the problem i have is that if you aren't going to prescribe to labels, then why call yourself straight? that is a label.
?? Thats one of the most intelligent comments on this site.Having sex with men (as a man) is not what makes you gay, though it is a homosexual act. It's the NEEDING and WANTING of the man himself in a sexual manner which extends the homosexual act into your very being. If you have sex with men, but only imagine women when you jerk off for example; compared to only men (both during intercourse AND masturbation) is much more gay. This is my personal opinion anyway. Please don't slander me call me pig-slutty DUMB JERK hole for not thinking what everyone else thinks. I understand most think I'm a fag-whore for thinking this, but I don't really care (It's what I believe). Just a small preemptive strike! :biggrin1:
bingo!
thats why I don't understand the guys on here who keep saying they're straight and wanna get fucked and don't like labels as if labels only pertain to gay, lesbian, bisexual etc...
"i'm straight.........i dont like labels!"
ridiculous contradiction
?? Thats one of the most intelligent comments on this site.
bingo!
thats why I don't understand the guys on here who keep saying they're straight and wanna get fucked and don't like labels as if labels only pertain to gay, lesbian, bisexual etc...
"i'm straight.........i dont like labels!"
ridiculous contradiction
I would not be surprised if "straight men who like it anal" were a common thing. However, I think that in many cases, they end up like B_jeepguy2 in the above anecdote. This sort of guy tends to be more common among Caucasians than among other populations IMO.When I was 20 I still thought I was mostly straight even though I had felt an attraction to guys for a while I had never done anything sexual with a dude. I am not sure that I realized my attractions were sexual because I did not see a guy and think "damn he is hot I want to suck his dick or fuck him or anything like that."
In fact the whole idea of a guy having sex with another guy and one of them taking it up the ass just seemed nasty and was just a total turn off to me. I couldn't understand how having something shoved up your ass could possibly be pleasurable. Then I had to visit a urologist due to some medical issues and he gave me my first prostate exam.
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After that I decided to act on my homosexual attractions and explore gay sex.
I consider myself a straight man. I’ve just been experimenting lately. Me and this guy were about to fuck for the first time. He was top I was gunna bottom. He literally had the condom on and everything and I backed out last minute.
Hahah, yeah, the way I've heard it: "You can work for decades and build a hundred bridges, and nobody will say, "Hey, there's Dan, he's a bridge builder." But you suck ONE dick....."Reminds me of the old joke. You can eat pussy all your life and no one will call you a great lover but suck one dick and you be called a cock sucker for the rest of your life LOL Lots of truth in this joke.