This has been bugging me. Some say you should stretch before jelqing, others, like Big Al say you should stretch after the jelqs. (and I really respect his opinion) I want to know the logic of each. I have been stretching before the jelq. Here is my logic. After a good warm up with the hot wraps stuff, stretching helps me ease into PE. Since jelqing is more intense, stretching is part of the warm up. Also, my penis is more flacid at this stage then it is after jelqing. Since I use baby oil with vitamin E and aloe, it is harder to grip it without slipping after the jelq. I do the OM stretching and then the once in each direction for about 50 seconds. I put more emphasis on the downward stretching since Big Al said it is the best stretch with the best gains (although the others should be done too.) I noticed that when I am doing these stretches, the head turns white-ish, like it needs circulation. Or because of the squeeze to pull it out, it sends blood back to the penis. Jelqing forces blood back out to the head. So what ever "damage" I do to the head during stretching, the jelq will "fix" it. Is this logic flawed?