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    zwalker16 New Member

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    Hey everyone, I have a question containing strap-ons...Its a huge fantasy of mine to have my girl fuck me with a 8-10" strap-on but how do i bring it up? I am not gay and have no interest in men that way, i just love the feeling of a fat dildo in my ass!! Thanks for the responses
     
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    Also what if she acts like WTF are you gay, how do i explain to her im not??
     
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    I will also post pics soon for everyone
     
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    Usually, the subject comes up when a girl plays with my ass while having sex or giving me a blowjob. I have a very sensitive asshole, so I react in a very positive way and ask for more. When she realizes how much I like it, I'll try and get her to rim me and then eventually use a strap on. I don't like a big 8-10" dildo tho, and prefer a smaller one.

    Also, I may do the same with her - play with her ass while we're making out. That way, she'll realize how good it feels. She isn't likely to say you're gay when she realizes how good it feels and that it feels the same for a guy. It's also fun to do some role playing and let her be a dominatrix and fuck her slave boy.

    Good luck. It's an amazing feeling. (It goes well with being spanked too!)
     
  5. D_Skippy_Skidmarx

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    I too would like to know how to approach my gal with this subject.
     
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    I had to girlfriends who loved it. I don't remember how the first one got around to fingering me, but the second did it after I did it on her, and she loved it. My last GF doesn't like anything in that ballstreet, but I grew away from it fantasywise so I don't care.

    Btw, I never bring up fantasies verbally. I always just kind of show it bodily and see how the other person reacts. Often you can talk a lot without talking.
     
  7. Phil Ayesho

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    Can you discuss sexual fantasies with her at all?

    Try this...
    take her to a sex shop where they sell all kinds of kinky things to see if you can get her into an open and laughing discussion of what kind of sexual 'theatre" might liven up your sex lives...

    Approach it from the perspective of adventurousness and acceptance... i.e. that the two of you can entertain ANY sexual fantasy you might have and know the other person is going to be okay with it...

    Tour the shop and ask her about different toys, clothing, etc... Does she like th idea of leather? of whips or paddles? Used on her or vice versa?

    Hopefully this will prompt her to show interest in what turns you on... and when you come to the section with the strap ons, and look at the pictures of women dominating men... gauge her reaction... and allow her to see that the idea really works for you.

    If you watch porn together, try renting or downloading videos showing women pegging men, and see if she warms to the idea.

    There are some very novel new toys out there that do not even involve a harness and place a vibrating part of the contraption in the woman, as she pegs you...

    Called feeldoe
    Silicone Feeldoe ® and Realdoe ® Purchase Page

    good luck getting her into unleashing her hidden dom.
     
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    I'm loving that, up to this point, no one as said anything about the OP being gay. Way more open-mindedness in this thread than I expected. Should the girlfriend insinuate such give a quick anatomy lesson - aka the prostate is where it's at for men and up the pooper is the direct path to it. Maybe don't refer to it as "the pooper". More straight men should give thought to a least a finger up there while getting head. AMAZING!! Best of luck man!
     
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    Like it or not, the concept of domination is hard to separate from the idea of penetration.
    Culturally and biologically, there is a gender identification with who is the aggressor in sexual interactions.

    In that sense, there is a definite taboo breaking thrill in role reversal that has nothing really to do with homosexuality, even tho the man is essentially being fucked in the ass.

    Tho the sensation of having a guy do it to you would be much the same, the psychology is not.

    Being some woman's 'bitch' is all about power, and the fact that its a woman doing it to you is critical to the experience. To be the big, strong, and aggressive man, who is completely controlled by a woman he adores or desires can be a wonderful surrender of control for the man, an intoxicating sensation of power and desirability for the woman, and a spectacular unleashing of passion for both.


    While it might be something that a person who is naturally bisexual might be drawn to to satisfy his urges without infidelity... it does not have to be anything other than physical pleasure in the upsetting of traditional roles imposed upon us by our society.

    It might result in a heterosexual guy becoming more open minded about homosexual activities, certainly more accepting and understanding of the pleasure that gay men experience...

    But, basically, getting fucked in the ass feels intensely good... and having my normally sweet, feminine and lacy woman, who loves it when I am protecting and strong for her, turn the tables in bed and savage me until I am begging for it... that is, somehow, very balancing in our relationship.

    It makes manifest that I am completely devoted her, and gives her a sense of security in the power she has over my desire.
     
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    Now we're talking! Spankies and strap on play! :smile:
     
  12. D_Shia LePoof

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    You'll be all right & she may think you're different to jump from no anal play to a 8"+ strapon. Be honest with her about your sexual desires. Bring it up at a good time (playful, aftersex, when she's happy). Don't force anything! Hopefully it doesn't leaf down to the 'are you gay' talk. Those suck ;( Start with fingers or a small dildo/vibe to warm her up. It may drive her sexualy crazy & you both win :) Took me 4.5 years to get my wife on my page. I love strapon sex!!! Check our pics
     
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