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I agree with the flow of the above replies. i think your open communication facilitated a new level of comfort in him around you. i agree to just ask in a way that if he doesn't take you up on the offer that at least he be flattered and to leave an opening for some possible levity.
 

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Well may be the conversation was an ice breaker and he started to feel more comfortable after that. But it may be that he wants something. Perhaps you could try one day and see how he reacts.
 

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Anyways, I walk in to find him on the couch in the living room right inside the door. He had no clothes on. Not doing anything but completely naked and watching some porn on PPV.

So here I am getting home from work and all I see is a raging hard on.

Dude, catch a clue. Your bud has made the 1st move (hanging around in his underwear), 2nd move (hanging around naked) and 3rd move (showing you his bone). If you haven't put him off by ignoring him his next move will probably be kneeling down and asking you to feed him your cock.

Look, my guess is your friend has some experience at this. Why not surprise him and have him catch you naked playing with yourself. Hell it's your place. If that's to direct, next time you are watching porn, say I'm horny and whip out your dick. Bet that will get the balls rolling.

And don't worry about going down on him. The 1st time I was with a chick, my cock wasn't in her pussy. The 1st time I was with a dude our cocks weren't up each others asses. Just stroke together, compare cocks, rub em against each other (feels great) maybe ask him if you can feel his. If he's not already stroking you. Don't worry about gay/straight. Just enjoy and see where it goes. Like I said, I'll be your buds done this before, he'll know what to do.
 

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What you SHOULD have done on the couch was comment on how big his cock is. Then ask him how long it is. And use the # 1 way to get something going with a "straight" guy -- Say "Wanna compare?" Perfect opportunity to put the two dicks next to each other. I don't mean sitting next to each other I mean putting the DICKS next to each other. In other words stand up facing each other with your cocks side by side and preferably touching. Things usually heat up pretty quick after that because you're handling them, lining them up etc. so your touching each other's dicks as well as your own. I've use this "ploy" (not really a ploy since he wants it too) with much success.

Still not too late. Sometime when you're chilling together say "Bro that was some impressive unit I saw on you -- how big is it, officially?" and then proceed to the comparing phase, see above.

If this is too personal, you don't have to answer -- How many women have you had sex with? Do they have to throw themselves at you also or are you the initiator? Because I would have had sex with this stud a half a dozen times by now. Just thinking the amount of hetero sex you've had might be a clue to your real interests.

Also, why would a straight guy call himself Judy? Not judging, just asking.

Good luck and please keep us posted.
 

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I think he just saw a different side of you that got him comfortable, so now he feels at home and is finally acting like it. Sorry bud. I think, and don't take this the wrong way, but maybe part of it is wishful thinking on your behalf? let's put it this way, would you want him to join you on a movie, or what would you say if he did ask?
I think this says it all buddie
 

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Why is it that guys always insist that another was anything greater than 10 inches? This will probably come accross as rude and mean, but I'm sorry buddy, I'm thinking this story is a bit fabricated. At least in part.
 

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... This will probably come accross as rude and mean, but I'm sorry buddy, I'm thinking this story is a bit fabricated. At least in part.
Actually, I've had somewhat similar experiences with two different roomies. It does happen, and yes it can be confusing (probably for both parties involved). My advice is to tread lightly.
 

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Couple of new developments. First was our trip to Wal-Mart. Both of us had a couple of things to grab. We split up when we got to the store and decided to meet up in the food section and get some groceries.

When we met in the food section we had one item in common. Magnum XLs. I buy these when I haven't hit up the internet to get my favorite condoms that tend to be a little bigger but have to be ordered. Not a fan of anything too snug.

He said " Thats good to see."

I said " It was good to see yours on the couch the other night and know that I am not alone. Yours is longer but mine is thicker. LOL"

We both had a laugh at this point and he confided in me about his ex roommate. One of the reasons he moved was because his old roommate was obsessed with his dick. Told him it was "beautiful", which it is. He would come in the bathroom every-time he got into the shower and brush his teeth etc just hoping to get a look. He said it was creepy.

Next development. He told me today that he sent me an e-mail of a couple of pictures and wanted me to use my MacBook to edit the photos and lighten them up a bit as they were dark.

The pictures were of him in the shower, showing his hard-on in a pair of white shorts, and on his bed naked and posing. Before you ask, I cannot post the pics. I feel bad given the fact that he hasn't given me permission to do so yet. It is everything i talked about and more. AMAZING.

I saved the best for last. He has been looking for a memory foam mattress pad lately and we recently had a conversation about how I had one and how comfortable my bed was. Came home from running some errands today, and after the pics were sent, to find him in my bed.

He said he was testing it out. I said, "Well I need to lay down for a bit". He didn't get up so I just hopped in the bed. One thing led to another and we ended up messing around. No blow-jobs, no sex. Just touching and dirty talk. When all was said and done we ended up passing out for a few hours. Woke up with him spooning me. Huge hard-on poking into my back.

Sliding my 10% gay over a bit but still not sure I want to take this further. I am not really attracted to guys. Think that I need to try it though just because the situation is presenting itself. Should I??? Even though I'm not into dick and just curious???
 

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Dude, it's just sex. Don't over-think it. Have fun. Sometimes sex isn't about gender but is just about pleasure, giving it and getting it. If you decide sex with another guy is not for you, well then you learned something. If you find you do enjoy it, then you're living the life.
 

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Why is it that guys always insist that another was anything greater than 10 inches? This will probably come accross as rude and mean, but I'm sorry buddy, I'm thinking this story is a bit fabricated. At least in part.

I read the post and the entire thing sounds fictional.
 

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Well I think u should try it out but it dnt all have 2 be bout sex r bj's, if u feel comfortable wit him u like talkin 2 him then just flow wit it, sit next 2 him on da couch text funny things 2 him, maybe u should just try jackin off wit him, i missed a lot of opportunitys readin too much in 2 it just take it 4rm me just go 4 it
 

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Dude, yes, I agree with the previous poster, you are both dancing around it.

I've been in that situation before. Let him catch you watching porn and jerking, and then when he is standing there tell him "well, if you aren't going to take advantage of the free porn and stroke, at least help a brother out - ha ha ha. "

At the very least, it should lead to mutual jo, maybe more. And, it could still be a "joke" if taken the 'wrong way' which I highly doubt.

Eric