This is a hard topic, But I just wonder how many strait men or even women, have the secret desire to want to feel of, or have sex with same sex? I know it has to be a lot more then realize. I know that if they say they don't are just lying! You may be around other friends or even relitives who wish they could get with you to expierment or you wish could with them, but you or they just do not know how to approach it or are just afraid to mention or ask. Has any one got a good secret way to detect it, or find out how. I got a cousin who has a nice size one, but he also married and do not know how to approach the subject with him! I am looking for other opinions, and ideas on this, remember we all are hiding behind the mouse! no one on here knows anyone! so don't lie, be honest!