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ive been disappointed at times when fucking pussy.It can be boring,just going in and out. Other sex hasgenerally been more arousing and satisfying for me,rubbing,licking,sucking,tasting,fingering. Fucking has its place of course,and is occasionally wonderful, but not always.What do others think?
 

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Perhaps you should stop when you're bored or at least communicate your lack of interest in continuing to your partner. Maybe she'll want to finish on top if you're no longer interested in moving or maybe she's bored as well and is okay with stopping. It's okay if one partner or the other doesn't want to go on or is okay with other other finishing. Just communicate and agreed what you're going to do.

I love to fuck but have to say that I almost always enjoy foreplay--especially long lingering foreplay--more than coupling itself. The intimacy and build up of tension and excitement is fantastic and coupling often doesn't last very long after foreplay before both partners come. What's the old adage? Fifteen minutes of foreplay and five minutes of sex? So be it. And if one round isn't enough so be it. :cool:
 
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I think you're fucking the wrong people and/or having breakdown in communication, if you find sex boring :p
 
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i know where you are coming from. there was a period of time in my life where sex got boring. as you said, it's just "going in and out"... same shit, different pussy, eh? i get it...

what worked for me was the person and not the pussy. the pussy was the way to connect with the person even if it was at a purely physical level and nothing more. once i learned again to appreciate what going in and out of that pussy did for the other person then it became relevant again. i enjoyed it again... if anything, it made me more selective of which pussy i stuck my dick in and therefore in-turn, was always more meaningful or of better quality (no pun to women) pussy.

i think you just need to revisit your own reason for fucking and if you have no reason then just don't. life is too short, go spend that time on something else that will bring you joy.
 
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I think you're fucking the wrong people and/or having breakdown in communication, if you find sex boring :p
Er....that’s not what I said. I said “at times” fucking ,can be.But there are lots of others things I love to, which are also what i would call sexual activity- rubbing licking sucking etc,or do you not lthink these count as “sex”?
 
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Er....that’s not what I said. I said “at times” fucking ,can be.But there are lots of others things I love to, which are also what i would call sexual activity- rubbing licking sucking etc,or do you not lthink these count as “sex”?

I did not in any way say any of those things don't count as sex...
 

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Possibly the OP is just not really into women. That would be a sure reason for non arousal and just going through the motions :

PS you can make incredible love to a woman and not have penetrative sex