Straight men=respect; gay men=attraction

delight

1st Like
Joined
Sep 9, 2006
Posts
7
Media
0
Likes
1
Points
223
Location
belgium
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
yes, i am attracted by men sex but be gay is overall to feel good with the same sex partner...the sexual attraction for the same sex is not very a homosexual caracteristic.
most of young men are attracted by the same sex just to compare or for sexual experience and most of them are not gay...
i think that is not possible to be 100 straight or 100 gay.
i am gay but a part of my sexuality is really straight
 

dolf250

Sexy Member
Joined
Feb 2, 2005
Posts
769
Media
0
Likes
26
Points
238
Age
34
Location
The Great White North
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
I have to disagree with your idea that a large penis equals attraction or respect. I may go for admiration, envy or lust, but as DC pointed out early on, it would likely have to come with a complete package to equal attraction. If I see a woman with a beautiful figure and she is dumb as a sack of hammers or a complete bitch there is not only no attraction, but despite her beauty I feel repulsion.

As for respect I guess it depends on your definition. If I use my definition then I do not think anybody has seen my dick and found a new respect for me nor have I suddenly found respect for some guy sauntering through the locker room. Respect is something that needs to be earned by doing more than dropping your pants. I also do not buy that a guy who works out automatically warrants respect because of his body, nor a university graduate demand respect over a degree (I have met a few graduates who lacked common sense like I could not believe. I know people who did not finish grade 6 who are “smarter” than some graduates.) If you mean that somebody may think that a larger member would be better then this site is full of many such examples.

And on that note take NIC's advice and make a conscious effort to ignore those who attack your ideas unless they have something constructive to say. Don't bother attacking them back; it is pointless, but instead read and respond to those who offer you the debate you are looking for (though sometimes the debate around here does come in a manner that seems like an “attack”)
 

B_big dirigible

Experimental Member
Joined
Dec 27, 2005
Posts
2,672
Media
0
Likes
12
Points
183
Sexuality
No Response
I guess I have to accept that some of my views are, at best, very much on the margins of the mainstream. When a person talks about topics and perspectives that are relatively obscure, I suppose one has to accept that misinterpretations are inevitable. Also, I think it's human nature to be afraid of new things. So, when I come in here with ideas that others haven't seen before, it's inevitable that I get attacked here and there.

The second time (at least) we've heard this fantasy. G has yet to post anything that isn't trite, hackneyed, and so mundane that it would be embarrassing on a Hallmark card. The first thing he has to get past is the idea that he's in some sort of far orbit. Then perhaps he can zoom in on his problem. There's a problem there, and I don't think it's an exotic one, but he's circling around it. As it is, he gets attacked for his meanderings, which is too bad as they're peripheral to the problem he wants to resolve. If he'd get more directly to it, there'd be nothing to attack. There are only a few posters who are so obtuse that they'll attack someone who's actually here for the support.

LPSG has several entirely different types of threads. One type is the standard crap thread, like "Am I big?" or "Can you LP-types fuck a duck, and if so, what species?". Then there are real support threads. Shovelling shit onto the support threads is inappropriate. Now G. is obviously trying to get at a question which is important to him. I have no idea how to get him to stop dancing around and just state it. Like everybody else I find myself wading through pseudo-intellectual BS without glimpsing the real problem. How to cut through that stuff? That's the puzzle.
 

dolf250

Sexy Member
Joined
Feb 2, 2005
Posts
769
Media
0
Likes
26
Points
238
Age
34
Location
The Great White North
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
I have to disagree with your idea that a large penis equals attraction or respect. I may go for admiration, envy or lust, but as DC pointed out early on, it would likely have to come with a complete package to equal attraction. If I see a woman with a beautiful figure and she is dumb as a sack of hammers or a complete bitch there is not only no attraction, but despite her beauty I feel repulsion.

As for respect I guess it depends on your definition. If I use my definition then I do not think anybody has seen my dick and found a new respect for me nor have I suddenly found respect for some guy sauntering through the locker room. Respect is something that needs to be earned by doing more than dropping your pants. I also do not buy that a guy who works out automatically warrants respect because of his body, nor a university graduate demand respect over a degree (I have met a few graduates who lacked common sense like I could not believe. I know people who did not finish grade 6 who are “smarter” than some graduates.) If you mean that somebody may think that a larger member would be better then this site is full of many such examples.

And on that note take NIC's advice and make a conscious effort to ignore those who attack your ideas unless they have something constructive to say. Don't bother attacking them back; it is pointless, but instead read and respond to those who offer you the debate you are looking for (though sometimes the debate around here does come in a manner that seems like an “attack”)
 

Lordpendragon

Experimental Member
Joined
Jul 5, 2004
Posts
3,814
Media
0
Likes
18
Points
258
Sexuality
No Response
I thought it was me going loopy Dolf.

I asked for a definition of respect at post two but didn't get an answer. So I give some credance to Big D's points. These aren't personal attacks.

IMO there is a difference between appreciation of the male body in an aesthetic manner and a homo-erotic manner. I grant that these feelings can be easily confused if you have some confusion to begin with.

Personally I became sexually mature and experienced when I was very young and have not had identity issues since. There are many examples of beautiful male bodies on this site - I can appreciate their beauty whether it be the whole body or just a part. This just means that I can have an aesthetic appreciation of beauty, which is after all in the eye of the beholder.
 

dolf250

Sexy Member
Joined
Feb 2, 2005
Posts
769
Media
0
Likes
26
Points
238
Age
34
Location
The Great White North
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
I am sorry about posting the same thing twice, and now this was originally the third time. My connection is so damned bad that for an hour I have sat here playing hearts while trying to get it to post not realizing that it already has- twice.

And I would agree Lord. P. They are not personal attacks and there really is no reason to get defensive. I was just observing that on this board, sometimes what does seem like an attack is in reality just an argument that was a little more aggressive than what some may experience in their “regular” lives and that you cannot discount everything that you see as aggressive but also cannot care what others think of you. Kind of a fine line between hitting “ignore” and having to give an argument some serious thought.

I just decided to post my own idea of respect; though I think he perhaps had something else in mind when he said it.
 

Lordpendragon

Experimental Member
Joined
Jul 5, 2004
Posts
3,814
Media
0
Likes
18
Points
258
Sexuality
No Response
I have to disagree with your idea that a large penis equals attraction or respect. I may go for admiration, envy or lust, but as DC pointed out early on, it would likely have to come with a complete package to equal attraction. If I see a woman with a beautiful figure and she is dumb as a sack of hammers or a complete bitch there is not only no attraction, but despite her beauty I feel repulsion.

As for respect I guess it depends on your definition. If I use my definition then I do not think anybody has seen my dick and found a new respect for me nor have I suddenly found respect for some guy sauntering through the locker room. Respect is something that needs to be earned by doing more than dropping your pants. I also do not buy that a guy who works out automatically warrants respect because of his body, nor a university graduate demand respect over a degree (I have met a few graduates who lacked common sense like I could not believe. I know people who did not finish grade 6 who are “smarter” than some graduates.) If you mean that somebody may think that a larger member would be better then this site is full of many such examples.

And on that note take NIC's advice and make a conscious effort to ignore those who attack your ideas unless they have something constructive to say. Don't bother attacking them back; it is pointless, but instead read and respond to those who offer you the debate you are looking for (though sometimes the debate around here does come in a manner that seems like an “attack”)

I'll have two of what Dolf is having. :smile: