hey guys, im 19 and had sex with a girl a month and a half ago. I didnt wrap because my friends knew her really well and she said she was always watching for anything abnormal going on down there. Anyway...everything was fine and dandy until one of my friends mentioned he knew someone who had just got herpes. I am kind of a paranoid person so i began watching for every little tiny thing down there and have made some discoveries in which im not sure if they have always been there. 1) about three weeks after the encounter nothing had happened. I was using some crappy face lotion for masturbating and falling asleep right afterward and waking up and going to work as a dishwasher in sometimes the same undies. kinda unclean i know. One day it seemed as if my boxers were rubbing up against the underside of the rim on my penis head on the left side. It was enough to bother me slightly so i examined it and noticed a red area that was pretty red. I applied ointment and the pain hasnt bothered me since. There still remains a red blotch though...not on the head, not on the shaft just underneath the head, but just on the rim area. its barely noticeable when limp and when i get hard it looks a little swelled there. but it has never hurt, itched, burned and feels completely normal in the present day which is 4 weeks later. 2) i noticed very very small white bumps on the head of my penis. I would think they were papules but they dont have a pattern...and they are mostly on the left center of the head. any help is appreciated, thanks :smile: