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Mine happened when we had done as others are suggesting. We were drinking, smoking weed and watching porn. I asked if he would ever be horny enough to let me blow him and he never really answered. About an hour later he went to piss and came out with his cock and balls hanging out of his jeans. I was pleasantly shocked for his cock is 7 1/2" X 7 1/2" and big nuts. But he put it back in his pants and it was another hour or so before he let me suck it. He then said he would never want to do that again because it wasn't as exciting without a pussy to finger or tits to play with. Just after his divorce a year or two later, I began blowing him again and have been regularly for about 15 years. He says of all his girlfriends, none have been able to suck his cock as well as I and I am the only person who has been able to deep throat him. But I can tell you buddy, that first time I was nervous as hell to ask.
 

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Since you don't have a penis, why don't you stay out of it, with your bolded, italicized and in-your-face-sized font? (From your attitude, though, maybe you wish you DID have one)

If I said that I was sick and tired of something that some black people do, there would be a problem, wouldn't there? So cut the heterosexism and stop slamming gay guys!

Heretosexism? Are you nuts?

She stated an absolute fact: there are men who have no desire to be with other men. Sorry, but it's true.
 

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This is my take on it.
I agree with you. The black-and-white straight/gay distinction should be thrown in the rubbish bin, both because its incorrect and because it causes quite alot of negative guilt and friction among people.
 

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Oh yes he will. Some of 'em will.

For the millionth time, anyone who accepts isn't straight. They're bi, at least to some extent. That isn't to say that they don't self-identify as straight because they're insecure, unsure, or in denial.

Can we please do away with the myth that there are tons of "straight" guys out there who like sex with men? Because that's like saying that there are lots of Italian men who are actually Dutch.
 
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do you know the meaning of straight ??????
Sure. It is a man who (while sober) will only have sex with a woman (who's drunk), and when arrested in an airport agrees to resign but then doesn't. I can't think of a term in our current dictionary with a clearer definition.

This gay, straight bi discussion here is interesting. Without defining the terms all could be right. I don't have the source for this but I remember reading these statistics:
This is an extremely intelligent post, Freddie. It is roughly based on the Kinsey statistics, which suggest that lifelong monosexuality at either end of the spectrum (hetero and homo) is relatively rare. (Strictly extrapolating from Kinsey, it is about 15% at the het end, and 5% at the homo end, but almost everyone believes that is partially distorted by the social pressure to be str8.) Most men, at least, have a relatively fluid and unfixed sexuality while in their teens and early 20s. It is not universal, so jumping a roommate has about a 10% chance of being a dismal failure and perhaps causing an altercation, but there is a rather high possibility that (under the right circumstances) roomie will be just fine with it.
 

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TEll you what works for me. With good results in the past. Drink with roommate, but let him get much drunker than you. Put in a porn tape, preferebly with a scene that has two guys in it. Best if it has a lady in the scene too. Then say things like, "shit, look at that," and "looks like those two guys are having a good time there." Rub crotch some, then start talking about bj's. Has always worked in getting my roommates worked up into a frenzy. Most supposedly straight guys are most concerned about their buds finding out, so next morning act if nothing happened. Sure fire way to get a repeat visit.
 
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Sure. It is a man who (while sober) will only have sex with a woman (who's drunk), and when arrested in an airport agrees to resign but then doesn't. I can't think of a term in our current dictionary with a clearer definition.

Or just a male who has no interest in sleeping with other men. For example, I personally hate soda, I simply won't drink it. Drinking alcohol won't convince me to drink soda.

Using your definition of straight, I could then define gay men. Gays (and bisexuals) are genetically deficient perverts who attempt to corrupt moral values by seducing (typically unsuccessfully) straight men by means that would be considered illegal in any court of law.

Is this entire board really suggesting that the kid who made this post should get his roommate drunk and then have sex with him? That's called rape, fellas. If I get a girl piss drunk and then have sex with her when she's in a delusional state of mind, its frankly no different from what everyone seems to be suggesting around here.

But hey buddy, if you really want to do that to your roommate and he falls for it - chances are you're going to have a hell of an awkward ride.
 

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For the millionth time, anyone who accepts isn't straight. They're bi, at least to some extent. That isn't to say that they don't self-identify as straight because they're insecure, unsure, or in denial.
Well there's the thing right there. It's a term of self-identification. A guy can be straight and still be curious about guys, or go through a period of experimentation.

All 'straight guy' means is that he has a conscious preference to have intimate relations with females--that he chooses women over men. It's not a club you get kicked out of because you kissed a guy at a bar one night.

Because that's like saying that there are lots of Italian men who are actually Dutch.
There are, actually. There are plenty of Dutch citizens with Italian heritage, and vice versa. Your mistake is in thinking that the word 'straight' is the same as '100% heterosexual' as a rule, and anyone else is wrong. It's not the case.
Gays (and bisexuals) are genetically deficient perverts who attempt to corrupt moral values by seducing (typically unsuccessfully) straight men by means that would be considered illegal in any court of law.
Way to be an asshole. What's your support for any of that? And since when is having a drink with someone illegal behavior? What law makes it ilelgal?

Is this entire board really suggesting that the kid who made this post should get his roommate drunk and then have sex with him? That's called rape, fellas.
No, it's called "hanging out"--or have you never been to college? It's a social atmosphere where people drink, which makes them more relaxed and comfortable, especially in a homophobic society where guys feel the need to be stiff jerks afraid of looking anything other than red-blooded masculine. Having a few drinks and having an honest conversation and perhaps carrying it further between two willing parties is completely normal--otherwise, every date you've ever been on where the girl had a drink is rape, too. There's a big difference between that and maliciously taking advantage of someone (like the person who suggested just crawling into bed).
 

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Well there's the thing right there. It's a term of self-identification. A guy can be straight and still be curious about guys, or go through a period of experimentation.

All 'straight guy' means is that he has a conscious preference to have intimate relations with females--that he chooses women over men. It's not a club you get kicked out of because you kissed a guy at a bar one night.

Your mistake is in thinking that the word 'straight' is the same as '100% heterosexual' as a rule, and anyone else is wrong. It's not the case.

I suggest you look up the words "straight (heterosexual)", "gay (homosexual)", and "bisexual" in a dictionary. You're in for a surprise, evidently.

You're free to make up meanings for words if you like, but don't expect the rest of us to play along.
 

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I suggest you look up the words "straight (heterosexual)"
Hmm. Preference for the opposite sex. Does it say exclusive? Does it say "zero attraction to same sex"? Does it say anything of the sort?

Surprise!
You're free to make up meanings for words if you like, but don't expect the rest of us to play along.
Read any academic text on human sexuality. You're the only one making up meanings.
 

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No, it's called "hanging out"--or have you never been to college? It's a social atmosphere where people drink, which makes them more relaxed and comfortable, especially in a homophobic society where guys feel the need to be stiff jerks afraid of looking anything other than red-blooded masculine. Having a few drinks and having an honest conversation and perhaps carrying it further between two willing parties is completely normal--otherwise, every date you've ever been on where the girl had a drink is rape, too. There's a big difference between that and maliciously taking advantage of someone (like the person who suggested just crawling into bed).

I think quite a few posts here suggested, among other things, that the OP get his roommate drunk, smoke pot with him, or give him a blowjob while he's sleeping. Not "a few drinks and an honest conversation". Not awfully consensual.

I agree that rowing88 put it rather obnoxiously, but he does have a point. A lot of the techniques suggested here border on sexual assault, and if the OP was a straight male and his roommate was a woman, he'd have been shouted down 2 pages ago.
 

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Hmm. Preference for the opposite sex. Does it say exclusive? Does it say "zero attraction to same sex"? Does it say anything of the sort?

Surprise!

Surprise! You didn't read the definition of bisexual! :rolleyes: Congratulations, you win the "shortest attention span of the day" award.

Read any academic text on human sexuality. You're the only one making up meanings.

Does it make you feel better to imagine that you can potentially have sex with any male?
 

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Surprise! You didn't read the definition of bisexual! :rolleyes: Congratulations, you win the "shortest attention span of the day" award.
A man with a strong preference for women over men can easily identify as straight.

It's a self-identifying term...80% of the public identifies as straight...according to your definition, almost all of them are lying.

According to experts on human sexuality, sexuality is a continuum. If you split it into thirds for each, there's a lot of straight men who have had some experience with other men. It doesn't make them bisexual or gay.
Does it make you feel better to imagine that you can potentially have sex with any male?
Does it make you feel more manly to be boneheaded and intolerant? Does it make you feel special to go in the face of medical and science professionals? Can you see words in the dictionary that aren't there? Do es it make you feel secure by pretending that "straight" means you're in a special fort where you don't have to worry that you might be curious at one time in your life?

Maybe you just like to hear yourself talk and to make definitions mean what you want them to mean, instead of what they actually mean, so you can get off by being an Internet hotshot.
 

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A friend of mine had the same dormmate in philadelphia for four years.Each one HOT. One was REALLY HOT! They lied alot to each other about girlfriend's and read playboy's. Imagine how they felt when they met up on the dance floor of the DCA club in just their underwear! Quite a suprise!
 

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Does it make you feel more manly to be boneheaded and intolerant? Does it make you feel special to go in the face of medical and science professionals? Can you see words in the dictionary that aren't there? Do es it make you feel secure by pretending that "straight" means you're in a special fort where you don't have to worry that you might be curious at one time in your life?

Maybe you just like to hear yourself talk and to make definitions mean what you want them to mean, instead of what they actually mean, so you can get off by being an Internet hotshot.

Yawn.

Heterosexual= has sex with (or is sexually responsive to) the opposite sex
Bisexual= has sex with (or is sexually responsive to) with either sex
Homosexual= has sex with (or is sexually responsive to) the same sex

These are definitions. This is LANGUAGE I'm talking about, and which you don't quite get, apparently.

Self-identification isn't the whole story, as I have already said. Plenty if of people have a self-image that doesn't match the way they live. Fantasies don't enter into it. I can fantasize about flying, giving birth, or no longer eating meat, but those fantasies do not make me Superman, a woman, or a vegetarian.

Where did I say that there wasn't a continuum? 80% of the population may be to some extent bisexual.

But by all means, continue to post as if you know what you're talking about, "Jaime". I'm sure that now that you've broken your 18 months of silence, you have so much more crap just waiting to share with us.
 

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These are definitions.
They're generalizations. Heterosexual people generally respond sexually to the opposite sex. Perhaps you're not familiar with how a dictionary works? You see, they're these books designed to illustrate the basic concept behind a word in a few lines of multi-column print, without talking about qualifications, exceptions, specific boundaries, or details. Go look up "quantum physics." Is what's in the dictionary all there is to say about the subject?

Good luck at the symposium, there, professor.
Self-identification isn't the whole story, as I have already said. Plenty if of people have a self-image that doesn't match the way they live.
So you've taken the authority upon yourself to label the population for them, because they can't choose labels for themselves? Do you want to chew food for people, too? Who are you to question someone else's feelings about their own sexuality?
Fantasies don't enter into it.
Who's talking about fantasies? Now you're not only judging sexuality, but basic mental competence? Move over, God! We've got a live one!
Where did I say that there wasn't a continuum? 80% of the population may be to some extent bisexual.
But there is no "to some extent" according to you! You're calling people liars, and you're doing it using a strict definition not in any dictionary or in any expert literature on the subject. They might have thought about someone of the same sex, maybe they had an experience in college. They're out of the club thanks to rob, master of the universe.

How can you say you can be a little bisexual when you refuse to admit degrees of heterosexuality?
I'm sure that now that you've broken your 18 months of silence, you have so much more crap just waiting to share with us.
Who says it's 18 months of silence? Just because there's never been a forum post from this account doesn't prove anything.
 

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Why do some men seem to be so concerned that they are perceived as totally heterosexual?

It says more about their own insecurity than anything