Okay, I'm generalizing a bit, and I hesitate to even start this thread for fear I may incite some angry debate. But here goes.... Lately, I'm think that while both straigth men and gay men like the penis, they have a different perspective. I think that it could be said that straight men "respect" the penis of another man, while gay men are "attracted to" the penis of another man. Of course, like the yin and yang symbol, there is a little of both in the other. Straight men are, of course, a little attracted to the penis. And gay men are, of course, also respectful of the penis. But I think that overall one reaction overrides the other.