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At the weekend, my GF dressed up in her sexiest lingerie, suspenders and all and came into the bedroom with a tape measure.

She told me to get fully hard so that she could measure my cock. She wanted to compare it to pics of other big cocks.

I was so turned on. Usually she is quite timid in the bedroom. This kind of felt like I was in the role of a sub.... And I enjoyed it.
 

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To me it just sounds like she told you that she was going to measure your cock. That on the surface does not (IMO) sound like she dominated you. Perhaps it was out of character for her and you enjoyed being told what to do? She is looking at pics of other guys from the sound of it.

Maybe it's a fantasy but I do not see this as sub behavior per say. As long as you got a thrill out of it maybe let her know and see where it goes if that's your thing. Enjoy mate!
 

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To me it just sounds like she told you that she was going to measure your cock. That on the surface does not (IMO) sound like she dominated you. Perhaps it was out of character for her and you enjoyed being told what to do? How is she actually going to compare your size with others? Will she force them to get hard also so she can measure their cocks too?

Maybe it's a fantasy but I do not see this as sub behavior per say. As long as you got a thrill out of it maybe let her know and see where it goes if that's your thing. Enjoy mate!

I loved it.

It was out of character for her, but it was good. I would encourage it.

She was just going to compare me to pics of other hung men, and also just wanted to see what my cock looked like to the scale of the tape.
 

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I re-read your post and corrected my part about how she would compare. Maybe she could get some other guys to get hard and measure their dicks with the same tape. Anyhow.... if you enjoy that, do it.
 

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I re-read your post and corrected my part about how she would compare. Maybe she could get some other guys to get hard and measure their dicks with the same tape. Anyhow.... if you enjoy that, do it.
Her measuring other guys is probably just a fantasy for now...
 

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Hmm not sure i would like my wife to measure my cock and compare with really much larger ones hehe... but it got me hard to see your video and i like to think that my wife and i are doing the same together bit on a smaller scale hehe after all she calls me "big ben" in that context ;-) hehe
 
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My first wife measured my hard penis once, which surprised me because we hadn't talked much about penis size before. She was clearly disappointed.
Shortly afterwards she had an affair with a big cocked man.
I definitely felt submissive.
 

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At the weekend, my GF dressed up in her sexiest lingerie, suspenders and all and came into the bedroom with a tape measure.

She told me to get fully hard so that she could measure my cock. She wanted to compare it to pics of other big cocks.

I was so turned on. Usually she is quite timid in the bedroom. This kind of felt like I was in the role of a sub.... And I enjoyed it.

This sounds like wank fodder for a guy into small penis humiliation which could fall under the submissive umbrella.

As a service top in a kink dungeon I'd classify it as a sub who enjoys the humiliation element. I've seen this even with men who have sizable penises.
 

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This sounds like wank fodder for a guy into small penis humiliation which could fall under the submissive umbrella.

As a service top in a kink dungeon I'd classify it as a sub who enjoys the humiliation element. I've seen this even with men who have sizable penises.

I would put myself in the sizeable penis bracket at 8 inches. But I've always enjoyed being judged against bigger.
 
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I would put myself in the sizeable penis bracket at 8 inches. But I've always enjoyed being judged against bigger.

Ok that brings an interesting element. Do you like the thought of being bigger or smaller than those you're being compared to?
 
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