Strange Proposal...what do you think?

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  1. killerb

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    I'd like to get your opinions...here's what happened:

    I received an email from a guy I know - inviting me spend 2 weeks in Hawaii with him & his wife & kid...and I don't have to pay...thing is, I haven't seen him in over 10 years (we live in different states) and we were never close friends or anything...we didn't even go to school together, since he's quite a few years older than I am...


    Although I've never been there and I'd LOVE to go, this just doesn't seem right to me...

    What do you think?
     
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    hell I would go
    but that is me
    lol
    find out more then decide
     
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    if you have time, chat with him more. try to figure him out that way.
     
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    Sorry, I wouldn't go with anyone that I don't know very well. So he just pop out of no where and ask you to go with him to Hawaii? Or have you been having contact with him though email, phone? So, why does he want you to go, what do you think are his intentions? Sorry for all these questions, its just that you left many things out...
     
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    I'd start playing 20 questions with him. He needs to be answering the questions.
    • Like why did he call you?
    • Why doesn't he have closer friends that would go?
    • What is the status of his marriage? Are you there as a buffer?
    • He has kids are you supposed to be the manny?
    • What about meals and drinks? Who pays for those?
    • What about sightseeing expenses?
    This sounds fishy to me.
     
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    Well, I don't believe in free lunches. You may not have to pay now, but you will find yourself under the obligation to pay him back some day. Think about this.

    Anyway, we need more details about this invitation. Did he win a prize and is allowed to take anyone he fancies? Does he know the owner of the hotel? Does he get the air tickets for free? etc etc

    Maybe this is a chance in a million, so I don't think you should simply discard it without consideration. Investigate.

    And please - in case you decide to go - take some money on you, so you won't depend on him all the way. It is very important for you to have some free time for yourself rather than keeping scorting him and his family all the time.

    When is the vacation due? I hope there is enough time for you to get to know them better and them you better.
     
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    He is going to sell you some timeshare when you get there!
     
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    Something does not sound right about this. It has all the makings of a made for television movie. I would be very wary about this until I uncovered his motives.
     
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    What's the catch?

    There is a catch.
    Has to be.
     
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    what does his wife have to say?
     
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    You should probably stretch your tight virgin asshole out as wide as you can before you go. Ask some bottom men around here for advice on that. Also practice relaxing while being bound and gagged, you want to know what it feels like to be held against your will before you get there.
     
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    It happens. I have a friend who met an older rich couple. They had no kids, but lots of money. There is no sex, they just enjoy his company. They pay for everything when they travel.
     
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    You should ask him why. He either wants you to do a 3some with him and his wife, or he wants you to baby sit his kid, haha.
     
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    :lmao:that's a good one! i actually laughed out loud...
     
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    ur kinda preoccupied with anal sex, eh?

    being bound & gagged is not a concern of mine whatsoever...i'm nobody's victim...believe that!
     
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    OK I'll try to respond to all of the questions/comments:

    I do know the guy, I just haven't seen him in many years....we have chatting online recently...I don't know his wife & I have no idea whether he's mentioned me to her OR if he told her that he has invited some guy that she's never met to stay with them on their vacation...(i know, this is some weird stuff!!!)

    I highly doubt that he's setting me up to be the babysitter, but even if that's the case, to hell with that! I don't have kids of my own & I'll be damned if I'm gonna be stuck with anyone else's!

    I would NEVER go anywhere without having my own $$$...and I wouldn't expect anyone to buy my food & drink or anything else...

    the trip is in 3 weeks...
     
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    Keep us posted!!!
     
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    I'd ask him, point-blank; what's the catch. Aside from that, I'd have a hard time turning this trip down if I were single.
     
  20. Wish-4-8

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    Guys, I was being serious! Often, timeshares offer package deals so it is not costing him anything to take an extra person. Think about it. His wife will be there, and family. Sounds safe. That is no sexcapade or scene from Pulp Fiction, (you know the one!)

    You will get there, check into a nice hotel, then go to your rooms.

    The next morning is the catch where you will spend all day at a seminar, or presentation. You will be hounded until you give in.

    He will get extra points in his plan for having someone join. That is the catch.

    The only good thing is that no one is putting a gun to your head when you get there to go to this presentation. But you would be seen as "unappreciative" by your buddy if you dont go.
     
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