I didn't read anything nefarious in his post either, to be honest. However, I am glad you two were able to come to an understanding and separation of the two worlds in which you both share. And, I think that having a teacher place the kind of trust in him that you are can serve as a valuable life-lesson for him and may ultimately lead to his being an even better person for him. So, you may not have only helped him in the ways of being young-and-hung but also in the ways of being a respectable and decent young man as well. Good for you, DMW!Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Sep 1 2004, 07:07 PM
I'm putting a good deal of trust in Pete, and I don't think he'll let me down. Let's consider this topic closed, shall we?
I quite agree except that I am already well-informed on the code of ethics. I was tested on it, among other things, less than a year ago to receive my certification to teach. The precepts of the code are still fresh in my mind, and if I have any doubts, the printed copy is in my desk. Keep in mind that Jena is a small town ... about 11 sq. km. and about 3,000 people; everyone knows everyone else. Teachers are likely to know the families of their students outside of a scholastic environment. One of my students is also my next-door neighbour. Some degree of fraternising with students in a social contact is not particularly frowned upon. Chatting with a student on a site called The Large Penis Support Group, however, may well be a completely different, and unpleasant, kettle of fish. We should keep in mind that Pete can hardly bring up matters discussed here without admitting that he is a member as well, and that's not something that he's keen to do. I admit that it's a touchy situation, but I have no plans to desert LPSG ... it's been my home for too long to just drop it. I don't expect, or want, Pete to walk away either. This board can be a great service to teenagers in his situation. Not to chastise members who jumped on Pete ... I appreciate that members feel protective about each other ... but Pete has said that he's not going to post here again after other members treated him like he 'took a dump on my grandmother' (his words). I'm hoping that I can persuade him not to remain as just a lurker. Change his user name, start with a clean slate. He can find much here that he can benefit from, but I'm willing to bet that he also has a lot to contribute ... especially to the Young and Hung category. After all, that's where his life is at present. I realise there are risks, but I've decided to chance it. It's not my place to chase away kids whose only fault here is bad judgement.Originally posted by DeeBlackthorne@Sep 2 2004, 03:57 PM
I think DMW would be doing a great service to himself if he were to be better informed about the nature of his professional conduct.
Pete --Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Sep 2 2004, 03:26 PM
Pete has said that he's not going to post here again after other members treated him like he 'took a dump on my grandmother' (his words). I'm hoping that I can persuade him not to remain as just a lurker.
Topics are presented and go where they go, unless there is something truly offensive or trollish in nature there should not be a reason for deleting the entire thread or its responses. I am somewhat curious though as to why you are pulling up so many long burried threads and then with ones such as this wanting it deleted--for any reason whether it be because a member was banned or something else. The topic had received no replies for more than 2 years and yet you dragged it out--Why>?This thread is a great example of one that should be deleted due to its being started by a banned member...
This thread is a great example of one that should be deleted due to its being started by a banned member...
Artema: Either a large number of people misread Pete's post, or this forum needs to grow up. I didn't see much more than the far remote possibility that Pete was insinuating anything malevolent, yet the following posts were full of Pete-bashing. In other words I think the tone of the following posts were what everyone was reacting to, not the original post. I'm not trying to insult everyone, this implies a very familiar atmosphere. Everyone here defends their friends, and that is good. I guess it was a potentiall bad situation, but lets not make anyone feel unwelcome without warrant.