Straight Roommate - Questionable Conversation

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  1. judyf20

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    A little background. I am 90% straight and 10% gay. I have been friends with this straight guy for close to five years. He recently moved in to my apartment. I have lived in a two bedroom apartment for over three years so the company and the extra cash are very welcome.

    So the guy, we'll call him B, used to date a good friend of mine who was a girl. She used to talk about how she was always lucky to find guys with big dicks, but never specifically mentioned B.

    I have never really thought about guys. I mean there was the usual curiosity in the locker room and I even messed around with a guy in college but it was a drunken night and never really thought about it much after. I mean, everybody does that in school right??? Thats another story.

    Anyways, a few weeks ago we were sitting on the couch watching TV and I said I wanted to check and see if a new episode of "Hung" was on HBO. He just had basic cable at his old apartment so he asked what the show was about. I went ahead and explained the premise to him.

    The story line lead us to talking about if we would ever consider doing such a thing. I said that I would never be a gigolo but I would for sure sell pics and videos of myself on the internet. He actually agreed with me.

    I have since noticed that he has been dressing slightly different. He used to hang around the house in basketball shorts etc., but since our conversation he has been lounging in boxers and boxer-briefs. He is definitely LARGE. I know this because he often "hang outs" of them. He has also started coming out of the shower every morning wearing nothing. I'm guessing 6 or 7 soft. He used to be fully dressed coming out of the bathroom.

    Sorry for the long story but my question is: Do you think he is trying to tell me something here???

    I have a film degree and have already started making and editing amateur movies of myself and he knows this. Haven't bitten the bullet and uploaded anywhere yet though. Do you guys think he is wanting to get in on the action and just waiting on me to ask???
     
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    Hard to say, but let me know if you need an extra cameraman!
     
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    I think it's completely normal for any guy to go around the his house in his boxers. Perhaps he is just now getting comfortable enough to do it. I have a couple close friends who would not think twice before changing in front of me with no sexual intentions. But than again.... your intuition is right most of the time. Make a joke about his size and see how he replies
     
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    I think he just saw a different side of you that got him comfortable, so now he feels at home and is finally acting like it. Sorry bud. I think, and don't take this the wrong way, but maybe part of it is wishful thinking on your behalf? let's put it this way, would you want him to join you on a movie, or what would you say if he did ask?
     
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    I was sitting the couch tonight and he walked by me wearing just boxers. I know this is normal for guys to do because I am a normal guy, but typically I make sure that my dick isn't coming out of the fly. I know it didn't happen to him on accident because it is too big to just pop out.

    I made a comment about him poking an eye out with that thing and all he said was "I don't care what you say, I don't think my monster doesn't bother you." To which I replied, " You think right."
     
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    haa, Than I think you might be right. step number two is for you to confirm that his monster does not bother you and it has to be done as a joke as well.
    So, what are you going to do if he does want to fool around with you? are you going to give it a try or does it freak you out enough to where it's out of the question?
     
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    End of story? "I don't think my monster doesn't bother you" is a double negative which can be translated "I think my monster bothers you". Is that what you agreed to, or was it just bad grammar? Not picking, just interested to know.
     
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    Sounds like an interesting situation. I definitely think he feels comfortable around you since you two have had more open conversations. And since those conversations walking around like LOTS of guys do, have dressed, is sorta par for the course. Since he knows ur open about the idea of selling photos (sorta exhibitionistic) and u have a film degree, etc., then maybe he's feeling YOU out, to see if you would want to film him. I mean, for all we know he if turned on my the fact that you two can do something sexual, but maybe not. Maybe he's an exhibitionist and knows you are intrigued by "Hung", which he is. Just ask him flat out ... would he be willing for u to video him? would he be into that? Flatter him by how "hung" he appears and you'd like to get him on film. Then while ur are in the process the heat may turn up when you feel even MORE comfortable with each other if you guys want it.
     
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    well you should just ask him.
     
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    I agree with the above 2 posters. Just ask him. I mean, if you two are friends and comfortable with each other what's the harm in being honest? h and if you choose this path, play out the worst case scenario. I mean, I think the worst that happens is he flips out, packs his shit and leaves, in which case, how much of a friend was he that he couldn't appreciate your honesty? Oh and make sure to tell him that you are trying to be open and honest, not conniving or any other sketchy business. You two sound like pretty great friends so my advice is be honest. If he is serious about you filming him and such wooooo you have a new model. If not, meh, he continues walk around half naked, penis-flopping and you still only have to pay half the rent as before. Nothing really extreme is going to drastically change your life either ways...unless he turns out to be an alien or something crazy like that, but i doubt that. Good luck!
     
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    I look Fwd to a 'preview' of the Video
    when you release it'
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    Did not mean this to be a double negative. I know it is normal for straight guys to walk around in boxers. I am a straight guy after all. However, when I do so I make sure that I am not hanging out of the fly of my boxers. Pretty easy to tell. I appreciate all your help guys. Anybody ever had a similar situation that didn't end up in the other guy walking away pissed off?????
     
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    hey lol
     
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    I can already tell, after reading that much of your post, you're a homo dude. Nothing wrong with it, just go with it.
     
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    Let him know that if he ever wants any nude shots done, you'd be happy to help.
     
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    put me on the list for the video man
     
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    I've posted this before, but I had a "str8" roommate in a college dorm. He banged his gf all the time. He played soccer, had a great body ... 6 pack, tree trunk thighs and just cool. i had photography classes and took photos all over the place ... outdoors, in our room, close ups of him studying. he hung out with me and some of my friends (he knew i was gay) sometimes. told him before he had a great body (which of course he did). after going for drinks one time we got back and i'm ready to crash. he doesn't leave and joins me in my bed. we have a totally hot tumble. so damn hot. next day all was cool. messed around again as well. then i was a groomsman in his wedding. all turned out good.
     
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    (he knew i was gay) sometimes. told him before he had a great body (which of course he did). after going for drinks one time we got back and i'm ready to crash. he doesn't leave and joins me in my bed. we have a totally hot tumble. so damn hot. next day all was cool. messed around again as well. then i was a groomsman in his wedding. all turned out good.


    WONDERFUL
    Lovely to read of such .. for a change
    Thanks
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    I have an update for you guys. I got home from work today at the same time I always do. I mention this because it takes the same amount of time in traffic etc everyday of my life. He knows this.

    Anyways, I walk in to find him on the couch in the living room right inside the door. He had no clothes on. Not doing anything but completely naked and watching some porn on PPV.

    So here I am getting home from work and all I see is a raging hard on. Wasn't sure what to do????? I really wanted a beer and made a comment about this fact. He told me to grab one and have a seat since he was sitting there having one as well. He wasn't drunk. I know this because there was only one bottle in the trash can. Thought that if there were a lot it was my time to make a move. Not the case.

    I sat down on the couch and started drinking away. Stripped down too but left my boxers on. He was hard for a good 40 minutes without any stimulation of any kind. Which I have to give him props for. We even stopped watching porn and watched Dexter. Might be a little scared that serial killers make my roommates dick hard. LOL

    Not sure if I need to make a move or what???? This is beyond just taking some photos and video now. I think he wants to mess around but not sure.

    I know you guys said that he might just be comfortable in my house now, but I have never been comfortable enough with another guy to just be on full display with my dick out knowing that another straight guy was gonna walk in. At least not for that long. Let me know what you think.

    By the way. I guessed 6 or 7 soft. At LEAST 10 hard maybe 11. It was huge, and I am small by no means. It looked like something you would see in a sideshow. LOL. By the way, been an interesting week so check out my post about my cop friend.
     
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    So now I know how to become a groomsman.:tongue:
     
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