Strap on with fiance...

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  1. littledevil83

    littledevil83 New Member

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    My fiance and I had watched a pretty intense porno the other night and it had a girl wearing a strap on with a guy. Since then I'm totally interested in trying it on my fiance and when I jokingly meantioned it he neither confirmed nor denied wanting to try it...Advice?

    Have you tried it before and if so how can I make him more comfortable with it both mentally and physically cuz I really want him to enjoy himself?

    Why or why not would you try it?

    *Much Love and Happy Riding*
     
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    gona tryy In english do not push the mater or he could feeeel emasculated
     
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    I'd give it a whirl. I think the thing is, as a guy, just reassure him of his masculinity and that the action will open new doors. If you have the strap-on, then get him really aroused and then get a nice anal lube and start using a finger or two in his ass, make sure he's cleaned himself really well. Then if he's comfy with one, work in 2, then grab your strap-on and get him in a doggy position or however you want to fuck him. Lube up your strap on really well, and then put a little more lube on his pucker. Insert the strap-on just about 2 inches, hold, and go slow. Make sure he's comfortable, it should feel full, maybe tight, but not painful. Then once you have it in, go to town.

    You could even kink it up if you wanted, if that's what he'd be into. You could turn it into a "this is how it should be" situation. Where he'd fuck your ass, and then you could just go "This is how you fuck an ass!" There are lots of options.

    Like I said, the hardest thing would be making sure he is assured that it says nothing about his sexuality or about him, other than the fact he enjoys a good time.
     
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    Thanks for the great advice! He knows deep down that I'm really the submissive one lol ;) ...and I wouldn't give it up for nothin!
     
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    Indeed it will open new, uh..., doors for him...! :rolleyes: ---Entirely seriously, however, Vast is giving you excellent advice (I always find his posts right on the money: thorough, well presented, and eminently sensible). And he's quite right that your experiment would say nothing about your fiance's sexuality--other than that he enjoys sex (as don't we all?). Willingness to explore new techniques is a great way to keep a relationship fresh and vital.

    Here, btw, is an older thread dealing with your precise question/situation: lpsg.org/144866-receiving-anal-first-time-need.html .
     
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    I'd never do it...but some guys are into it...
    your guy just might go for it...

    why wouldn't i do it? i just don't like anyone messing around back there...
     
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    I've had three women try to get me to do that sort of thing (including my ex wife, who nagged me for years). Sorry, but it ain't happening, ever. There's nothing the girl could offer sexually to entice me either.
     
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    What I would like to see in any of the aforementioned works is where the guy actually enjoys it to the point of orgasm instead of the phychological mind fuck played by the woman. I mean, come on, really, she would have to have one hell of a contraption to get any physcial pleasure from it at all, despite all the clitoral mechanisms attached. It looks to me all to be just a vocal mind fuck.
     
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    If he didn't deny being interested, he is.

    The guys who absolutely, positively do not want to try it will let you know.

    I don't think I'd "push" (ahem) the issue. Just make it safe for him to admit to you that this is something he'd be OK with. Let him know how much it turned you on of course.

    Who picked out the video? If it was him, then I think he's trying to tell you something. Good luck and keep us posted.
     
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    Id love to try it to be honest. I dont think my wife would ever go for it !
    Something a little extra kinky would be nice.. any advice how i could get the missus interested?

    How many women would like to do it to a guy?
     
  12. D_Layme Ducque

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    My fiance is the same! She really likes sticking her vibrator in my ass. And the sensation of it inside me while she fucks me is awesome. Best orgasms ever. Now she wants a strap on, and im lookin for one for her.
     
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    This is something I would really like my wife to try on me. I've used one on her, as well as large dildos, as my penis is on the small side. I don't know if she'd go for it or not. She probed me once with a small dildo while sucking me. Incredible orgasm....all over my belly and chest! I've seen videos of women with strap-ons fucking men and I find ti incredibly erotic. I also find women fucking each other with strap-ons erotic, too.
     
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    I say start wifth a prostate massage while giving him a hand job or giving him head ... when he cums you will know if he is going to like it
     
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