So what's the best way to approach offering your straight roomie a blowjob without making it awkward? Or...does anyone have any stories about a similar situation?
Straight roomie...
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yeah, i guess, this happened with my last years roommate we got a little drunk, and we started talkin about what sex gave better blowjobs (he was bi or something) so i said girls gave better ones since i had never been sucked by a guy but he said guys, we started arguing, he got up walked towards me unzipped me and blew me:biggrin1:
B_Think_Kink
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Be really careful.. it might end up bad on your part if you just ask him.. or put the moves on him. Make sure he is consenting...
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Thank you! I am so sick and tired of certain gay men assuming all men are gay or at least bi. It's ridiculous. :tongue: That's like saying all men are good at fixing cars.
Yes somohomo, there really are quite a few men IRL who are 100% straight. :smile: They have never experimented with a guy, fantasized about being with a guy,
or pretended to be a woman so another man would show them their cock pics on line. You will just have to learn to deal with it. :redface:
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This gay, straight bi discussion here is interesting. Without defining the terms all could be right. I don't have the source for this but I remember reading these statistics.
1. About ten percent of guys are totally straight. They have never thought about sex with a guy. They would never have sex with a guy unless they were raped. There is not even a hint of gay sexual preference in them.
2. About 10 percent of guys are totally gay. They will never voluntarily have sex with a woman. They have never fantasized about it and never will.
3. Eighty percent, that is, eight guys out of ten are in the middle. Here is where the confusion is. This doesn't work like lining of elementary guys t go to the restroom in a single file line. That is if we picked 100 guys randomly. there wouldn't be a guy on every percent rather there would be clusters.
There would be lots of guys around the percent 50 as these guys have no real gender preference, but have an image of both guys and gals that turn them on.
There would be a cluster of guys that have a definite preference for gals, but also like the guys. And there would be a cluster of guys that have a definite preference for guys, but also like the gals.
The guys in the big group, eighty percent, are somewhat fluid. That is as teens because of culture, these guys assume they are only straight and consider any jack off or blow jobs as just helping each other out, not a sexual attraction. Then as they age and become more aware many will at some point prefer guys over gals.
Because this group it so fluid, it makes it almost impossible to make any generalized statements about this group that are going to be true all the time.
I have always believed that the vocal homophobic men are in this 80 % group. The louder they denounce homosexuality the greater that gay percent is.
I have no statistics on it, but I don't think that most straights in that 10 percent group are that vocal. They are bewildered by gay activity as they don't understand it, but they usually aren't the ones being vocal about it.
If there is a politician or TV preacher that always has an agenda against gays you can bet they they have had at least one gay experience and deep down would have another if they knew that no one would know and int he case of right wing preachers that God wouldn't know either.
This is my take on it.
1. About ten percent of guys are totally straight. They have never thought about sex with a guy. They would never have sex with a guy unless they were raped. There is not even a hint of gay sexual preference in them.
2. About 10 percent of guys are totally gay. They will never voluntarily have sex with a woman. They have never fantasized about it and never will.
3. Eighty percent, that is, eight guys out of ten are in the middle. Here is where the confusion is. This doesn't work like lining of elementary guys t go to the restroom in a single file line. That is if we picked 100 guys randomly. there wouldn't be a guy on every percent rather there would be clusters.
There would be lots of guys around the percent 50 as these guys have no real gender preference, but have an image of both guys and gals that turn them on.
There would be a cluster of guys that have a definite preference for gals, but also like the guys. And there would be a cluster of guys that have a definite preference for guys, but also like the gals.
The guys in the big group, eighty percent, are somewhat fluid. That is as teens because of culture, these guys assume they are only straight and consider any jack off or blow jobs as just helping each other out, not a sexual attraction. Then as they age and become more aware many will at some point prefer guys over gals.
Because this group it so fluid, it makes it almost impossible to make any generalized statements about this group that are going to be true all the time.
I have always believed that the vocal homophobic men are in this 80 % group. The louder they denounce homosexuality the greater that gay percent is.
I have no statistics on it, but I don't think that most straights in that 10 percent group are that vocal. They are bewildered by gay activity as they don't understand it, but they usually aren't the ones being vocal about it.
If there is a politician or TV preacher that always has an agenda against gays you can bet they they have had at least one gay experience and deep down would have another if they knew that no one would know and int he case of right wing preachers that God wouldn't know either.
This is my take on it.
rob_just_rob
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For the millionth time, anyone who accepts isn't straight. They're bi, at least to some extent. That isn't to say that they don't self-identify as straight because they're insecure, unsure, or in denial.
Can we please do away with the myth that there are tons of "straight" guys out there who like sex with men? Because that's like saying that there are lots of Italian men who are actually Dutch.
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TEll you what works for me. With good results in the past. Drink with roommate, but let him get much drunker than you. Put in a porn tape, preferebly with a scene that has two guys in it. Best if it has a lady in the scene too. Then say things like, "shit, look at that," and "looks like those two guys are having a good time there." Rub crotch some, then start talking about bj's. Has always worked in getting my roommates worked up into a frenzy. Most supposedly straight guys are most concerned about their buds finding out, so next morning act if nothing happened. Sure fire way to get a repeat visit.
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haha, no I don't think that would be a problem! You guys could even do it at the same time if you want!
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i think a str8 guy may accept your offer.... a blow job isn't any big deal anymore....
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If you know he'll be home drinking watching tv, sports sit across or next to him after you take a shower with a towel wrapped around yourself and as you drink more let him see more and more and make sure you rub your genitals every now and then. When your buzzed or faking like you are get up to get some snacks and let the towel fall and go get them nude, when you come back don't put the towel back on just sit back down and if you can sit closer to him. Mention things like your horny and stroke it a few times like your jacking off.
This worked with me for girls...
This worked with me for girls...
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