Let me just preface this by saying how much I appreciate that lots of different folks, all across the sexual orientation spectrum, can hang out and enjoy this site for what it's worth.
Today I'm writing as a 99% straight guy. I suppose my openmindedness might make me more or less gay depending on who you ask and where that person comes from. That's fine; go ahead and feel how you feel. For what it's worth, I don't feel threatened by admitting that big cocks, mine or someone else's, are nice to look at. In my experience, though rare, I have compared size with a few other dudes and it was fun. I don't feel comfortable taking it past that in practice, and everyone's permitted to fantasize how they wish.
So, I've noticed straight guys like me on here fit into one of three categories -- and the shades of grey between them may not amount to much. Anyway, there are straight guys on here who might feel like me -- straight in practice, not so narrow mentally, who can admit some attractions and interests with ease. I think there are other straight guys on here who are probably more sexually adventurous than I am, and have done more their share of same-sex behavior like oral sex and what not. And maybe if they haven't, they would want to and would go through it. Finally, there are some straight guys on here who are truly 100% straight, so straight in fact that they refuse to talk to other guys on here. Ladies, I hope you enjoy them.
I get it; we have a lot of attributes that make us different. I hope we feel encouraged to talk to people who are different than us on here. In chat, I have come across a few self-identified straight guys who are way less narrow than I am, so to speak; they're into and sexually do things I can't relate to. On the other hand, I've also talked to a few guys who either are outright uninterested in talking to another dude (for whatever reason) or wig out if I ask how big they are (given that they have a picture posted and I can't see it full-size).
If I were to reflect on this, I think that I too have my limits on chatting, but I hope they are more innocent than they let on. I'm interested in talking to guys who can relate to me -- pretty much hetero, hung, and willing to talk about their own experiences, learning when they found out how big they are, shit like that. And sometimes I'm explicit about that; I ask if guys in those shoes will talk to me. I'm fine with talking to people who are gayer than that. I just worry, even in a purely conversational sense, that I won't have much to say after so long. Would a bi guy or a gay guy be genuinely interested in learning how my college girlfriend told everybody and their mother on campus about my size? Or if girls always scrape me during oral? In the reverse, how much can I really add to a conversation about dudes that are hot and what sexually they'd want to do with them?
To be honest, you don't know this stuff until you start chatting. You can't know, other than what you can infer from someone's post history.
I'd just ask that we all take it easy and enjoy this site for what it is: a place for us dudes to wag our dicks around and talk about them, in a way that we -- some of us -- can't in our everyday lives. Fair enough?
Today I'm writing as a 99% straight guy. I suppose my openmindedness might make me more or less gay depending on who you ask and where that person comes from. That's fine; go ahead and feel how you feel. For what it's worth, I don't feel threatened by admitting that big cocks, mine or someone else's, are nice to look at. In my experience, though rare, I have compared size with a few other dudes and it was fun. I don't feel comfortable taking it past that in practice, and everyone's permitted to fantasize how they wish.
So, I've noticed straight guys like me on here fit into one of three categories -- and the shades of grey between them may not amount to much. Anyway, there are straight guys on here who might feel like me -- straight in practice, not so narrow mentally, who can admit some attractions and interests with ease. I think there are other straight guys on here who are probably more sexually adventurous than I am, and have done more their share of same-sex behavior like oral sex and what not. And maybe if they haven't, they would want to and would go through it. Finally, there are some straight guys on here who are truly 100% straight, so straight in fact that they refuse to talk to other guys on here. Ladies, I hope you enjoy them.
I get it; we have a lot of attributes that make us different. I hope we feel encouraged to talk to people who are different than us on here. In chat, I have come across a few self-identified straight guys who are way less narrow than I am, so to speak; they're into and sexually do things I can't relate to. On the other hand, I've also talked to a few guys who either are outright uninterested in talking to another dude (for whatever reason) or wig out if I ask how big they are (given that they have a picture posted and I can't see it full-size).
If I were to reflect on this, I think that I too have my limits on chatting, but I hope they are more innocent than they let on. I'm interested in talking to guys who can relate to me -- pretty much hetero, hung, and willing to talk about their own experiences, learning when they found out how big they are, shit like that. And sometimes I'm explicit about that; I ask if guys in those shoes will talk to me. I'm fine with talking to people who are gayer than that. I just worry, even in a purely conversational sense, that I won't have much to say after so long. Would a bi guy or a gay guy be genuinely interested in learning how my college girlfriend told everybody and their mother on campus about my size? Or if girls always scrape me during oral? In the reverse, how much can I really add to a conversation about dudes that are hot and what sexually they'd want to do with them?
To be honest, you don't know this stuff until you start chatting. You can't know, other than what you can infer from someone's post history.
I'd just ask that we all take it easy and enjoy this site for what it is: a place for us dudes to wag our dicks around and talk about them, in a way that we -- some of us -- can't in our everyday lives. Fair enough?