Street harassment

[Ocine]

Yeah I rather joke, you get angry too easy you should take it easly like I said and im sure the life would be easier for you and people don't think you are just a "victim"
And if im sorry after, its because I would like you to maybe smile more and dont always feel "harassed" for little thing like my joke.... you need love (and that my opinion again)

I say it depends of the situation, of course if the guy say it with an angry face and while screaming you will take it bad....thats normal
Again I never said joke like that cant take it bad depends of the SITUATION
Oh and sorry I though I a put a smiley after my joke I didnt, so your accusation is legit, normaly im a fan of smiley and put them everywhere .. ok my fault!


And I find that cute (or sad) when people dont share the same opinion on this forum they just ignore.... but well I don't really care
Do your life and keep having a dark opinion on all I guess you will be happy

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

Are you kidding me?
You joke about shit like that just to rile someone up ? and then say LOL sorry!? What the hell is wrong with you?
What that idiot said wasn't a joke, and he backpedaled to say it was because someone called him out on it.
It happens all of the time.

Another one for the ignore list. That's a record.

Ooooh NOoooooo!!!! I am I going to live now!?!?! I think just fine take a look at my albums and you know I will be all right.

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

Yeah I rather joke, you get angry too easy you should take it easly like I said and im sure the life would be easier for you and people don't think you are just a "victim"
And if im sorry after, its because I would like you to maybe smile more and dont always feel "harassed" for little thing like my joke.... you need love (and that my opinion again)

I say it depends of the situation, of course if the guy say it with an angry face and while screaming you will take it bad....thats normal

And I find that cute (or sad) when people dont share the same opinion on this forum they just jsut ignore.... but well I don't really care
Do your life and keep having a dark opinion on all I guess you will be happy

I love you man and not in a gay way more like a band if brothers way. You sir have a great day.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

No one here wants to see that shit, take that shit to the show off section.

 

[Serial Kisser]

Stop following me and harassing me.

 

[henry8888]

Are you kidding me?
You joke about shit like that just to rile someone up ? and then say LOL sorry!? What the hell is wrong with you?
What that idiot said wasn't a joke, and he backpedaled to say it was because someone called him out on it.
It happens all of the time.

Another one for the ignore list. That's a record.

man, this is hilarious.Are you really that angry over something so small, or are you acting?
If not must be shit having to live life getting so angry over basicially nothing.

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

man, this is hilarious.Are you really that angry over something so small, or are you acting?
If not must be shit having to live life getting so angry over basicially nothing.

For some it gives their life meaning and purpose. It just comes down to most people don't want information they want affirmation.

 

[Popyuu]

Oh ok...the longer this thread goes on, the more I fear some folk see legislation of some type as a solution.

Harassment is a fact of life. It's one thing to be followed by a strange, threatening car where you feel your physical safety is at threat...it's another thing to get unsolicited phone calls from telemarketers during dinner, or someone saying 'hey mami, smile!' to you on the street. Reading about rape stories ITT is depressing...but what is more depressing is the anti social, anti-male bandwagonry demonstrated here, where all undesirable attention (which can range from staring to physical rape) are placed under the same banner, without a need to draw distinctions.

Then there are the chumps who dont see beyond their short sighted, impulsive desire to jump at women's defenses. These are the fools who shoot their own feet, thinking that they are so 'above' the brutish cat-callers because they identify with and support the backlash against 'street harassment'. The next obvious step to this line of thinking is the promotion of anti-social behavior, PERIOD...ie "dont stare, dont smile, dont complement, dont talk, etc to strange women, they are threatened by you". Is that what you want our society to become, serial kisser? because some creep made a u-turn to ask for your number? You want every male to never approach you? If men don't do the approaching (including the cruder approaches which comes with the territory of being the approacher, ie, not all men are going to be refined, literary word-smiths that will seduce you with prose)

Nobody stands to benefit from anti-social societies...sort how a heterosexual person like myself can never truly feel comfortable around a child because society deemed child molestation and my likelihood being a pedophile a frequent enough and probable threat...now, any innocent mundane interaction between a strange guy and a kid is looked on with suspicion and disapproval.

Now some people here want to extend this uncomfortable state of affairs to new demographic set of people?

I can get why Serial Kisser and Alteredego are swayed by their own negative experiences...But the male chumps who cant see the big picture (promotion of Anti-social societies, and criminalizing mundane activities by males) are baffling.

I really do hate guys like you. You talk about drawing distinctions but all you want to do is lump men and women into a category. No one said anything about legislation, what you are fearing is you're own actions creating a self fulfilling prophecy. You and others are pushing the conversation into that realm by completely ignoring every last person that disagree's with your emotional stand points. And oh are they emotional. Which is funny because anti-male? Thats about as emotional as one can get.

What emotion you ask? Fear. Fear that you'll be wiped off the social landscape when in all actuality it has nothing to do with you. Or at least it didn't until you poked your little emotions out and ran with them. It isn't anti-male it's anti-asshole you asshole. If you weren't an asshole you would have understood that. But you didn't. You got your panties all in a bunch over something that wasn't even directed at all men...just the ones without enough respect to even think about the bullshit women have to deal with on a daily basis. And when i say daily i mean it. I've seen it personally.

Guys like you feel so entitled to the rest of the world and the people in it that you don't stop for one second to think "maybe my kind words aren't what a woman needs" cause god forbid a woman has enough self-esteem to not need encouragement from a nobody.

Guys like you make me sick for many reasons, chiefly of them being that you don't even imagine women as ever being related to you. You're so stupid, emotional and downright douche that i'm sure when a guy disrespects one of your female family members you'll get all in a huff and forget all about what you said here. Cause thats how your mind works. I feel for the women in your family because you'll never actually stand up for them in any other context except for immediate circumstances. So while they are getting paid less and are disrespected in legislation you still get to feel like a man.

And you even got the next step wrong. No. The more power men have over women the less we'll get to enjoy them. Have you not seen what has happened in the middle east? Did you not understand the burka thing? Or were you just too stupid to catch it?

Oh and i'm sorry, no one brought up pedophiles....wonder why you have? Your herculian sized jump in logic says way way way more about you than anything else anyone else could.

Of course, anti-social behavior will not help anyone but are we really dealing with anti-social behavior? Cause i think we are. I don't know, maybe i'm about to be wrong but anti usually means something and social usually means something. As in someone that doesn't want to talk about social issues. Someone that just wants people to just be quite about their valid complaints. Someone like you.

Oh and hows this for fucking off? Yeah you might wanna just leave the thread now. Cause i'm bored.

 

[Popyuu]

man, this is hilarious.Are you really that angry over something so small, or are you acting?
If not must be shit having to live life getting so angry over basicially nothing.

For some it gives their life meaning and purpose. It just comes down to most people don't want information they want affirmation.

Says the guys that just can't let it go. Since we're talking about people being emotion and emotionally attached to an issue. Why can't you guys let it go? Did someone hit a very exposed nerve of yours or are you guys always this whiny?

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

It isn't anti-male it's anti-asshole you asshole. If you weren't an asshole you would have understood that.

This^ (and, the rest of what he's posting... yeah. He gets it)

 

[Curiosity999]

Yep. That's why you're a gold member of a website called Large Penis Support Group.

Whoa!!! All this time I was wondering what lpsg stood for!!! Omg! This explains a lot!

 

[deleted585598]

No one said you fucking shirtless mouthbreathers can't say hello!

Are you DEAF?

Are you ILLITERATE?

PLEASE SHUT THE GODDAMN FUCK UP ABOUT NOT BEING ABLE TO SAY HELLO! NO ONE SAID YOU SHOULDN"T BE DOING THAT!

Jesus fucking christ!

There goes Captain Save A Hoe again... Lol

 

[deleted585598]

Holy shit dude. You need to like...drink some camille tea and get like a massage or something. Cause you are expressing every vile emotion you have. Gonna give you some strange advice. Instead of doing this here in the area thats mainly for women how about you just take it to the politics section. Pretty sure you'll find more than a few guys (and strangely one woman) that'll agree with not only this issue but many many others. And do everyone (including you) a favor and stay there.

Let me say that again. Go to the politics section. You will without a doubt be welcomed there. If you decide not to then i'm pretty sure your opinions will not only continue to be challenged but you will continued to be found severely lacking. And thats about as nicely as anyone could put it i'm sure.

I kept it going because I enjoyed being continuously challenged.
I've already debunked all of their Street Harrassment arguments at ths point I'm done... When i become the subjectnof criticism and not the subject at hand i know i''ve made my point.. And at the end of the day I'm just an asshole who just has to have the last word... I'm sorry, also I'm going to have to respectfully decline the offer to going to the politics section of a website dedicated to big dicks. I'd rather just go back to my regularly scheduled program of meat gazing and looking for porn.

 

[AlteredEgo]

If a woman makes eye contact with you, you are welcome to say something nice like "hello" to her. Even if she didn't mean to look you in the eye, she knows she did, and that it will be perceived as an invitation. The way she responds will tell you all you need to know. No one reasonable advocates a cessation of social interaction between strangers. Just a cessation of uninvited interaction, and a tiny bit of understanding, and hopefully no internalization of instances where the woman in question doesn't reciprocate or even deign to respond. That's all. No one here wants to stomp on men's rights. No one wants men to isolate themselves. What is advocated here is a distinction between a woman passing by, and an opportunity to meet a woman.

 

[693987]

I kept it going because I enjoyed being continuously challenged.
I've already debunked all of their Street Harrassment arguments at ths point I'm done... When i become the subjectnof criticism and not the subject at hand i know i''ve made my point.. And at the end of the day I'm just an asshole who just has to have the last word... I'm sorry, also I'm going to have to respectfully decline the offer to going to the politics section of a website dedicated to big dicks. I'd rather just go back to my regularly scheduled program of meat gazing and looking for porn.

Oh, so that must be why you told someone to go kill themselves and generally have behaved like an asshole in the vast majority of your posts in this thread.

And as far as "debunking" stuff? No, you really haven't. You've ignored the first hand experiences relayed by multiple women in the thread. Basically doing the equivalent of sticking your fingers and humming really loudly, so that you can continue to imply that we're just being delusional, taking stuff too far, and being too harsh about men.

 

[thirteenbyseven]

I remember when my wife and I saw this story on ABC News my initial reaction was, in all the U.S., they couldn't have selected a more stereotypical location for cat-calls and propositions than urban New York. Here in Southern California, one can take a walk down at Laguna Beach or up at Fashion Island in Newport where young nubile twenty-something blondes are parading around in tight, chic outfits recently purchased from Nordstrom and there is nary a hoot, howl or come-on.

One also wonders if supermodel Doutzen Kroes were strolling along in the middle of summer- in a bikini- along the Promenade des Anglais in Nice if she would receive the same frequency of propositions.

 

[Daisy]

It's just plane stupid to think I should say excuse me but but I would like to pay you a complement but before I do that I would like you permission to do so and for legal reasons before I do so could you sign the release form.

LOL...the irony...

 

[Enid]

I remember when my wife and I saw this story on ABC News my initial reaction was, in all the U.S., they couldn't have selected a more stereotypical location for cat-calls and propositions than urban New York. Here in Southern California, one can take a walk down at Laguna Beach or up at Fashion Island in Newport where young nubile twenty-something blondes are parading around in tight, chic outfits recently purchased from Nordstrom and there is nary a hoot, howl or come-on.

One also wonders if supermodel Doutzen Kroes were strolling along in the middle of summer- in a bikini- along the Promenade des Anglais in Nice if she would receive the same frequency of propositions.

Many of us did acknowledge it is not quite the same for us in our different areas, and also acknowledged the video is edited/set-up, but the discussion of it brought up a bigger issue that sometimes women are treated in a sexist manner in a variety of different ways on a fairly regular basis, some ways which are dangerous and threatening and some which are very subtle.

Specifically, the street harassment video for me brought up the issue of uninvited interaction. It is pretty common for me to experience a guy's attention in certain environments, even when I don't want it. When my body language screams "I don't want to be told I should smile more because I have a gorgeous smile," I would hope just talking about this stuff and airing it out would get more guys to understand that sometimes a woman just wants to be left alone and she doesn't need to hear a compliment or even want to hear it.

Like AE said, hopefully the discussion fostered a little bit of understanding.

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

Just take a chill pill and relax life is to short to be angry at the world!!!
Ten Hours of Princess Leia Walking in NYC - YouTube

 

[Enid]

Just take a chill pill and relax life is to short to be angry at the world!!!
Ten Hours of Princess Leia Walking in NYC - YouTube

I wonder if you'd have the same reaction if we were talking about male assault or rape (big stretch but still). "Just relax, man. Take it."

I am not angry at the world, I would just just like to live in one where I am not treated like a sexual object sometimes when I damn well don't want to be.