Straight men want penis

[D_Clint_Yeastwood]

You like to show off your big dick on LPSG, but you have no attraction to the penis (well, you're attracted to your own unless you are a transsexual lesbian lol)

It's not a penis that happens to be attached to me, it's MY penis; it's me.. Inseparable. Cannot be imagined as an anonymous cock. Point irrelevant

How can you argue that men liking big dick porn is not a display of phallic attraction.

I refuse to spell out every word of this with the detail necessary for a child reader, but enjoying pornography that includes, involves, even highlights big dicks is not the same as being attracted to big dicks. Only you suggest that it's the big dick in the scene that I'm turned on by, when there are sooo many more things going on, both superficially and subtextually. This is a classic example of a situation that is not equal to the sum of its parts. Please for the love of fuck re-read that. You want to break it down into itty bitty parts, isolate the penis, and declare "AHA! Proof!" Fuuuucckkk no. Irrelevant.

And don't forget all those billions of dildos and strap-ons men like seeing and using with their lady.

I admit to filling in the blanks a little here, cuz I really don't see what you're getting at:
Dildos - Yeaaahh, I like fucking girls in all kinds of ways, sometimes I stick my fingers in them too. I'm super fucking attracted to fingers, they're a major turn on for me.
Strap-ons - What, like gettin fucked in the butt? That's 100% totally cool...but equally irrelevant to this.

So, you're clearly attracted to cock. Though you certainly and obviously don't need my approval (and fuckin, like, to hell with me if I didn't approve) and I promise you I don't want to sound patronizing here but I feel compelled to say that that is totally, like...fine (of course, you know this). It's awesome, good for you, sincerely. I've come to be attracted to stuff that seemed to me at one time taboo or inappropriate or some dumb shit and I've grown up and kinda liberated those feelings. I commend sexual exploration and open-mindedness. We're different men.

And with that: you don't get to tell me what I'm attracted to.

I am straight; I'm not attracted to penis; we exist. That is my point. If you choose to read into these simple words and infer some distorted message, that is noone's fault but your own.

 

[BIGBULL29]

@tttdick: I'm not saying that every man is attracted to the penis (a small minority of men who are probably not at all). They look at a penis as they'd look at a blank wall: total indifference (more likely transsexual lesbians, but there are also a few men of all orientations who are not, either). But the average male is, and porn content is in-your-face proof of that (not arguing that point anymore).

I meant the sight of strap-ons or dildos turns men on. That is why they are by far the most popular sex toy: men like to see the penis because they are attracted to it (and they love to see women play with them).

I'm attracted to the penis because I am male (have one myself). And seeing others, particularly ones that I want to compete with, get me hard as I want to imagine myself as the biggest (still not saying that the average is just like me on this point, but still attracted to the penis in a general sense). I'm not interested in playing with another man's cock, though; but was that ever the point?

You and I have a different understanding the use of the word attraction. You're seeing it somehow in the sense of wanting to go and blow a dude when you see an attractive cock, or that if you see a hung stud in the showers, you want to go and masturbate to his dick; or that every porn you want to buy has to feature the biggest dicks in the business. That was never my point, and you know that. But if you choose to insist on telling me over and over and over again that most straight men are not "sexually" attracted to the very organ that is the focal point of their sexual pleasure and the apex of the physicality of their masculinity, you're being bullheaded. Men love big dicks - end of story!

You are what you are: I'm not going to define you. Why you are on this site baffles me, but the discussion is more about men in a general sense, not just your personal sexuality.

 

[BIGBULL29]

It's been proven that the mere sight of a big penis (particularly erect ones) gets the average male aroused. I get a hard-on just seeing my penis when I take a piss (I'm hopelessly attracted to the penis:biggrin1.

 

[B_enzia35]

Where's that Ron White joke?

 

[BIGBULL29]

Where's that Ron White joke?

I think he somes it up quite well.:biggrin1:


Ron White: I said "We're all gay, buddy. It's just to what degree are you gay." And he goes, "That's bullshit, man. I ain't gay at all." And I go "Yeah, you are. And I can prove it." He goes "Fine. Prove it." I go, "All right. Do you like porn?" He says "Yeah, I love porn. You know that." I said, "Oh, and do you only watch scenes with two women?" And he goes, "No, I'll watch a man and a woman makin' love." And I say "Oh, and do you like the guy to have a flabby, half-flaccid penis?" And he goes "No, I like big, hard, throbbing cock..."
[he trails off]
Ron White: "I did not know that about myself."
[laughter]


Just shows you how the average man likes to see big dicks (no, we aren't all gay or bisexual lol)

 

[cockhoarder]

Great thread... and interesting debate!

 

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

I must be a freak. I usually watch the woman's face (even during the fucking, not just the cumshot).

 

[jockmaestro]

Yep, he's got it (the man talking in the video).

Technology reveals who we all are sexually (we can't lie from the google searches and porn we watch online as it's all recorded statistically).

The video clip was very enlightening, particularly why so many men like shemales (which I do not, by the way LOL).

"So many men like shemales"?? Really? Is it really that many?? How do you know? seems pretty unlikely to me that that many guys like shemales.

 

[Balljunkie]

I have gotten off to trans porn. It was a trans and a hot latino guy. The trans had awesome tits and a very nice ass. The guy in it was really into it, too.

Another one had a trans and a chick. It was kinda hot.

But I also like transsexual porn (ftm), so...

 

[deleted300444]

I once saw a flick with huge black dicked lexington steele and mr marcus fuck an obvious male to female transexual. It was hot, sorry no clip. It even had some sort of trsnsexual credit notation. And I thought, kind of hot to super straight dudes fucking a former boy. Shemales, not for me, but you can!

 

[ColonialBoy]

I must be a freak. I usually watch the woman's face (even during the fucking, not just the cumshot).

But why do you want to see ANY dick at all during porn? Why dont you look at lesbian porn if you are 100% straight?

The whole point of this thread is gays and straights both want to see dick. Maybe we should call it 'dick porn' - male/male or male/female. And having looked randomly at xtube xhamster etc for years, I see very little lesbian porn apart from fetish.

 

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

CB: I don't look exclusively at her face, I do like porn with big dicks, even though I'm straight.

 

[BIGBULL29]

"So many men like shemales"?? Really? Is it really that many?? How do you know? seems pretty unlikely to me that that many guys like shemales.

I think that a lot of men are attracted to the shemales because men are naturally attracted to the penis (I am not one of them). That said, I'm sure there are lots of men who do not like shemales, but it is quite a popular genre of porn for straight men (according to popular videos sales statistics). We also see that a lot of gay men are attracted to female-to-male trannsexuals like Buck Angel (I am, but I don't identify as gay).


Sexuality is very, very complicated, but we know that most men are naturally attracted to the penis. How could they not be, considering they have one themselves (source of their sexual pleasure and physical apex of their masculinity)

 

[jockmaestro]

I think that a lot of men are attracted to the shemales because men are naturally attracted to the penis (I am not one of them). That said, I'm sure there are lots of men who do not like shemales, but it is quite a popular genre of porn for straight men (according to popular videos sales statistics). We also see that a lot of gay men are attracted to female-to-male trannsexuals like Buck Angel (I am, but I don't identify as gay).


Sexuality is very, very complicated, but we know that most men are naturally attracted to the penis. How could they not be, considering they have one themselves (source of their sexual pleasure and physical apex of their masculinity)

Your last point is well taken. We're all phallocentric, and porn is just a way to empathize with a character. It's analogous to seeing ads in ,say, "Esquire" magazine and on some level really believing that if we buy that suit or that cologne, we'll BE the men in the ad. If we see a big dick in porn plowing a cunt, somewhere in our psychic landscape, we believe that's US!

 

[BIGBULL29]

Your last point is well taken. We're all phallocentric, and porn is just a way to empathize with a character. It's analogous to seeing ads in ,say, "Esquire" magazine and on some level really believing that if we buy that suit or that cologne, we'll BE the men in the ad. If we see a big dick in porn plowing a cunt, somewhere in our psychic landscape, we believe that's US!

Yes, and just seeing a penis, particularly erect ones, can trigger erections in men. It is very natural and normal in and of itself, and is clearly independent of sexual orientation. Some folks just refuse to understand that point.