Straight Men That Wish They Were Gay Men

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  1. John Estes

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    I might just be in the super minority here, but are there any other straight guys that wish they were gay/bi? I can't help but envy all the fun gay guys seem to have. Not just with sex, but in their every day lives too - they just seem so damn happy all the time! Plus it's awesome that you can have dates that involve manly activities, and just being forced to watch some chick flick like if you were with a girl. Not that I don't like being with women, far from it, but I just think being gay would rule. Any other straight dudes with me on this?
     
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    no, but if you come across any, and they're hot, bring them over my way
     
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    wow, that's really cute.

    never thought about that... but I suppose it goes along with that "I'd be gay if it wasn't for the sex thing"

    but you said we have fun sex too! i love this, i wish I could just show this to the world! it's great!
     
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    Why did I hear this in my head when I clicked this thread?
     
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    the grass always seems greener on the other side...
     
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    :popcorn: njqt466 waits patiently for the OP's closet door to fly open. Since Ellen Degeneres is on vacation she will have to give him his toaster oven. :popcorn:
     
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    Nope, I'm quite happy being straight.

    Next case. :tongue:
     
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    i've definitely thought about this before. my cousin also told me years ago that he wishes he was gay sometimes because he wouldn't have to deal with crap from women.

    there are obvious benefits of being gay: being able to fuck many different partners (since us guys are horny, regardless of orientation). gay men also don't have to deal with women shit.

    but they do have to deal with shit that others don't. our society still hasn't fully accepted them, and they are arguably the most hated minority group. it is really sad, considering there have been gay people since the beginning of time. our society has instilled so much fear and guilt into people by using religion as their justification.

    in my opinion, those people (i.e., the religious wackos that go around judging others and perpetuating hate) are the ones that scare me. those people are sad and cowardly, because they are too scared to be their true selves. in my opinion, a gay person who comes "out of the closet" is extremely courageous. that takes some balls for sure.

    sorry for sidetracking the thread by my mini tangent. haha.
     
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    Am I the only one who thinks it is stupid with the whole avoid women problem junk? Because gay men don't have problems? Yeah right.
     
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    I'm not really sure why you're so conflicted. I'm bi, so maybe the whole concept of being strictly and absolutely sexually assigned to just one gender escapes me. Maybe you should try having sex with another man, someone you find attractive. To see if you possibly be bisexual. You're an extremely good looking dude, with a pretty damned nice cock; you should have no problems meeting someone to your liking. I'm sure you've been hit on by guys, maybe you should put aside all the preconceived notions you've been carrying around in your head and expand your sexual horizons. You set the limits as to what you would feel comfortable doing with another guy and just relax and give it a shot. I'd suggest you try it at least three or four times, with at least two different partners, just to get a real barometer of your personal situation. Don't be embarrassed, bro, sexuality is not a black and white issue. But I do agree with Pendlum, there are just as many relationship issues in gay relationships as there are in hetero relationships.
    Not everything is greener on the other side of the fence.
    But you seem like an intelligent guy, experimentation will not hurt you if you approach it safely and sanely.
    I wish you the best.
     
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    Thank you, i was going to say! Whatever glamorous existence you've conjoured up in you head, please remember, that in some countries, you get murdered, tortured and ostracised for being gay. Hell, they do that in developed countries too.

    It's not all that great being gay. But hey, i'd take it over being straight....
     
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    Nope, never wished to be gay.
     
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    I think this comes from our (straight) belief that a gay relationship would be nothing but sports, beer, video games and blowjobs. Nothing is ever that simple.
     
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    I have absolutely no idea but that was, um, disturbing.
     
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    hmm, so young and innocent, it's a LOT more than blowjobs:biggrin1:
     
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    Well, there is that. As a former str8 guy, I can tell you I don't miss it. I got divorced 2 years before I realized I was gay, so that wasn't the reason for the divorce. But I'm much happier now. And the divorces are soooooooooo much easier! LOL
     
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    Any hot str8 guys in the Dallas area who would enjoy coming over and watching sports and drinking beer while getting a quality blowjob, PM me. I can make you VERY happy. LOL
     
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    How about "straight" girls who want to be gay guys. That's me in case people didn't know already. :p
     
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    I used to have in my sig: The hardest thing in life is to want what you have. Truer words, it seems...

    Well, a lot of people have this misconception. I remember when I first realized I was gay. I thought: Man, dating men will be SO Much easier. News flash: it really isn't. You may find yourself dealing with the same kind of "crap" only from men instead of women.

    Remember that not all gay men are promiscuous and sleep around and lot and that many gay men expect and want exclusivity and monogamy. As long as parties in the relationship are clear and comfortable with the ground rules, however, there can be a lot of possibilities. Also, as we know from being at LPSG, many straight couples explore non-traditional sexual expression (which I think is an awesome thing).

    True dat. All relationships are complicated and take time, energy, open communication and hard work to endure.

    So, being a hag isn't enough for you?!?! ;P

    I have several lesbian friends and gay male friends who would love to meet you.
     
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