stupid question

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  1. GemmaUK

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    hiya im Gemma i am new to the forums here and i was just wondering what its like to be with a guy who is huge. i have been with one guy that was bigger than average, but i was wondering what is different about being with a guy thats really massive. i know this is probably a stupid question lol.
    Gemma x
    moved this thread to here coz got told it might get more responces.
     
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    Well i'm not female, but from what i get told and hear on this site, girth wise you feel a lot fuller, and considering you're stretched out a lot more your nerve endings become a lot more sensitive. That contributes to the sex being awesome of course.
     
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    having never been with a with a guy i cant tell you that point of view.
    however my girlfriend has told me i am quite a lot larger than anyone she has been with and i can only imagine its a great feeling as she worships it.

    hmm i can see how this post may seem some what superfluous but i havent posted much today and wanted to contribute ;)
     
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    hahaha. Does she bow down to your tool man?

    Its quite funny how ecstatic some girls are to have a hung guy.
     
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    that and the fact im a great, caring, considerate, gentle, loving boyfriend obviously ;)
     
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    i know it is a bit of a silly question really, i just wondered coz u hear about guy who have like 10inch plus cocks and i was wondering whether they actually fit? lol i know obviously another stupid comment lol. x
     
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    hahaha Obviously.. if we weren't great, caring, considerate and loving, where would our members be?
     
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    Haha! Well the largest ever recorded was something like 13" in length. thats crazy. on this site some girls have taken up to 10 maybe 11".. Not many can take cocks that big balls deep. Its all about being warmed up and made ready. You cant just shove a big dong up there. Gotta get the lube going, muscles loose etc.
     
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    My guess is your members would be in your hand!
     
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    Exactly right! Personally i LOVE having a warm, tight, daaaaam hot pussy to go home to every night.. I love it as if it were my own. (own "attachment", it is mine figuratively)
     
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    It feels like a really large penis? I don't know how to answer this question. Do you have any really large dildos? The clear jelly ones are cheap and come in incredibly large sizes. You can find out what it feels like. I just bought one yesterday that was only $12 and it's about as big as TheBF.

    Not many women can actually take a penis longer than 7"-8" to be totally truthful. Most really long guys have never experienced balls deep vaginal sex. Some women are blessed with longer than average vaginas, and thank goodness for them, because someone has to have sex with these stallions!

    Some women really enjoy sex with longer penises because there is an erogenous zone that is popularly called the "deep spot" or the "backstop". I'm more of a g-spot and clitoral stimulation woman myself, but that may be because my deep spot has been a source of a lot of pain during sex with TheBF.

    There are some downsides to sex with a large penis. If you're with a guy who is too large for your vagina, then it hurts. I get a really sharp pain at the end of my vagina that I don't enjoy, in my deep spot. Some masochists enjoy that pain, with me it just makes me wince and tense up and involuntarily pull away. The stretch from a lot of girth feels like a "burn" to me if I haven't had sex with TheBF in a while and when it's not too intense, I sort of enjoy it a little bit, but it will make me sore a lot faster so that we can't have sex for as long, and I'd rather have marathon sessions of sex than experience the burn of being stretched out by his cock. Luckily, if I stay stretched out by having sex with him frequently or by using dildos, then I don't feel that burn because my vagina is used to his girth. Then sex feels the same as with a guy who isn't as girthy as him. When that stretching burn is too intense, especially at my vaginal opening, or if my labia feel too beaten up by being squashed and pounded, that's when I'll be sitting on a bag of frozen peas the next day! I've never had sex with a penis so girthy that I considered too large for my physical limits, but you do have to be careful about things like vaginal tearing, which will make you bleed and can take a long time to heal, especially if it gets all swollen and infected. Vagisil Satin has 1% hydrocortisone in it and it can help with the pain and swelling.

    Below those limitations, sex with a large penis can make your vagina sore a lot faster so you can't have sex as long, or even have sex the next day or the next two days if you've overdone it. I've sat on a bag of frozen peas for a few days after having sex with TheBF, and felt uncomfortable sitting in my desk chair as a result of sex with him.
     
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    Well there we go..... couldn't have said it better. Really couldn't have haha.
     
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    petite is great i tell ya
     
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    If you are deep enough, or stretchy enough, if you want him, if you're excited and prepared, if he's considerate and patient, and if you fuck him very regularly with all of those conditions met, he'll eventually fit. The only way to know if a cock that size will fit inside you, or bring you pleasure, would be to try one out.

    I found more than my share of very long, and thick cocks when I was single. I enjoyed the stretch, the sensation of fullness, and the amount of shaft that could move in and out on a thrust.
     
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    Aw, thank you! :kiss:
     
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    For Petite:And then after you had mushy peas and fish?
     
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    Well, this is a timely question, because I'm kind of dealing with an aftermath right now. My husband surprised me with a trip to the Keys for my birthday. It was a 3-day beach bash with just the two of us and a pair of scooters to tool around Key West. Thank god for the scooters. Our first day was an all-day honeymoon. And at the end of that day I literally could not walk. I mean literally, too, as not being able to make it out of the cabana. Hubby assured me there was no chemical supplements, just pure passion. We had experimented with Viagra before and I was hurting afterwards, too.

    I'm not small and he's anything but. And usually we do ok, but this honeymoon was over after the first day. He feels absolutely horrible about it, and I told him it was my fault, and it kind of is. I just turned 40 and I guess I'm just not as "juicy" as I used to be, pardon my bluntness. Of course, we didn't bring lube, and it was too late afterwards. I'm doing fine now, but for almost a week I had horrible cramps and pain. I have an appointment with my GYN to discuss the situation.

    Was it good? Hell, it was fantastic! Even right up to the end, but afterwards I could feel the pain start to concentrate right "there." Don't know how to explain it to the guys, but it was definitely a sign that the park was closed.

    As for the scooters, around 3 the next afternoon I was able to sit on one for a couple of hours. The third day was much better, but if we didn't have the scooters I think Cap would have spent the whole time just telling me he was sorry. Poor baby. I just felt bad for him but I also felt bad from him! Bad, Dick, Bad, Bad.
     
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    Nah, then I refreeze the peas for next time!

    Yikes! I hate it when the playground is closed. The last couple of times it happened with us I didn't write about it here because TheBF felt so bad about it, but it does happen sometimes with the "overblessed" as you like to put it. :tongue:

    It sounds like you had a good time in Key West, though. Bad Dick, Good Husband! What a great gift! Happy birthday!
     
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    Frozen peas: they're more than just a side dish! :biggrin1:

    S8
     
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    They become mushy peas! then you refreeze them!

    ....i would still come round for dinner though
     
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