Strange Request for Advice

[BigBen]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Simon9 &#064; Nov 3 2005, 07&#58;02 PM) [post=357971]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
If several carloads of drunken sorority girls showed up one night on my door, obsessed with making an acquaintance with my willy, I should think it only basic Christian charity to invite them in for coffee.

Which they could have in the morning.


Relax, I&#39;m just kidding.





I wouldn&#39;t really offer them coffee.
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LOL...at the time I did not have a coffee pot big enough. Seriously, my point was that women do talk, and if you get enough alcohol in some women they find "courage" get very bold (or at least lose their inhibitions)and others with enough alcohol will follow the group. It was actually a very surprising and odd event. I was not necessarily pleased or flattered and part of me was disheartened that those girls (they were not yet really mature enough to be called women and I was several years older) would think nothing of invading my privacy and viewed me only as a "freak". I have had to deal with that attitude quite often in my life. I also instantly knew that whatever did happen, whether I showed them or not, the story would get around the campus within a day or so and the only "loser" in the situation would be me. I have had the experience, reverse discrimination of course, where really great ladies, who might otherwise really like me, have not wanted to date me because they thought since I was a "freak of nature" that I was somehow "tainted". I have met some very busty women who have also encountered something similar..good enough to have sex with or seen as a "freak" but not good enough to go out with and have people "talk" about you.

 

[Karena Morgan]

<span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><span style="font-family:Comic Sans Ms">Hi Kat

Thanks for your welcome to me by the way in one of my posts&#33; My first reaction to this was &#39;u lucky..*&*&&#39; cos obviously when I read your name welcoming me I didn&#39;t know you actually HAD a guy with a huge one&#33; Then I read on and there&#39;s TWO other women at least BOTH in the same position with HUGE husbands.... wahhhhhh.. am I feeling left out or what?...

It&#39;s funny isn&#39;t it (or not in some cases) how it affects people, this one thing about size of a body part. I mean, take me for instance here I am educated, ok looking single girl, hardly shy, hardly lacking for male company and I am on the net focussing attention on this one topic, guys with HUGE penis. I am pretty singular on this one thing and some might say even a little obsessive, who knows, not cos its NEEDED.. or that I think it will &#39;cure&#39; my life, or bring me happiness I lack but I suppose cos I WANT it &#33; I WANT to find and meet someone HUGE, I am visually, sexually, and mentally utterly TURNED on by that aspect of a man and I have never had it the size I want it.

IF I ever find it I might be in the position your woman friend is in, wondering how to deal with it. That&#39;s one of the things I already find interesting here. In between thinking &#39;awww why can&#39;t I find one&#39; while reading comments from other women here I am also pretty excited just even imagining some of the benefits you all get..the sexual part of me is envious.

But you are even luckier as these guys are your husbands and that is of far more meaning than the size of their willies, and a lifelong shared meaningful two way street. I think you dealt with the woman pretty well, and I can tell you yes girls at my work chat about these things all the time, rumours, speculation, gossip, sometimes I wonder how I ever get any work out of my team. My friends are the same... everyone one of us with good jobs and our own lives yet Sex in the City addicts and can be reduced to drooling vamps over a guy with a huge dick. I&#39;ve already mentioned that one lucky friend of mine managed to grab some weekends with a guy who&#39;s probably near the dick size of your men, and it was THE topic of conversation non stop for weeks and girlie envy galore, and believe me guys we girls do not shy from wanting to know EVERY detail even if we do gross ourselves and get our friend redfaced in the process.

I should imagine tho its different with a man whos valued as your husband not just as a supersize treat. I know when one or other of us has got &#39;serious&#39; the tone changes and people have to take care to adjust their ways of asking, chatting and such, even amongst friends. Remarks can hurt, scare, or cause offence and worry.

As regards the other way round well read my favourite saying you remarked on. I long ago got used to the fact that most men&#39;s eyes and conversations revolve around my chest and I could fill several threads just on discussions, stories and observations about that, so I would imagine it&#39;s similar if you are guy that&#39;s known to have huge dick, tho of course our silly prudey society here in england makes that completely different in dress and behaviour. A girl can make a fortune here just showing her tits in a daily newspaper whereas I have read here that some men take such time and trouble to have to &#39;hide&#39; their below size just in case people get &#39;offended&#39; Although I am used to the reactions about my top, from gasps to crudity to plain fumbling helplessness when men notice, there are still offensive and annoying moments as well.

One thing I can add here about &#39;partner&#39; reactions is that some men also have problems with other mens reactions to their gfs. I have had quite a few bfs who tho they get off bigtime over my chest size can easily lose their rag over other guys staring or commenting on them. I have experienced that possessive and insecure change when a guys starts getting fed up with the fact that wherever I go &#39;they&#39; (the tits) go first and get the first reaction. I have had that &#39; for f*cks sake can&#39;t you cover those up a bit more when we go out&#39; reaction which is usually the sign of the end of that relationship coming on rapido.

Do big tits/big cocks isolate us at times if we have them? maybe they do. It&#39;s often been said to me&#39; wow you should do Page 3 modelling with those&#39; etc.. and I often think if u do that sort of job, or porn, as a girl or a guy using your prime asset and openly revolving around it that must change you also. As a business girl working in offices, meetings etc, I have to often &#39;work round&#39; the fact that I have big breasts, and adjust for some people who wont take me as anything but walking knockers. I would think much of what I do naturally with my own body image is probably what huge guys and their LUCKY partners have to deal with. As long as the size of a body part is a sexual thrill, and image of desire we are stuck with this. I think Kat and other women who have these amazingly endowed men are really interesting to learn from and also the whole thing shows us a lot about how we all treat sexual matters in our daily lives and how far we have to go maybe.</span></span>

 

[Knight]

Some people have said I could/should be a pornstar, that I have the biggest dick they&#39;ve ever seen etc (they must have lived very sheltered lives hehe). I wouldn&#39;t do that since I doubt anyone wants to see me on film, and I&#39;ve been scared off sex with girls I hardly know, always turns out bad lol.

Also, I think it&#39;s only a good thing (having a hung partner) if you can handle it, eg your vagina, mouth and maybe arse if you&#39;re into that, are big enough. I think most of the women here are &#39;special&#39; (in more ways than one

) in that they can accomodate, or at least put up with the obstacles (not just the obvious ones hehe) that a man with a large penis can bring.

I spose at least a girl could have the guy as a &#39;trophy&#39; but I wonder how a guy would feel about that. I think I was kinda like that with the ex, I had all her friends asking me if they could try it etc (in more obscene words hehe). But I stopped talking to her, she talks utter shite.

So yeah...

 

[Kat]

Karena,

I love your posts&#33; Mine tend to be fairly short (no pun intended). Don&#39;t feel left out if you haven&#39;t had a huge guy. If you just look at the probabilities of meeting a huge guy, let alone fucking him...they are pretty slim. Granted, this site skews things a little...no...alot&#33; Anyway, I know you said this in your post, but don&#39;t get too caught up in meeting that one guy with the massive cock...there are so many great guys out there who can do lots of wonderful things with their hands, tongues as well as their "average" sized cocks. I started going out with my husband when I was 19. Prior to that I had sex with a few guys...all average in size. To be honest, the size of their cock was not high on my list...just getting them to go out with me was a huge thing (I didn&#39;t have the highest self asteem at the time...boob issues...). In fact, almost all of them were pretty damn good in bed. Anyway, before my husband asked me out, I had heard the rumours that he was unbelievably well endowed. However, he was the one who asked me out and must admit, I was a little nervous about how we would fit together if it ever came to having sex. Once we did have sex it was amazing...super intense. My husband couldn&#39;t believe that I could take all of him without too much trouble (hell...I was loving it). However, as Knight said, it does come with some drawbacks. Oral sex on him is impossible (unless you count licking the tip of his cock). And if you are into anal (which I never have been) I couldn&#39;t even imagine taking him...ouuuuch&#33; Also, it can be very intense especially when we are fucking hard and I would think some women might not like that every time they have sex. I just think for the way I&#39;m built, a large cock just fits much better. I do however, consider myself extremely lucky to have fallen in love with my soul mate...and I can honestly say that I fell in love with him before I actually found out how huge he really was. Anyway, I hope you find that right guy for you.

kat

kat

 

[Joh]

people in the hall,,,,they might be thinking... Sweet, don&#39;t even waste your valuable energy of what people think...they do NOTHING for you. Honey, THANK your lucky stars that you have him in your life physically and MENTALLY......it&#39;s called love. THERE IS MORE TO A MAN THAN HIS DICK YALL&#33;

 

[B_gagger]

"Oh, my God. wow.gif Now I don&#39;t broadcast his size to anyone except my closest girlfriend"

What surprises me is how casual my wife is about talking to others about my size. Maybe it&#39;s her way of addressing the liklihood of being broadsided by someone like you were?