t believe he was gay, he was “too cute” (whatever that means) to be gay. Anyway, the conversation took a quick turn to inappropriate and they started badgering the shit out of him bout whether he “pitches or catches” and other stupid things like that. My wife and the new girlfriend ended up turning it on these four drunken bros, asking them if their girlfriends ever peg them. The women totally started badgering these guys. “Do you like butt play? Do you ever finger yourself when jerking off? Has your gf ever rimmed you? What, you don’t know what rimming is??”

It was hysterical to watch these guys try to dodge all their questions. Lol