Here's something to keep in mind: transgender women are people, not a fetsih or a kink or a curiosity. They're people, with a wide varying range of personal sexual tastes and proclivities that can flow and ebb just like anyone else. Male sexuality is fluid as well. Age, experience, lifestage and social constraints all have an impact on sexual expression. My experience leads me to believe that many more men fantasize about transwomen than will admit it. And from the mouths of babes, transgender women who also escort, there are men of all walks, professions and ages interested in keeping the company of lovely women who happen to have dicks for a plethora of reasons. Shockingly, these men would like to keep their interest private as it relates to their perception as an 'alpha' world-beating, dominant, pussy-smashing executive/sports star/entertainer or what have you. So what we have there is a problem of perception, both on the part of the participant and how they perceive others' perceptions of them. Mindfuck, huh? It's just another example of how ridiculously backwards our culture can be. In other parts of the world, there is nothing 'gay' about sex with trans and cd ladies as long as the male is penetrator and top, not bottom. Dominance and submission are two sides of a coin. Almost nobody is 100% anything, given the right circumstances. What makes sex hot between any given two people is not strictly parts-based. Chemistry and clear communication is everything. Keep an open mind, throw the labels out the window, and enjoy the sex you have with your respective and hopefully respectful partners while playing safely. But don't take my word for it. Visit a big city, browse their escort ads, and find yourself a compatible transwoman that you find attractive. Communicate like a respectful adult, make an appointment and be clear and honest about what you seek and expect. Set boundaries. Engage safely in the playtime you desire. Pay the agreed fee, without bargaining, and if you had a good time and enjoyed, tip the girl for god's sake. Now, you've accomplished something on your naughty bucket list and satisfied your curiosity without the uncertainty of approaching and potentially offending prospective mates in public while helping an adult generate much needed revenue. Everyone goes away with something of value to them, win-win. No one ever has to know where that smile comes from when you gaze off into the distance. Bottom line, grow the fuck up.
