Straight or gay???

[BIGBULL29]

Looking at cock may not be gay. But trying not to look at cock is definitely considered straight.

Yes, men look "straighter" when they turn away from looking at the very organ they all have between their legs. But they can watch those big dicks in porn with their buddies for hours on end (It's all about the girl, you know). Go figure!

If you have a penis, and you're not gay, why would you be so scared to view the organ you yourself possess? It's not as if most straight men act indifferently towards other men's penises.

It all makes me wonder...

 

[B_Hung Jon]

I think hard cocks are erotic to look at, and big hard cocks even more so. But it doesn't mean that I want to stick one in my mouth or have one up my butt. Checking out stiff dick is exciting. I think that's it.

 

[FRE]

Do you think men just naturally want to compare themselves with other guys. When I think about it I always have a look around at the public toilets to see what is on show and I try to make mine obvious for all to see as well

I couldn't do that. In that situation, I'm a bit nervous and can have trouble getting the flow started. It's especially difficult if I'm wearing motorcycle gear because I have more clothing to deal with to get my penis out and then get it back in properly. Also, unless I milk it down from behind my scrotum I have trouble with leakage. I don't know what guys would think if they noticed me milking it down. So, I use the urinal that's most private and sometimes even use a stall.

On the other hand, I feel quite comfortable at nude beaches, etc. Strange, isn't it?

 

[FRE]

Yes, men look "straighter" when they turn away from looking at the very organ they all have between their legs. But they can watch those big dicks in porn with their buddies for hours on end (It's all about the girl, you know). Go figure!

If you have a penis, and you're not gay, why would you be so scared to view the organ you yourself possess? It's not as if most straight men act indifferently towards other men's penises.

It all makes me wonder...

It's a matter of homophobia. If a guy is unsure of his own sexuality and is homophobic, he will probably be afraid to look at another guy's penis and be very uncomfortable if another guy looks at his penis.

We notice when people, both men and women, are well dressed or well built. We notice when guys have well defined pecs, etc. So why wouldn't we notice the penis of other guys? Noticing another guy's penis is not necessarily erotic, although it can be. Noticing another guys pecs, washboard stomach, etc., can also be erotic, but it doesn't have to be. Probably we'd be somewhat less interested in another guy's penis if exposing it were not forbidden and nudity were seen as natural instead of as something indecent.

However, at nude beaches, I didn't like it when guys thought that my penis was the most important thing I had. It made me feel as though I was considered nothing more than a piece of meat. There should be some balance. On the other hand, one notices another person's body before it is possible to know anything else about the other person; there is no way around that.

 

[BIGBULL29]

It's a matter of homophobia. If a guy is unsure of his own sexuality and is homophobic, he will probably be afraid to look at another guy's penis and be very uncomfortable if another guy looks at his penis.

We notice when people, both men and women, are well dressed or well built. We notice when guys have well defined pecs, etc. So why wouldn't we notice the penis of other guys? Noticing another guy's penis is not necessarily erotic, although it can be. Noticing another guys pecs, washboard stomach, etc., can also be erotic, but it doesn't have to be. Probably we'd be somewhat less interested in another guy's penis if exposing it were not forbidden and nudity were seen as natural instead of as something indecent.

However, at nude beaches, I didn't like it when guys thought that my penis was the most important thing I had. It made me feel as though I was considered nothing more than a piece of meat. There should be some balance. On the other hand, one notices another person's body before it is possible to know anything else about the other person; there is no way around that.

Interesting post!

 

[breathe]

Very well thought out observation BB29!! In the end, though, it is those intangble qualities in a person that endure and leave a lasting impression-it is those qualities which lift us above the physical and make us all human.

 

[buddy629]

....how to know you may be gay....
You look at a man you find very hot, you notice his eyes, the color, his eyelashes, what they look like when he smiles at you....then you see his mouth, you look at his lips, how they look soft and strong, you wonder what it's like to kiss them. Your heart begins to pound faster. Your eyes trace their way to his ears and his neck, you wonder what its like to kiss, lick, and suck on his ear lobes. You trace your glance to his broad shoulders and strong chest. You imagine his shirt off, your hands moving from his chest, to his abs, to his belt. You can't help but push your hands into the front of his jeans, to get a good hold on his dick and balls. You want to feel their swollen warmth and slippery precum in your hands, your mouth.
.....if you think about this in a matter of a minute or so, when looking at a hot guy...
then YEAH, you may be gay

Otherwise, your just a guy who likes looking at dick. Remove your sexuality from the equation to avoid confusion.

 

[D_Budd_Hert]

Its not who U swallow but what U swallow !!! Nothin wrong with checkin out the goods as long as U dont walk out black n blued !!!

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

At any gym I go to, I rarely ever see one man NOT checking out another guy's dick. Gay? I say, male.

Exactly. Look at nature -- deer, moose, elk etc will lock antlers and battle it out to see who is the more dominant male. Big horn sheep crash their horns together -- same thing. As humans we are more evolved and look at each other's cocks. Totally a male thing to do.

 

[BIGBULL29]

....how to know you may be gay....
You look at a man you find very hot, you notice his eyes, the color, his eyelashes, what they look like when he smiles at you....then you see his mouth, you look at his lips, how they look soft and strong, you wonder what it's like to kiss them. Your heart begins to pound faster. Your eyes trace their way to his ears and his neck, you wonder what its like to kiss, lick, and suck on his ear lobes. You trace your glance to his broad shoulders and strong chest. You imagine his shirt off, your hands moving from his chest, to his abs, to his belt. You can't help but push your hands into the front of his jeans, to get a good hold on his dick and balls. You want to feel their swollen warmth and slippery precum in your hands, your mouth.
.....if you think about this in a matter of a minute or so, when looking at a hot guy...
then YEAH, you may be gay

Otherwise, your just a guy who likes looking at dick. Remove your sexuality from the equation to avoid confusion.

A lot of dudes get a boner when they see a big, handsome cock in porn. It's just human nature. It's not really about wanting to fuck them. Your just turned on by the dick and the masculine nature of another man (jealously, aura you want for yourself, etc). This is one of the reasons that multiple male scenes are so popular. It's the straight man's version of "gay" sex. I think some men are more into multiple male scenes in straight porn than lesbian.

 

[D_Garstell Gravyboat]

I'm the same as you, I'm straight (well straight enough that I'd never do anything with another guy) I think It's like a competition thing amongst males, instinct basically plus theres nothing wrong with comparing your dick to other guys. As for enjoying knowing that people are viewing your dick, I'm the same there as well, It's probably just the appreciation from people and knowing that other people are enjoying looking at yours too.

 

[FRE]

I don't know whether this is the place for this post so you can tell me of I'm off base.

A few year ago, I saw my primary care physician because I was having some trouble with my left knee. I was wearing my motorcycle gear, so I couldn't raise my pants leg to expose the knee; it was necessary to remove the biking pants. The doctor didn't know that I was wearing walking short underneath and was very concerned about what I was wearing underneath. My attitude was that if he was so concerned about that, there were some parts of my body that he would be completely unable to examine if the need arose, so I changed doctors.

It's my guess that the doctor had very severe hangups about sex and possibly concerned about his sexual orientation.

 

[FRE]

I'm the same as you, I'm straight (well straight enough that I'd never do anything with another guy) I think It's like a competition thing amongst males, instinct basically plus theres nothing wrong with comparing your dick to other guys. As for enjoying knowing that people are viewing your dick, I'm the same there as well, It's probably just the appreciation from people and knowing that other people are enjoying looking at yours too.

Interesting.

Until the late 1970s or early 1980s, in most parts of the U.S. boys were required to swim nude in the swimming pool for physical education. Until the middle 1970s, when YMCAs began to admit women, men and boys were required to swim nude in the pool. Many older people are unaware of that and refuse to believe that such a "bizarre" thing actually happened. However, a google search on "YMCA nude swimming" or "physical education nude swimming" or similar searches will prove that it is true.

Things have really changed. Now many young guys, at gymnasia, try to use a towel to hide their genitals while changing and actually wear underpants while showering. We older guy see that as amusing and bizarre.

 

[t9]

Welcome, We are all just a bunch of Curious Guys and having a good time Looking. not sure sex have anything to do with it.

 

[indurance]

The nude body is natural ,we are made in gods image,we are born with sexual desires to propagate the human race almost by any means,strait ,bi or gay are only words that every religion,social group,and government interprets differently.

 

[dc9]

First of all welcome.

Secondly, looking at cocks and enjoying comparing yours to others does not make one gay.
Enjoy the site and keep posting.

I have only been a member for one week. Since joining I have realised how much I enjoy looking at other cocks and knowing mine is being viewed. Does this mean I am partly gay? and do you think all males that look at other people's cocks are at least partly gay?

 

[wvscwvky]

No matter what they tell you, all guys glance and "size each other up." I'm strait, but enjoy getting compliments and suggestions about my penis fellow guys as well as the girls...doesn't mean that I necessarily want to do anything sexually with the guys though. Nice fat one BTW.

 

[BIGBULL29]

No matter what they tell you, all guys glance and "size each other up." QUOTE]

True that!

Dudes also get off thinking they're bigger than some other dude, too. It's all very normal and natural.:biggrin1:

 

[deleted554163]

I would just like to say thanks to all of you who have posted messages/replied to this thread. I am really impressed with the responses and enjoying the interaction with group members. The 'straight or gay' question has inspired some interesting thoughts.

 

[petetown]

The fact that there are straight guys on here should answer that question. Sex and sexual attraction are far more complicated and involved than the limited terms we use for them. Gay, Straight and bi are variations and not set definitions as I once thought. It's my belief that the internet has helped us all explore our fantasies and thoughts about sex.
Maybe we should stop with the labels.....it might help everyone.