straight vs. gay

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by showstoppa, Apr 19, 2008.

  1. showstoppa

    showstoppa New Member

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    i was just reading the last thread about guys being born straight
    and it made me think about this
    i believe that u can love or be attracted or want either sex
    it depends on either your biological chemistry or the person's personality
    but i find it easier to just not care so much the sex they are
    if i'm attracted to them i'm attracted to them and that's that
    a person's a person and i feel like i can have sexual or loving feelings for the right person, regardless of what's between their legs
    i know a lot of people are going to reply that i'm bisexual and i should just make up my fucking mind lol
    i'm straight but there's plenty of times where i've been attracted to other guys and i think its perfectly fine, i don't punish myself for thinking "gay thoughts" or anything like that
    does anybody else feel that way?
     
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    Sounds good to me, showstoppa. I agree in theory but I haven't met a woman yet that got me hot enough to have sex with. And sex seems to be an important part of being in love for me.

    In the end, the labels 'gay/bi/straight/trans/etc' don't always fit comfortably. Maybe someday we'll just let those go of them and get on with being attracted to whoever we want and no apologies or explanations needed.
     
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    here here
     
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    gay men cant have kids
     
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    Sarcasm faerie, if you're here... please show me a sign.
     
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    Oh yes they can. You forgot that you had one with the lesbians dearie?:biggrin1:
     
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    No more labels... just enjoy sexual pleasure... that's all about u need! Why complicate ur existence for being... GAY... HETERO.... or GATEROSEXUAL...
     
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