Henry and Italian, I think part of your confusion could be that you have bought into the main idea of marketing straight porn to straight men: putting yourself into the character of the man, and having sex with the woman...
Agreed. I also suspect that because some straight men are turned off by the thought of gay sex, they assume that gay men are similarly disgusted by straight sex. The reality is that while gay men might not want to have sex with a woman themselves, most of them are not the least bit bothered by it--and if the guy is hot, we like to watch.
Also, not all gay men are terrified of or disgusted by vaginas.
Right.
You may be able to understand it a bit better if you relax your brain just a bit, and consider that some gay men may enjoy doing the same thing - except projecting themselves into the woman's role.
For me, it isn't a matter of projection...
As I said before, I sometimes imagine what straight sex feels like, for both the man and the woman, but I'm not projecting when I do that. I just like to watch. I'm not imagining myself having sex with these people, I'm just myself, sitting apart, watching the action. For me, watching sex is in and of itself a sexual experience, so as long as there's another guy involved--a guy that I find attractive in some way--it's good for me.
...And that's what I said in a prior post. The men in these videos are good looking, so gay men may be fantasizing that they are the woman he is having sex with.
Although that may sometimes be true, I imagine that most of the time when a gay man watches straight porn, he is NOT fantasizing that he is the woman. (That's kind of an old stereotype about gay men--that we want to be women.) Are you paying attention, Italian?